Kind of like preferred pronouns?

I think most members are adults and understand what the real name of the church is, and that we can charitably remind others of it. But we also understand the reality that "Mormon" is not going away any time soon.
I tried the "never use Mormon" approach on my mission and I had a lot of people bewildered. When I finally mentioned that we are sometimes nick-named "Mormons", I had more success. It was also a great conversation starter about the Book of Mormon. I really, honestly cannot understand why this is such a big deal.
Elder Anderson came across practically as a bully to me in this talk. Not to mention how strange it was that he even felt this topic merited an entire GC talk to begin with when we are facing so many other catastrophes around the world. His topic choice says a lot about him.
These men often seem completely out of touch with reality at times. Elder Holland's talk a few weeks ago at BYU also underscores the seeming cluelessness as well. This wasn't always the case, past prophets often talked a lot about the topics of the day, ie Benson against Communism, Hinckley against gay marriage, etc.
I don't think the Q12 and FP are only doing this to avoid controversy, I think it's more than that. I think they are genuinely clueless about certain things going on. Do they even know Antifa burned down half of our cities last years? Do they know about the border being wide open? Do they realize tens of thousands of Americans are being fired for refusing the vaccine? I don't know, but I certainly do not feel guided or comforted by them. They seem more cold and aloof than ever.

