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So - from my better half....

Posted: March 18th, 2023, 11:12 am
by Being There
you know, the wiser one. :)
My wife has informed me, that I should try to be a little more kinder, and non-judgmental
in my posts and comments, if I really want to try to help others, and to get them to understand what I'm saying.
And I'm sure many here would agree with her.

So I would like to apologize to those that I've been that way with, (which btw, have been a few)
and will try to change, with my approach being one more of - trying to not be so critical of others and judging them,
and be more kind and caring and understanding in my comments to others.

I hope that you can understand that I'm really not that way as much as some might think.
I'm just very determined to say what I believe to be truth,
and struggle with those who seem to fight against it.

maybe I've been doing this -
"If you look for the bad in people expecting to find it, you surely will."

when I needed to be doing this -
"If you look for the good in people expecting to find it, you surely will."

Sorry for letting you down, but with the Lord's help, will try to do better.

Re: So - from my better half....

Posted: March 18th, 2023, 11:48 am
by MikeMaillet
Being There:

Our wives might be related; I get accused of the same behaviour 😀

I've read many of your posts and have almost always agreed with them. It can be frustrating when trying to get people to see what to us is blatantly obvious.

Maybe, like you, I will take my wife's advice.

Mike

Re: So - from my better half....

Posted: March 25th, 2023, 4:17 am
by BeNotDeceived
MikeMaillet wrote: ↑March 18th, 2023, 11:48 am Being There:

Our wives might be related; I get accused of the same behaviour 😀

I've read many of your posts and have almost always agreed with them. It can be frustrating when trying to get people to see what to us is blatantly obvious.

Maybe, like you, I will take my wife's advice.

Mike
Threads about March 12 and 21 speculate endlessly, while real SVB doom beginning on March8 gets short shrift. Maybe Mead filled to the brim will do something, but prolly total devastation will come our way.

Better, but not half. :mrgreen:

Re: So - from my better half....

Posted: March 25th, 2023, 6:48 am
by Fight for the right
Being There wrote: ↑March 18th, 2023, 11:12 am you know, the wiser one. :)
My wife has informed me, that I should try to be a little more kinder, and non-judgmental
in my posts and comments, if I really want to try to help others, and to get them to understand what I'm saying.
And I'm sure many here would agree with her.

So I would like to apologize to those that I've been that way with, (which btw, have been a few)
and will try to change, with my approach being one more of - trying to not be so critical of others and judging them,
and be more kind and caring and understanding in my comments to others.

I hope that you can understand that I'm really not that way as much as some might think.
I'm just very determined to say what I believe to be truth,
and struggle with those who seem to fight against it.

maybe I've been doing this -
"If you look for the bad in people expecting to find it, you surely will."

when I needed to be doing this -
"If you look for the good in people expecting to find it, you surely will."

Sorry for letting you down, but with the Lord's help, will try to do better.
Most of us on here need to act on what you said