Here are several relevant definitions pertaining to the word "positive" in this context:
- Relating to or constituting a motion or device that is definite, unyielding, constant, or certain in its action.
- Measured or moving forward or in a direction of increase or progress.
- Desirable, admirable, or beneficial.
- Your physical health specifically pertaining to weight is subject to change, albeit difficult for some, and is in no way constant or certain. No matter how you may feel, every person is capable of getting their body into better physical condition.
- The entire idea of modern "body positivity" is that you don't need to change who you are... so how does that ideology coexist with the definition of forward direction and progress? Progress requires change, not being content with current conditions.
- Unhealthy lifestyles, particularly being obese, are in no way desirable, admirable, or in any way beneficial. Although I wouldn't be surprised if some moron wrote a paper about the health benefits of obesity.
I'm blunt with this topic because there's really no room for justification, and continuing the false ideology that you are "fine the way you are" has, is, and will continue to harm those that believe it. You are accountable for your own actions, and even though it's difficult there are ways for you to overcome obstacles (whether self-inflicted or not). This goes far beyond the conversation about weight and into every other aspect of your life. Don't blame other people or circumstances for your current situation, take accountability and learn how to resolve the problems you're facing.
Rant over. Folks my age are ridiculous sometimes...