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Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 4:26 pm
by edgoble123
I'm not going to stand idly by on this board and be attacked, and then be sanctioned because of provocations.

I'm sorry for anger, but I'm simply not going to stand idly by with cyberbulling, the kind of stuff that I have continually experienced that goes on here when I'm trying to talk serious business. Brian, if you don't take cyberbulling seriously on this board against TBMs as a clear minority, you have a real problem sir.

Brian, you can sit here and pretend like the other people were little angels on the thread you locked, but that is simply not the case. You can try to blame it on the OP as if that is the core of where the problem lies. In recent years, I have left this place multiple times for these types of provocations. You sir, and your moderators allow it to get to the point where it gets, and then somehow all the blame is on the guy that is continually attacked and is reacting. You sir, have some serious things to consider when it comes to just who you sanction with board warnings, when TBMs are reacting to cyberbullying, the little guy standing up for themselves. There's something wrong with this picture.

My participation will now end for some time again here, but never to abandon my old account again here. I will always maintain the same account here, and if I ever post here again, it will be things of interest on occasion, never ever to speak to anyone else again here directly in any thread. If I ever post, it will be an OP, and that is it, never ever again to reply. If anyone cares, they can message me. This represents my formal protest to what has happened here.... again. This is the end of the way it was, for how it will be now on here, as far as I'm concerned. Because there is a clear Anti-TBM bias here as to who gets sanctioned for reacting to cyberbullying here.

I have too much information of an apologetic nature needed to disseminate over time that prevents me from entirely abandoning this place again. But as for my normal participation. Once again, this is the end.

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 4:40 pm
by DivineSpark
If you're this sensitive, you probably shouldn't post on a public forum.

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 4:42 pm
by edgoble123
DivineSpark wrote: March 15th, 2023, 4:40 pm If you're this sensitive, you probably shouldn't post on a public forum.
Maybe you should be sanctioned for your participation in the cyberbulling.

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 4:43 pm
by Godislove
DivineSpark wrote: March 15th, 2023, 4:40 pm If you're this sensitive, you probably shouldn't post on a public forum.
I truly am not trying to be contentious but I personally feel this attitude contributes to the problem. It's like no one has compassion or regard for anyone these days. I believe this is part of men's hearts failing them....they've become hardened.
I just don't feel this comment was necessary and digs at one's character.

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 4:57 pm
by endlessQuestions
What happened is all in the public record, I believe. People can review it.

edgoble showed up at an interesting time, and acted interestingly. Guess we'll see how it plays out.

ed, if you need a public apology from me for any comment I made, let me know, publicly. I'll listen carefully and act accordingly. I think we can all agree bullies don't do that.

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 5:01 pm
by edgoble123
endlessQuestions wrote: March 15th, 2023, 4:57 pm What happened is all in the public record, I believe. People can review it.

edgoble showed up at an interesting time, and acted interestingly. Guess we'll see how it plays out.

ed, if you need a public apology from me for any comment I made, let me know, publicly. I'll listen carefully and act accordingly. I think we can all agree bullies don't do that.
What could any of you possibly have to say to me now that is of interest to me? This is no apology for anything. I need nothing from you, and am not interested in further communication with most of the active individuals on this board. Consider yourselves, almost all of you, basically banned from my personal existence. There isn't anything almost any of you you could possibly say to me to make me believe you are the least bit apologetic for anything that has happened here over the years of this nature.

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 5:09 pm
by BuriedTartaria
I’ve said harsh things against the LDS church and do criticize the leadership authority aspect of it but I try to use courtesy when speaking to and of True Blue Latter-day Saints

True Blue Latter-day Saints (you shouldn’t be called true blue Mormons, you aren’t, your prophets, seers and revelators have rejected that name, it isn’t your name anymore) believe the 15 are PSRs. I absolutely don’t believe that but I try to use courtesy in expressing my disbelief in that and in my belief that people who believe in the Book of Mormon while rejecting the LDS church and their authority claims should speak up. But I try to do that without being mean to the average LDS member and to not be a jerk in how I criticize LDS PSR claims

I try to behave the same with Brighamites

If we’re going to have this conversation, let’s bring up how thin-skinned (seriously, you people want everyone on earth to reconsider their views and you are absolutely unable to do the same for yourself) and combative True Blue Latter-day Saints on here often are

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 5:19 pm
by Thinker
Ed,
Bummer that some have personally attacked you & others. Not cool. It doesn’t matter whether we agree or disagree, there is only 1 forum rule that shouldn’t be too hard to keep:

No ad hominem attacks.
No calling people names.

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That said, Ed, do not mistake disagreement for personal attack. If you state something & I disagree with the truth of the statement - it is not about you - but about the statement.

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 5:22 pm
by edgoble123
BuriedTartaria wrote: March 15th, 2023, 5:09 pm I’ve said harsh things against the LDS church and do criticize the leadership authority aspect of it but I try to use courtesy when speaking to and of True Blue Latter-day Saints

True Blue Latter-day Saints (you shouldn’t be called true blue Mormons, you aren’t, your prophets, seers and revelators have rejected that name, it isn’t your name anymore) believe the 15 are PSRs. I absolutely don’t believe that but I try to use courtesy in expressing my disbelief in that and in my belief that people who believe in the Book of Mormon while rejecting the LDS church and their authority claims should speak up. But I try to do that without being mean to the average LDS member and to not be a jerk in how I criticize LDS PSR claims

I try to behave the same with Brighamites

If we’re going to have this conversation, let’s bring up how thin-skinned (seriously, you people want everyone on earth to reconsider their views and you are absolutely unable to do the same for yourself) and combative True Blue Latter-day Saints on here often are
Actually, let's not talk about reconsideration of views, which is not what any of this is about, because nobody gives a rodent's, and I think we have learned that from the last thread. Let's about why it is that your unChristian provocations CAUSE and BRING OUT combativeness and defensiveness after somebody can take just so much without either defending themselves, or abandoning the conversation (those are the two choices) because you are so intellectually and spiritually superior to TBMs in every way possible, because we are stupid morons that cannot see the light that you so obviously shed from every pore. You insult my intelligence and my humanity and my spirituality, and I won't have it. I would bet almost any amount of money that I would smoke the grand majority of you by a very large margin on an IQ test, so don't talk to me with your airs of superiority. Don't talk to me about thin-skinned anything. I simply won't have the cyberbullying, and this is the end. I won't have it. So I will do something about it, since Brian and the mods here won't. I will exert my power of lack of participation.

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 5:26 pm
by BuriedTartaria
You aren’t a true blue Mormon and neither are the false prophets of the declining LDS institution


Edit: this was a rude response to what I felt was an exceedingly escalating, finger-pointing, point-proving response but I shouldn't have said how I felt rudely. I don't understand how faithful Latter-day Saints and Book of Mormon believers who reject the leadership claims of the LDS church continue to label faithful Latter-day Saints as True Blue Mormons when figures they believe are prophets have rejected that name and term for that sort of use, but what I said was rudely put.

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 5:28 pm
by edgoble123
BuriedTartaria wrote: March 15th, 2023, 5:26 pm You aren’t a true blue Mormon and neither are the false prophets of the declining LDS institution
And I rest my case.

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 5:29 pm
by endlessQuestions
edgoble123 wrote: March 15th, 2023, 5:01 pm
endlessQuestions wrote: March 15th, 2023, 4:57 pm What happened is all in the public record, I believe. People can review it.

edgoble showed up at an interesting time, and acted interestingly. Guess we'll see how it plays out.

ed, if you need a public apology from me for any comment I made, let me know, publicly. I'll listen carefully and act accordingly. I think we can all agree bullies don't do that.
What could any of you possibly have to say to me now that is of interest to me? This is no apology for anything. I need nothing from you, and am not interested in further communication with most of the active individuals on this board. Consider yourselves, almost all of you, basically banned from my personal existence. There isn't anything almost any of you you could possibly say to me to make me believe you are the least bit apologetic for anything that has happened here over the years of this nature.
Okay, then.

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 5:34 pm
by BuriedTartaria
If/when this board goes down, it will only make the fight for the truth grow stronger.

The LDS church prophet, seer, revelator claims can not stand up to scrutiny so they shut down dissenting voices and linked with secret combinations to receive support, nourishment and to not draw the ire of the powers that be and were given a profitable niche to rule over for a time

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 6:14 pm
by Scooter
BuriedTartaria wrote: March 15th, 2023, 5:09 pm I’ve said harsh things against the LDS church and do criticize the leadership authority aspect of it but I try to use courtesy when speaking to and of True Blue Latter-day Saints

True Blue Latter-day Saints (you shouldn’t be called true blue Mormons, you aren’t, your prophets, seers and revelators have rejected that name, it isn’t your name anymore) believe the 15 are PSRs. I absolutely don’t believe that but I try to use courtesy in expressing my disbelief in that and in my belief that people who believe in the Book of Mormon while rejecting the LDS church and their authority claims should speak up. But I try to do that without being mean to the average LDS member and to not be a jerk in how I criticize LDS PSR claims

I try to behave the same with Brighamites

If we’re going to have this conversation, let’s bring up how thin-skinned (seriously, you people want everyone on earth to reconsider their views and you are absolutely unable to do the same for yourself) and combative True Blue Latter-day Saints on here often are
What's a Brighamite?

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 6:17 pm
by TheDuke
You don't even have to be TBM. You can be out there but on any topic agree with some current LDS principle and you will get "PERSONALLY" attacked by those who profess knowledge but talk in "hate" language. I mean any time a topic is being discussed and it gets to attacking the person. this is wrong and should be stopped. There is a difference between disagreeing with an opinion and even attacking the person's opinion, perhaps to the point of pointing out where they might be in error. And just dropping the ball and saying hurtful things about the person.

Every time I get involved in any discussion that comes around to not even supporting an LDS leader but putting a bit of space between "evil" and "murderer" and "SRA", etc... I get 80% of the responses as personal attacks, and by about only 6-10 individuals.

I too think this should be stopped. OR AT THE VERY LEAST a safe space should be provided. A section of LDS FF where you can post topics and discussions that do not allow personal attacks from any side.

BTW once you're attacked it is hard to get back on topic, twice very difficult, by the third time it is hard not to lash out.

Also those spewing hate speech also seem to run in packs, like ravaging wolfs. One jumps on you and before you can defend yourself, your fending of 3-4. Finally, perhaps 20 posts later, someone joins with a post on the topic and then the cycle repeats.

Perhaps there is nothing to do about it. I mean, as I have said several times before, Mormon makes a very powerful case for the loss of civility and reasoning and logic on both sides in the last days. Perhaps there is nothing that can be done. Perhaps there is no safe space on LDS FF or any forum. Perhaps.

BTW I was sanctioned for sounding "grumpy" after the same 3 individuals attacked me on EVERY topic, EVERY time for several week, relentlessly. It is like watching the super bowl. The flag tends to hit those that hit back and those that are not considered sacred cows and stars, which my the most part here seem to be those with much hate and vitriol for the LDS church, looking under every tiny stone for something to add to the hate list while ignoring anything positive, except an occasional far reaching story of miracles from Nauvoo or very early SLC.

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 6:20 pm
by Hosh
edgoble123 wrote: March 15th, 2023, 4:26 pm I'm not going to stand idly by on this board and be attacked, and then be sanctioned because of provocations.

I'm sorry for anger, but I'm simply not going to stand idly by with cyberbulling, the kind of stuff that I have continually experienced that goes on here when I'm trying to talk serious business. Brian, if you don't take cyberbulling seriously on this board against TBMs as a clear minority, you have a real problem sir.

Brian, you can sit here and pretend like the other people were little angels on the thread you locked, but that is simply not the case. You can try to blame it on the OP as if that is the core of where the problem lies. In recent years, I have left this place multiple times for these types of provocations. You sir, and your moderators allow it to get to the point where it gets, and then somehow all the blame is on the guy that is continually attacked and is reacting. You sir, have some serious things to consider when it comes to just who you sanction with board warnings, when TBMs are reacting to cyberbullying, the little guy standing up for themselves. There's something wrong with this picture.

My participation will now end for some time again here, but never to abandon my old account again here. I will always maintain the same account here, and if I ever post here again, it will be things of interest on occasion, never ever to speak to anyone else again here directly in any thread. If I ever post, it will be an OP, and that is it, never ever again to reply. If anyone cares, they can message me. This represents my formal protest to what has happened here.... again. This is the end of the way it was, for how it will be now on here, as far as I'm concerned. Because there is a clear Anti-TBM bias here as to who gets sanctioned for reacting to cyberbullying here.

I have too much information of an apologetic nature needed to disseminate over time that prevents me from entirely abandoning this place again. But as for my normal participation. Once again, this is the end.
Ed I believe you called me a jerkwad which was pretty extreme in comparison to what I wrote to you. It's a two-way street my friend. This forum is a place where many people come who feel a sense of freedom to speak their minds about things they care deeply about that happen to not jive with your belief system. You are the minority here, yes. But I am the minority when I go to an LDS chapel and get called out for not wearing a mask or for speaking to vocally about our need to be born again. I was literally told that I cannot speak about that doctrine in Elders quorum any more. If you want to hear the full context of the story I can share that with you. But my point is, you feel like you are a victim here. Remember that that is how many of us feel when we go to church or even among our own family and friends. This is a FREEDOM FORUM. We come here to speak freely about things that are hard to discuss for most LDS and things that we are literally forbidden to speak about in a church setting. I'm sorry if you were offended by anything I said. I'm sorry if I added to you feeling like you were being attacked. But that wasn't my intention and I definitely don't think what I said warranted the insults you hurled my way. I forgive you though and hopefully you can forgive me.

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 6:22 pm
by BuriedTartaria
edgoble123 wrote: March 15th, 2023, 5:28 pm
BuriedTartaria wrote: March 15th, 2023, 5:26 pm You aren’t a true blue Mormon and neither are the false prophets of the declining LDS institution
And I rest my case.
Someone who believes Brigham was a prophet and/or at the very least believes he was an inspired, authorized individual to press forward the work associated with Joseph Smith and believes the LDS church is in error (varying degrees of error are held, everything from complete apostasy to maybe just a bit off course and having blessings withheld but that the church is still the Lord's church) since distancing itself from doctrine attributed to the Brigham Young era of the LDS church.

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 6:23 pm
by blitzinstripes
I didn't see any personal attacks on Ed. I saw Ed start a debate, lose it quite handily, and become very irate and start lashing out defensively when he had no rebuttal. At which point several of us expressed genuine concern, as he seemed to be acting differently. He was left with Christian assurance of God's love, the nobleness of the quest for truth, testimonies of Christ and the scriptures, and pledges of support. I challenge anyone to go back and read the exchanges and say differently.

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 6:30 pm
by endlessQuestions
TheDuke wrote: March 15th, 2023, 6:17 pm You don't even have to be TBM. You can be out there but on any topic agree with some current LDS principle and you will get "PERSONALLY" attacked by those who profess knowledge but talk in "hate" language. I mean any time a topic is being discussed and it gets to attacking the person. this is wrong and should be stopped. There is a difference between disagreeing with an opinion and even attacking the person's opinion, perhaps to the point of pointing out where they might be in error. And just dropping the ball and saying hurtful things about the person.

Every time I get involved in any discussion that comes around to not even supporting an LDS leader but putting a bit of space between "evil" and "murderer" and "SRA", etc... I get 80% of the responses as personal attacks, and by about only 6-10 individuals.

I too think this should be stopped. OR AT THE VERY LEAST a safe space should be provided. A section of LDS FF where you can post topics and discussions that do not allow personal attacks from any side.

BTW once you're attacked it is hard to get back on topic, twice very difficult, by the third time it is hard not to lash out.

Also those spewing hate speech also seem to run in packs, like ravaging wolfs. One jumps on you and before you can defend yourself, your fending of 3-4. Finally, perhaps 20 posts later, someone joins with a post on the topic and then the cycle repeats.

Perhaps there is nothing to do about it. I mean, as I have said several times before, Mormon makes a very powerful case for the loss of civility and reasoning and logic on both sides in the last days. Perhaps there is nothing that can be done. Perhaps there is no safe space on LDS FF or any forum. Perhaps.

BTW I was sanctioned for sounding "grumpy" after the same 3 individuals attacked me on EVERY topic, EVERY time for several week, relentlessly. It is like watching the super bowl. The flag tends to hit those that hit back and those that are not considered sacred cows and stars, which my the most part here seem to be those with much hate and vitriol for the LDS church, looking under every tiny stone for something to add to the hate list while ignoring anything positive, except an occasional far reaching story of miracles from Nauvoo or very early SLC.
Examples?

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 6:44 pm
by TheDuke
endlessQuestions wrote: March 15th, 2023, 6:30 pm
Examples?
I have provided many examples on other threads, some just a few days ago. I'm not going to dig them out. What your asking for is another example of getting after people. The comments should be "what would you consider a personal attack?" That would be on topic bringing up old posts that bore no fruit but hate responses doesn't help. So, I will give a couple of examples.

1. calling someone a name, at least a derogatory one.
2. responding to a topic by attacking a persons attributes. not their opinion but they personal attributes.
3. making false claims about someone. not the accidental misunderstanding but claiming something they have not said.
4. extrapolating something from what they said. Like you said you don't believe BY lied therefore you must believe he was a perfect individual.
5. making appropriate leaps of logic. Like one person says we don't know what happened but the person disappeared and your respond the person was raped, murdered and hidden for SRA reasons. By taking logical leaps and bounds that the person did not put in their statements or axioms.
6. Just plain calling a person a liar without any justification.
7. Making claims about a persons situation or background or qualifications w/o any justification and off topic.
8. changing the topic. Like one would say, I'm married and the response would involve polygamy or issues about gay marriage that have nothing to do with the topic.
9. Saying a person is stupid, dumb, ignorant, etc... because they expressed their faith (usually in some LDS leader or policy or something).
10. Responding to a discussion with pages of inane scriptures, out of context, that may or may not mean something to you but on their own, pasted in just add nothing to the context.
11. Like 10 but just repeating some scripture like Jacob on polygamy and then saying every other scriptural reference is wrong (Abraham, Jacob, Ruth, David, Solomon). Etc. We can take any one verse and say anything as has been shown.
12. repeatedly taking the same verse out of context. perhaps the topic is the value of tithing and the discussion becomes one of Ensign Peak or where you're money goes. Wrong topic.

Do you want more? I would be happy if there was a place for just these few rules.

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 6:50 pm
by InfoWarrior82
Beware of trolls.

This one's an upgrade from the others. Much more sly.

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 7:05 pm
by teddyaware
edgoble123 wrote: March 15th, 2023, 5:01 pm
endlessQuestions wrote: March 15th, 2023, 4:57 pm What happened is all in the public record, I believe. People can review it.

edgoble showed up at an interesting time, and acted interestingly. Guess we'll see how it plays out.

ed, if you need a public apology from me for any comment I made, let me know, publicly. I'll listen carefully and act accordingly. I think we can all agree bullies don't do that.
What could any of you possibly have to say to me now that is of interest to me? This is no apology for anything. I need nothing from you, and am not interested in further communication with most of the active individuals on this board. Consider yourselves, almost all of you, basically banned from my personal existence. There isn't anything almost any of you you could possibly say to me to make me believe you are the least bit apologetic for anything that has happened here over the years of this nature.
I sympathize. But why would a reasonable Latter-Day Saint expect to receive any degree of courteous respect or neighborly kindness from the bitter former church members and wolves in sheep’s clothing quasi-members who now dominate this forum? The multitude of examples in the scriptures and church history of angry former members who may have left the church but could never seem leave the church alone should have provided you ample warning that hoping for a positive reception here is be a fool’s errand. Pride, haughtiness, an unmerited sense of superiority, and a near total lack of humility are the spirits that predominate on this forum.The only reason why I show up here at all is to stay informed on the latest ways in which the enemies of the church are speaking evil against the Lord’s anointed, as part of my quest to stay alert to the unfolding signs of the times. All the best.

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 7:06 pm
by teddyaware
teddyaware wrote: March 15th, 2023, 7:05 pm
edgoble123 wrote: March 15th, 2023, 5:01 pm
endlessQuestions wrote: March 15th, 2023, 4:57 pm What happened is all in the public record, I believe. People can review it.

edgoble showed up at an interesting time, and acted interestingly. Guess we'll see how it plays out.

ed, if you need a public apology from me for any comment I made, let me know, publicly. I'll listen carefully and act accordingly. I think we can all agree bullies don't do that.
What could any of you possibly have to say to me now that is of interest to me? This is no apology for anything. I need nothing from you, and am not interested in further communication with most of the active individuals on this board. Consider yourselves, almost all of you, basically banned from my personal existence. There isn't anything almost any of you you could possibly say to me to make me believe you are the least bit apologetic for anything that has happened here over the years of this nature.
I sympathize. But why would a reasonable Latter-Day Saint expect to receive any degree of courteous respect or neighborly kindness from the bitter former church members and wolves in sheep’s clothing quasi-members who now dominate this forum? The multitude of examples in the scriptures and church history of angry former members who may have left the church but could never seem leave the church alone should have provided you with ample warning that hoping for a positive reception here is be a fool’s errand. Pride, haughtiness, an unmerited sense of superiority, and a near total lack of humility are the spirits that predominate on this forum.The only reason why I show up here at all is to stay informed on the latest ways in which the enemies of the church are speaking evil against the Lord’s anointed, as part of my quest to stay alert to the unfolding signs of the times. All the best.

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 7:14 pm
by endlessQuestions
TheDuke wrote: March 15th, 2023, 6:44 pm
endlessQuestions wrote: March 15th, 2023, 6:30 pm
Examples?
I have provided many examples on other threads, some just a few days ago. I'm not going to dig them out. What your asking for is another example of getting after people. The comments should be "what would you consider a personal attack?" That would be on topic bringing up old posts that bore no fruit but hate responses doesn't help. So, I will give a couple of examples.

1. calling someone a name, at least a derogatory one.
2. responding to a topic by attacking a persons attributes. not their opinion but they personal attributes.
3. making false claims about someone. not the accidental misunderstanding but claiming something they have not said.
4. extrapolating something from what they said. Like you said you don't believe BY lied therefore you must believe he was a perfect individual.
5. making appropriate leaps of logic. Like one person says we don't know what happened but the person disappeared and your respond the person was raped, murdered and hidden for SRA reasons. By taking logical leaps and bounds that the person did not put in their statements or axioms.
6. Just plain calling a person a liar without any justification.
7. Making claims about a persons situation or background or qualifications w/o any justification and off topic.
8. changing the topic. Like one would say, I'm married and the response would involve polygamy or issues about gay marriage that have nothing to do with the topic.
9. Saying a person is stupid, dumb, ignorant, etc... because they expressed their faith (usually in some LDS leader or policy or something).
10. Responding to a discussion with pages of inane scriptures, out of context, that may or may not mean something to you but on their own, pasted in just add nothing to the context.
11. Like 10 but just repeating some scripture like Jacob on polygamy and then saying every other scriptural reference is wrong (Abraham, Jacob, Ruth, David, Solomon). Etc. We can take any one verse and say anything as has been shown.
12. repeatedly taking the same verse out of context. perhaps the topic is the value of tithing and the discussion becomes one of Ensign Peak or where you're money goes. Wrong topic.

Do you want more? I would be happy if there was a place for just these few rules.
That's a good list.

I think in a private conversation it's all reasonable, and I would actually really love to be in a conversation with you where we followed all those rules

On a public forum, I'm just not sure it's reasonable to expect people to follow them. It would be nice, though, I agree.

Still working on my apology to you about "secrets", by the way. That one is throwing me for a loop. Still trying to solidify my position. Let's just start with "I'm sorry" for now, and I'll get to the specifics later on.

Re: Personal Attacks and Cyberbullying against TBMs on LDSFF

Posted: March 15th, 2023, 7:15 pm
by OCDMOM
edgoble123 wrote: March 15th, 2023, 4:26 pm I'm not going to stand idly by on this board and be attacked, and then be sanctioned because of provocations.

I'm sorry for anger, but I'm simply not going to stand idly by with cyberbulling, the kind of stuff that I have continually experienced that goes on here when I'm trying to talk serious business. Brian, if you don't take cyberbulling seriously on this board against TBMs as a clear minority, you have a real problem sir.

Brian, you can sit here and pretend like the other people were little angels on the thread you locked, but that is simply not the case. You can try to blame it on the OP as if that is the core of where the problem lies. In recent years, I have left this place multiple times for these types of provocations. You sir, and your moderators allow it to get to the point where it gets, and then somehow all the blame is on the guy that is continually attacked and is reacting. You sir, have some serious things to consider when it comes to just who you sanction with board warnings, when TBMs are reacting to cyberbullying, the little guy standing up for themselves. There's something wrong with this picture.

My participation will now end for some time again here, but never to abandon my old account again here. I will always maintain the same account here, and if I ever post here again, it will be things of interest on occasion, never ever to speak to anyone else again here directly in any thread. If I ever post, it will be an OP, and that is it, never ever again to reply. If anyone cares, they can message me. This represents my formal protest to what has happened here.... again. This is the end of the way it was, for how it will be now on here, as far as I'm concerned. Because there is a clear Anti-TBM bias here as to who gets sanctioned for reacting to cyberbullying here.

I have too much information of an apologetic nature needed to disseminate over time that prevents me from entirely abandoning this place again. But as for my normal participation. Once again, this is the end.
I am sorry that this happened to you. Everyone in the world is getting very mean and nasty. People all think they are experts. Selfishness is at a whole new level.