They are not contradicting CHrists words I quoted Christ like 4 times saying exactly what I said.. You have unforgiveness in your heart because you don't want to forgive becuase you would rather hold onto anger or because you are afraid whether it is of abuse, of being hurt, or of something else, it doesn't matter, it is there. It is a lot easier to hold onto those emotions. Life is a lot better when you learn to let go, though. It is a lot better when you learn to let Christ live in your life and bear your cross rather than constantly trying to force everyone else onto the cross. I don't have to let people abuse me to let go, but I can put myself in their shoes. It is actually a bit heartbreaking because peoples hearts really are waxing cold because they are using human justification to live their life rather than fully submitting to the will of the Father. What do you think it means to bear the name of Christ? Let me put that in bold What do you think it means to bear the name of Christ? To truly bear it? Do you think it is so we don't have to become like Him? Was He the most perfect example so we could just look and say "yeah.. but not me?"Most individuals I find who believe as you do have not fully received Christ's forgiveness in their life. Sure, they have felt forgiven, but thye haven't lived forgiven and htere is a difference. They haven't had to rely or rather haven't reached a point in which they submitted ot such an extend that they received the mercy He has offered and felt the immense change in their life, which shows just how merciful God is their life is still the old life. To where all they can do is walk daily in gratitude for His mercy. The tragedy is that the church today talks about stuff but doesn't understand it including forgiveness. Your approach actually leads to living a life of hell it is a telestial way of living. Daily anger and frustration become a part of your life, the peace of Christ doesn't fill it. Indeed the only peace people generally feel when living this life is the peace of "self-righteousnss" they think because they know they are better and therefore more righteous. They pray and when they pray they feel really good about their beliefs and think all others are fools and lost and they are the only ones found. Yet inside they constantly argue and fight and hate and at the end of the day don't look any more like Christ than any other person who claims to be a Christian. Part of this comes and ill placed zeal for truth written in word rather than in relationship with God, they seek after words that justify their own thinking rather than turning to God and having Him change their mind, which is true repentance. Anyone who thinks they don't have to forgive unless someone else asks for it will be in for a rude awakening when you come before the Lord and realize all the times you hurt people and did not seek forgiveness, You will judge yourself by yourself and live in your own personal hell you will be judged by how you judge "they didn't ask, so they shouldn't get" The Lord looks at you "You didn't ask, so you shouldn't receive" "Oh but Lord, I didn't know" "Oh but you did, you just justified yourself" - it is why half of the world's hearts are failing them. IT is why there is such hate and anger. There are few Christians and a lot of accusers. THere are a lot of people running around looking at hte mote in their brothers or their enemies eye, but ignoring hte beam in their own. As Alma statedReluctant Watchman wrote: ↑May 18th, 2022, 1:47 pmYour first sentence directly contradicts Christ's words. Yes, I can forgive the FP for the shenanigans they've pulled. I can forgive someone for killing my child or any other type of sin, but what we are talking about in Luke is also part of that process of forgiveness. Your line of thinking is what has caused a lot of heartache within the church. "Forgive and forget" is the oft repeated mantra.John Tavner wrote: ↑May 18th, 2022, 1:42 pm In order to receive forgiveness you too must forgive regardless of whether or not they sought your forgiveness. Why is that such a hard concept to grasp?
A better question: Why on earth do you want to hold onto unforgiveness towards others for the rest of your life. You are creating a hell for yourself.
Finally, my thinking has not caused any heartache. Heartache comes from not actually forgiving but saying you have. It comes from not doing things courageously, but doing it because you are brow beat into it or "guilted" into doing something someone else percieves as good. It come from manipulation and not from standing on "The Rock." The truth will set you free and Freedom is being able to take the hit because you love hte other person enough that you know thye aren't thinking right and their thinking and view is wrong, but you have hope for them. Freedom is willingly carrying our cross and denying ourselves "If any come unto me first they must deny themselves, pick up their cross and follow me." We are all a bunch of hypocrites playing at self-righteousness and I include myself in that and the cleansing that GOd will do to all, including those who have been born again will be glorious, for all of us err even the most humble followers of Christ.
Here are Alma's words: 17 Or do ye imagine to yourselves that ye can lie unto the Lord in that day, and say—Lord, our works have been righteous works upon the face of the earth—and that he will save you?
18 Or otherwise, can ye imagine yourselves brought before the tribunal of God with your souls filled with guilt and remorse, having a remembrance of all your guilt, yea, a perfect remembrance of all your wickedness, yea, a remembrance that ye have set at defiance the commandments of God?
19 I say unto you, can ye look up to God at that day with a pure heart and clean hands? I say unto you, can you look up, having the image of God engraven upon your countenances?
20 I say unto you, can ye think of being saved when you have yielded yourselves to become subjects to the devil?
21 I say unto you, ye will know at that day that ye cannot be saved; for there can no man be saved except his garments are washed white; yea, his garments must be purified until they are cleansed from all stain, through the blood of him of whom it has been spoken by our fathers, who should come to redeem his people from their sins.
22 And now I ask of you, my brethren, how will any of you feel, if ye shall stand before the bar of God, having your garments stained with blood and all manner of filthiness? Behold, what will these things testify against you?
23 Behold will they not testify that ye are murderers, yea, and also that ye are guilty of all manner of wickedness?
24 Behold, my brethren, do ye suppose that such an one can have a place to sit down in the kingdom of God, with Abraham, with Isaac, and with Jacob, and also all the holy prophets, whose garments are cleansed and are spotless, pure and white?
25 I say unto you, Nay; except ye make our Creator a liar from the beginning, or suppose that he is a liar from the beginning, ye cannot suppose that such can have place in the kingdom of heaven; but they shall be cast out for they are the children of the kingdom of the devil.
26 And now behold, I say unto you, my brethren, if ye have experienced a change of heart, and if ye have felt to sing the song of redeeming love, I would ask, can ye feel so now?
27 Have ye walked, keeping yourselves blameless before God? Could ye say, if ye were called to die at this time, within yourselves, that ye have been sufficiently humble? That your garments have been cleansed and made white through the blood of Christ, who will come to redeem his people from their sins?
The joy behind all of this is that God IS merciful and He will see us as if we never sinned if we repent and change our minds. His Hand is held out all the day long, beckoning calling, so ready to clothe us in His righteousness if we learn to believe but hte reality is that we are a faithless and perverse (twisted thinking) generation, just like the Jews of Old. Thank God for His mercy.