I’m not the kind of person who would make such a bold claim that I know how someone else feels to to know what they are thinking. Can I discern? Yes. Can I see patterns of deception? yes.edgoble123 wrote: ↑February 28th, 2023, 12:09 pmIf those are your perceptions, then putting myself in your place for a moment, if I may, I can comprehend why, and I can put myself in your shoes in terms of imagination, with the exception of actually experiencing what you have experienced first hand. I don't know why I would, because my heart doesn't go there. I don't feel the need or the desire, or the fire in my bones to fight the fight that you fight. You see, Kerry Shirts, who presents a lot on Mormonism Live, is a friend of mine, and Paul Osborne used to be a friend of mine. I presented at Sunstone with Kerry in the same presentation notwithstanding he is now in some ways (understandably) a bitter ex-Member of the Church. For a number of years, I swam in the depths of the Dr. Shades DiscussMormonism/MormonDiscussions message board. I know some of these people. Some of these people are my friends, even though some of those friendships have ended, like with my former associate in Book of Abraham studies, Paul Osborne. It isn't hard to see how they think, because I fully comprehend how they think. I think I fully comprehend the reasons for their leaving. Nothing separates me from them in terms of knowledge and experience about where they "hang out" on the Internet, with the exception of making the choice to go over to their side. So, I have been around the block. I comprehend to its core Internet Mormonism and many of its factions, to include those movements that are against it. So, when I say that I understand you, and somewhat empathize without sympathizing, better than almost 99% of other TBMs because of the crowd I have been around for so many years. Nevertheless, when I say I can empathize without sympathizing, I mean what I say. Not only do I not find sympathy. I have no patience for the attitude in the sense that, although it has a certain rationality, I do not find it rational, and I think all of you know better in the core of your gut. In fact, I know you do, because I know that if I chose as you, I know I would have no excuse, because I would be making the choice with full knowledge of what is clearly and plainly outlined for me in plain language in terms of what is expected of me. I would have full knowledge of that, and I know you all have full knowledge of that. So, I say, you are all making the choice with full knowledge of what is already expected of you. So it is no mystery to you what I am saying. You know full well what you have turned against, those of you that have. You know full well of what you have chosen. Therefore, in a sense, it is willful, open rebellion against what you know, and I have no patience for it. I can empathize in the sense that all of you are real people, who are going through real suffering. I have no patience, in the sense that I find no excuse for the behavior, when your choices are so clear. I mean, I get it that you have used your agency to choose it. But when people make themselves out to be a "victim" of circumstance, yes it is true that some have suffered abuse. But all have had a choice to make. And some have made one choice, while others have made another. Nobody is "better" than anybody in terms of that if any of us do not repent, we all end up in a not so great place. We are all reliant on the same Savior. I just hope a few heed my words. I know some have in the past, and I'm grateful to them that they took my voice seriously. If I can be an agent in just one of you turning away from what you are doing, then maybe it will have been worth it. But I can only take so much sometimes, so I have left this place in the past.Reluctant Watchman wrote: ↑February 28th, 2023, 11:22 am The church is the Great and Spacious building with no foundation. They ruined the foundation brought forth by Joseph. They literally build a great and spacious building upon the backs of the poor with ill-gotten gain. Many of us are striving to follow the iron rod, which is the purity of the word as witnessed by the Spirit. You think these men speak for God when they are speaking blasphemes from their Rameuptoms. I think you can find them scattered all throughout the G&S building.
BTW, I’m not a victim, that’s why I left the church. To stay would be continuing the abuse.
What we need to discuss here is what tithing actually should be, how it’s collected and how it’s spent. That’s the corruption I see in the church.
