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Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 3rd, 2020, 8:49 am
by Luke
What think ye?

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 3rd, 2020, 9:01 am
by Trucker
I think you have to define polygamy. Does that mean multiple wives, as in publicly acknowledged wives? Or does it mean a women who has a secret relationship with a man?

I don't think there is such thing as a secret wife. One of the major purposes of marriage is to public state who is with whom. You can't do that secretly. Make no sense.

If a man has relations with a women and they just say they are secretly married, are they married?

So I vote no, Joseph Smith was not a polygamist. There was no other woman besides Emma that was publicly acknowledged to be his wife. There is also no evidence that Emma accepted any other wife of Joseph (as is required in the DC), whether secret or not.

But...did Joseph have relations with any other woman besides Emma? That's real the question. And calling it polygamy belittle marriage in my opinion.

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 3rd, 2020, 10:06 am
by JK4Woods
Don't be splitting hairs as Clinton did when caught with his affair with Monica.

Temple Sealing in Marriage is the highest ordinance so far in this church.
Fidelity is required to attend the temple, hold the priesthood, serve in callings.

Anything short of total and complete fidelity is cause for repentance.
This is required from top to bottom. No one is exempt from this requirement.
Unless, the rules have changed... Oh... I get it... only the elite could have wedded mistresses...
The low income non-influencer, subsistence dirt farmer never did... humm....

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 3rd, 2020, 11:08 am
by MMbelieve
I vote no under the definition of polygamy practiced to produce offspring. He may have been sealed to other women but I tend to believe it is for sealing the family of God due to possible misunderstandings regarding sealings. It is known that the saints struggled to know how to practice this new religion. Also known is that Joseph was given sealing ability but with insufficient instruction on how to use it.

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 3rd, 2020, 11:10 am
by MMbelieve
Trucker wrote: February 3rd, 2020, 9:01 am I think you have to define polygamy. Does that mean multiple wives, as in publicly acknowledged wives? Or does it mean a women who has a secret relationship with a man?

I don't think there is such thing as a secret wife. One of the major purposes of marriage is to public state who is with whom. You can't do that secretly. Make no sense.

If a man has relations with a women and they just say they are secretly married, are they married?

So I vote no, Joseph Smith was not a polygamist. There was no other woman besides Emma that was publicly acknowledged to be his wife. There is also no evidence that Emma accepted any other wife of Joseph (as is required in the DC), whether secret or not.

But...did Joseph have relations with any other woman besides Emma? That's real the question. And calling it polygamy belittle marriage in my opinion.
It does tend to come down to having relations or not. If he did and that was what was required but not children then it’s clearly of the devil.

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 3rd, 2020, 1:11 pm
by ori
Trucker wrote: February 3rd, 2020, 9:01 am I think you have to define polygamy. Does that mean multiple wives, as in publicly acknowledged wives? Or does it mean a women who has a secret relationship with a man?

I don't think there is such thing as a secret wife. One of the major purposes of marriage is to public state who is with whom. You can't do that secretly. Make no sense.

If a man has relations with a women and they just say they are secretly married, are they married?

So I vote no, Joseph Smith was not a polygamist. There was no other woman besides Emma that was publicly acknowledged to be his wife. There is also no evidence that Emma accepted any other wife of Joseph (as is required in the DC), whether secret or not.

But...did Joseph have relations with any other woman besides Emma? That's real the question. And calling it polygamy belittle marriage in my opinion.
I think you have a good point about marriage. It *should* be about publicly making that information available.... under normal circumstances. But here’s the catch: that’s not the defining characteristic of a marriage. That’s not actually what makes a marriage, a marriage.

I would think for it to be a valid marriage, there would need to be at least one 3rd party witness. And an official pronouncement. And professed commitment.

Joseph Smith’s marriages should have had witnesses, I would hope. Did they? These witnesses, if they exist, would have been able to verify that the ceremony occurred. Even if the ceremony was a secret, if the sealing ordinance occurred properly, then wouldn’t it have witnesses? I’m not a scholar by any stretch of the imagination. So I don’t actually know if they purportedly had witnesses.

By today’s standards, we would need there to be witnesses. I don’t know if they needed them then.

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 3rd, 2020, 2:07 pm
by LDS Watchman
Why another polygamy thread?

Hasn't this topic been debated to death already?

Joseph practiced polygamy and even had sexual relations with his some of his plural wives. Dozens and dozens of witnesses attest to this.

If you believe all these people are bold faced liars fine, but let's please stop the debate. No one is being persuaded one way or the other at this point.

Let's just let it go.

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 3rd, 2020, 2:09 pm
by LDS Watchman
ori wrote: February 3rd, 2020, 1:11 pm
Trucker wrote: February 3rd, 2020, 9:01 am I think you have to define polygamy. Does that mean multiple wives, as in publicly acknowledged wives? Or does it mean a women who has a secret relationship with a man?

I don't think there is such thing as a secret wife. One of the major purposes of marriage is to public state who is with whom. You can't do that secretly. Make no sense.

If a man has relations with a women and they just say they are secretly married, are they married?

So I vote no, Joseph Smith was not a polygamist. There was no other woman besides Emma that was publicly acknowledged to be his wife. There is also no evidence that Emma accepted any other wife of Joseph (as is required in the DC), whether secret or not.

But...did Joseph have relations with any other woman besides Emma? That's real the question. And calling it polygamy belittle marriage in my opinion.
I think you have a good point about marriage. It *should* be about publicly making that information available.... under normal circumstances. But here’s the catch: that’s not the defining characteristic of a marriage. That’s not actually what makes a marriage, a marriage.

I would think for it to be a valid marriage, there would need to be at least one 3rd party witness. And an official pronouncement. And professed commitment.

Joseph Smith’s marriages should have had witnesses, I would hope. Did they? These witnesses, if they exist, would have been able to verify that the ceremony occurred. Even if the ceremony was a secret, if the sealing ordinance occurred properly, then wouldn’t it have witnesses? I’m not a scholar by any stretch of the imagination. So I don’t actually know if they purportedly had witnesses.

By today’s standards, we would need there to be witnesses. I don’t know if they needed them then.
I believe that there was at least one witness for each of Joseph's plural marriages. Joseph had some else perform the sealing so that makes at least one other witness besides the plural wife.

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 3rd, 2020, 2:12 pm
by Trucker
Matthias wrote: February 3rd, 2020, 2:07 pm Why another polygamy thread?

Hasn't this topic been debated to death already?

Joseph practiced polygamy and even had sexual relations with his some of his plural wives. Dozens and dozens of witnesses attest to this.

If you believe all these people are bold faced liars fine, but let's please stop the debate. No one is being persuaded one way or the other at this point.

Let's just let it go.
But Joseph himself never said he did, and denied that he did. So what do we do?

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

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Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 3rd, 2020, 2:21 pm
by MMbelieve
Trucker wrote: February 3rd, 2020, 2:12 pm
Matthias wrote: February 3rd, 2020, 2:07 pm Why another polygamy thread?

Hasn't this topic been debated to death already?

Joseph practiced polygamy and even had sexual relations with his some of his plural wives. Dozens and dozens of witnesses attest to this.

If you believe all these people are bold faced liars fine, but let's please stop the debate. No one is being persuaded one way or the other at this point.

Let's just let it go.
But Joseph himself never said he did, and denied that he did. So what do we do?
I think it’s best to come to our own conclusions. If true, people have reported contacting HQ inquiring if polygamy is a doctrine and if it’s needed. The reported answers from these individuals is that they were told they needed to decide/figure out for themselves.

If that’s the HQ response then it clearly is a very individual matter and not a universal one.

I don’t trust the reports of the early church one way or another, it was an utter mess and confusion. Most members didn’t even know what was going on and even at times had no access to the revelations and had no idea how to live their religion. The Lord also told them that evil spirits were about and they were taught what a good spirit was because they were “catching” the wrong one. Yep, I’m reading the Saints book, lol.

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 3rd, 2020, 5:30 pm
by LDS Watchman
Trucker wrote: February 3rd, 2020, 2:12 pm
Matthias wrote: February 3rd, 2020, 2:07 pm Why another polygamy thread?

Hasn't this topic been debated to death already?

Joseph practiced polygamy and even had sexual relations with his some of his plural wives. Dozens and dozens of witnesses attest to this.

If you believe all these people are bold faced liars fine, but let's please stop the debate. No one is being persuaded one way or the other at this point.

Let's just let it go.
But Joseph himself never said he did, and denied that he did. So what do we do?
Joseph Smith never denied that he had received a revelation on Celestial plural marriage or that he was practicing it. In fact according to many witnesses he told them that he had received a revelation on it and had had more than one wife sealed to him.

What he denied was the charge of adultery and spiritual wivery.

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 3rd, 2020, 5:50 pm
by Alexander
Matthias wrote: February 3rd, 2020, 2:07 pm Why another polygamy thread?

Hasn't this topic been debated to death already?

Joseph practiced polygamy and even had sexual relations with his some of his plural wives. Dozens and dozens of witnesses attest to this.

If you believe all these people are bold faced liars fine, but let's please stop the debate. No one is being persuaded one way or the other at this point.

Let's just let it go.
I think this new thread is fine, as it allows us to see how many believe which side. I don’t think this thread’s main purpose was debate. But yes I agree, most will stick to their side and won’t be persuaded to the other.

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 3rd, 2020, 7:02 pm
by Lexew1899
I believe he practiced polygamy, though I doubt he had sexual relations with many of them, perhaps none. It's a shame he died at just 38 years old. He could have done a lot more in the world. As great as Brigham Young was, he never really filled the shoes of Joseph. No one has since.

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 3rd, 2020, 7:03 pm
by LDS Watchman
TylerDurden wrote: February 3rd, 2020, 5:50 pm
Matthias wrote: February 3rd, 2020, 2:07 pm Why another polygamy thread?

Hasn't this topic been debated to death already?

Joseph practiced polygamy and even had sexual relations with his some of his plural wives. Dozens and dozens of witnesses attest to this.

If you believe all these people are bold faced liars fine, but let's please stop the debate. No one is being persuaded one way or the other at this point.

Let's just let it go.
I think this new thread is fine, as it allows us to see how many believe which side. I don’t think this thread’s main purpose was debate. But yes I agree, most will stick to their side and won’t be persuaded to the other.
You're right the poll is fine. Of course what any of us think doesn't ultimately change the truth one way or the other.

The Joseph Smith polygamy debate is very divisive and the topic has been debated endlessly on this forum with no headway whatsoever.

One side believes that Brigham Young and dozens and dozens of other people, from not only the LDS tradition but other Mormon traditions, who testified that Joseph received a revelation commanding plural marriage and practiced it himself, were bold faced liars. The other side believes they were telling the truth.

I just don't see the point to the endless debate. What good does it do?

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 5th, 2020, 9:11 am
by cab
If Joseph was telling the truth in all his public and contemporaneously available private statements on this matter, then it can never be talked about enough.

The keyword above is *if*...

Now is there enough evidence to cast some doubt on the mainstream narrative, and lend some plausibility to this premise?

I believe there is. And that's where debate is worthwhile...

Those who believe this matter is settled, and not open for debate... Probably shouldn't debate...

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 5th, 2020, 7:28 pm
by LDS Watchman
cab wrote: February 5th, 2020, 9:11 am If Joseph was telling the truth in all his public and contemporaneously available private statements on this matter, then it can never be talked about enough.

The keyword above is *if*...

Now is there enough evidence to cast some doubt on the mainstream narrative, and lend some plausibility to this premise?

I believe there is. And that's where debate is worthwhile...

Those who believe this matter is settled, and not open for debate... Probably shouldn't debate...
I don't disagree. The problem is that I don't believe that the debate is for the purpose of obtaining the truth.

At least in my experience those who insist that Joseph never practiced plural marriage flat out reject any and all evidence that he did as being lies and misinterpretations of scripture.

It's hard to carry on a debate with people who simply reject lots of very credible evidence with the wave of the hand.

There just is no answer for all of the evidence that shows that Joseph Smith taught and practiced plural marriage other than to insist that a whole bunch of people with all sorts of different motivations were simply liars.

Insisting such is not engaging in honest debate.

On the other hand, the concerns of those who insist that Joseph was a strict monogamist and never practiced plural marriage can be pretty easily addressed with plausible answers that don't include a conspiracy theory of epic proportions or the wresting of scripture.

There are very plausible reasons for why Joseph said the things he said in his public denials while still secretly teaching and practicing plural marriage. These reasons are also fully supportable by scripture and common sense. I have broken this all down several times.

Yet those who insist Joseph didn't practice plural marriage don't acknowledge these answers nor do they provide any counter arguments. They just dismiss them. This is again not honest debate.

Those who insist Joseph never practiced plural marriage also do not acknowledge a very plausible interpretation of Jacob 2 that matches all of the rest of the scriptures on plural marriage perfectly including D&C 132 and 2 Samuel 12 as having any validity. They again reject it out of hand. This is once again not honest debate.

Those who insist Joseph never practiced plural marriage point to the fact that there is no concrete proof that Joseph fathered any children with any woman besides Emma. Again there are a number of plausible answers to address this concern which can be fully supported by scripture. Once again these answers are simple brushed off and not addressed.

So there really is no debate.

One side is completely entrenched in the idea that BY and dozens and dozens of other people were liars and or/adulterers with nothing but pretty weak circumstantial evidence and cherry picked scriptures to support their claim.

The other side who believes that Joseph and Brigham, as well as those who like Brigham testified that Joseph taught and practiced plural marriage, were truthful has a lot of very strong evidence, including the plain language of the scriptures, on their side.

The purpose of this debate, if it can even be called that, should be to weigh ALL the evidence and discover the truth of the matter.

It should not be to wave away all evidence that one doesn't like in order to put one's head in the sand to believe what one wants to believe.

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 5th, 2020, 7:47 pm
by cab
Matthias wrote: February 5th, 2020, 7:28 pm
cab wrote: February 5th, 2020, 9:11 am If Joseph was telling the truth in all his public and contemporaneously available private statements on this matter, then it can never be talked about enough.

The keyword above is *if*...

Now is there enough evidence to cast some doubt on the mainstream narrative, and lend some plausibility to this premise?

I believe there is. And that's where debate is worthwhile...

Those who believe this matter is settled, and not open for debate... Probably shouldn't debate...
I don't disagree. The problem is that I don't believe that the debate is for the purpose of obtaining the truth.

At least in my experience those who insist that Joseph never practiced plural marriage flat out reject any and all evidence that he did as being lies and misinterpretations of scripture.

It's hard to carry on a debate with people who simply reject lots of very credible evidence with the wave of the hand.

There just is no answer for all of the evidence that shows that Joseph Smith taught and practiced plural marriage other than to insist that a whole bunch of people with all sorts of different motivations were simply liars.

Insisting such is not engaging in honest debate.

On the other hand, the concerns of those who insist that Joseph was a strict monogamist and never practiced plural marriage can be pretty easily addressed with plausible answers that don't include a conspiracy theory of epic proportions or the wresting of scripture.

There are very plausible reasons for why Joseph said the things he said in his public denials while still secretly teaching and practicing plural marriage. These reasons are also fully supportable by scripture and common sense. I have broken this all down several times.

Yet those who insist Joseph didn't practice plural marriage don't acknowledge these answers nor do they provide any counter arguments. They just dismiss them. This is again not honest debate.

Those who insist Joseph never practiced plural marriage also do not acknowledge a very plausible interpretation of Jacob 2 that matches all of the rest of the scriptures on plural marriage perfectly including D&C 132 and 2 Samuel 12 as having any validity. They again reject it out of hand. This is once again not honest debate.

Those who insist Joseph never practiced plural marriage point to the fact that there is no concrete proof that Joseph fathered any children with any woman besides Emma. Again there are a number of plausible answers to address this concern which can be fully supported by scripture. Once again these answers are simple brushed off and not addressed.

So there really is no debate.

One side is completely entrenched in the idea that BY and dozens and dozens of other people were liars and or/adulterers with nothing but pretty weak circumstantial evidence and cherry picked scriptures to support their claim.

The other side who believes that Joseph and Brigham, as well as those who like Brigham testified that Joseph taught and practiced plural marriage, were truthful has a lot of very strong evidence, including the plain language of the scriptures, on their side.

The purpose of this debate, if it can even be called that, should be to weigh ALL the evidence and discover the truth of the matter.

It should not be to wave away all evidence that one doesn't like in order to put one's head in the sand to believe what one wants to believe.

Sure, other people have been dismissive and not open minded... Your problem, Matthias, is that you seem to believe that you aren't guilty of the same thing. Your post right here proves it.. You've constantly shown that you believe your points are the only valid ones when it comes to this topic. You accuse others of dismissing any evidence you provide but you are guilty of the same exact thing. I can't think of one time that I've provided information on this topic that you didn't shrug off as totally inconsequential.

Stop acting like this is a settled matter and at least admit that there is plenty of room to question and even doubt the mainstream narrative. Then real dialogue can ensue.

My head's not in the sand, as you say... I know you have valid points, even believable ones, as I've believed as you do for my entire adult life, up until about three years ago... So you really shouldn't be so insulting...

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 5th, 2020, 9:18 pm
by LDS Watchman
cab wrote: February 5th, 2020, 7:47 pm
Matthias wrote: February 5th, 2020, 7:28 pm
cab wrote: February 5th, 2020, 9:11 am If Joseph was telling the truth in all his public and contemporaneously available private statements on this matter, then it can never be talked about enough.

The keyword above is *if*...

Now is there enough evidence to cast some doubt on the mainstream narrative, and lend some plausibility to this premise?

I believe there is. And that's where debate is worthwhile...

Those who believe this matter is settled, and not open for debate... Probably shouldn't debate...
I don't disagree. The problem is that I don't believe that the debate is for the purpose of obtaining the truth.

At least in my experience those who insist that Joseph never practiced plural marriage flat out reject any and all evidence that he did as being lies and misinterpretations of scripture.

It's hard to carry on a debate with people who simply reject lots of very credible evidence with the wave of the hand.

There just is no answer for all of the evidence that shows that Joseph Smith taught and practiced plural marriage other than to insist that a whole bunch of people with all sorts of different motivations were simply liars.

Insisting such is not engaging in honest debate.

On the other hand, the concerns of those who insist that Joseph was a strict monogamist and never practiced plural marriage can be pretty easily addressed with plausible answers that don't include a conspiracy theory of epic proportions or the wresting of scripture.

There are very plausible reasons for why Joseph said the things he said in his public denials while still secretly teaching and practicing plural marriage. These reasons are also fully supportable by scripture and common sense. I have broken this all down several times.

Yet those who insist Joseph didn't practice plural marriage don't acknowledge these answers nor do they provide any counter arguments. They just dismiss them. This is again not honest debate.

Those who insist Joseph never practiced plural marriage also do not acknowledge a very plausible interpretation of Jacob 2 that matches all of the rest of the scriptures on plural marriage perfectly including D&C 132 and 2 Samuel 12 as having any validity. They again reject it out of hand. This is once again not honest debate.

Those who insist Joseph never practiced plural marriage point to the fact that there is no concrete proof that Joseph fathered any children with any woman besides Emma. Again there are a number of plausible answers to address this concern which can be fully supported by scripture. Once again these answers are simple brushed off and not addressed.

So there really is no debate.

One side is completely entrenched in the idea that BY and dozens and dozens of other people were liars and or/adulterers with nothing but pretty weak circumstantial evidence and cherry picked scriptures to support their claim.

The other side who believes that Joseph and Brigham, as well as those who like Brigham testified that Joseph taught and practiced plural marriage, were truthful has a lot of very strong evidence, including the plain language of the scriptures, on their side.

The purpose of this debate, if it can even be called that, should be to weigh ALL the evidence and discover the truth of the matter.

It should not be to wave away all evidence that one doesn't like in order to put one's head in the sand to believe what one wants to believe.

Sure, other people have been dismissive and not open minded... Your problem, Matthias, is that you seem to believe that you aren't guilty of the same thing. Your post right here proves it.. You've constantly shown that you believe your points are the only valid ones when it comes to this topic. You accuse others of dismissing any evidence you provide but you are guilty of the same exact thing. I can't think of one time that I've provided information on this topic that you didn't shrug off as totally inconsequential.

Stop acting like this is a settled matter and at least admit that there is plenty of room to question and even doubt the mainstream narrative. Then real dialogue can ensue.

My head's not in the sand, as you say... I know you have valid points, even believable ones, as I've believed as you do for my entire adult life, up until about three years ago... So you really shouldn't be so insulting...
Cab,

I don't think I've ever dismissed any evidence you have presented out of hand. I have gone to great lengths to carefully look at each and every point you and others have brought up and have then compared that to what the scriptures say, other known evidence, and logic.

For example I carefully looked at the spiritual wivery of the Cochranites and John C. Bennett to see what connection, if any, there was to the practice of Celestial plural marriage and could find virtually none.

I looked at the cherry picked quote you and others have shared where Joseph supposedly denied plural marriage. I put it back in context and showed that Joseph didn't say what you insist he said and that his public denials would not have made him a liar if he was in fact secretly teaching and practicing plural marriage.

That's not waving evidence away. That's weighing the evidence and proving a logical counterargument.

That's honest debate.

My position does not require a conspiracy theory, circumstantial evidence, cherry picking quotes, twisting certain scriptures, and accusing dozens and dozens of witnesses of being liars.

Those who insist Joseph never practiced plural marriage have no choice but to do this.

I don't say that to offend. I say that because it's the truth.

I've had this "debate" on quite a few occasions outside this forum. The arguments and outcome are always the same.

So the "debate" really is pointless.

However discussing the issues and reasoning them out together is absolutely worth while, because as you pointed out there are reasons someone might question the traditional narrative on plural marriage in the church.

That's what should be done. There should be open and honest dialogue about the evidence. Questions and concerns should be addressed. And above all else the scriptures ought to have the final word.

That means no waving away 2 Samuel 12, Jacob 2 (including vs 30), and any and all other scriptures (including D&C 132) that might shed light on plural marriage.

So I say let's discuss it.

There's really only a couple of possibilities.

1) D&C 132 is a completely legit revelation from God and Joseph Smith secretly taught and practiced plural marriage per God's command and those who he introduced to where justified in entering into and teaching plural marriage themselves.

2) D&C 132 is of the Devil and Joseph Smith was a fallen prophet who deceived people and wrongfully seduced a bunch of naive women.

3) D&C 132 is of the Devil and Joseph Smith was a false prophet through and through and deceived people and seduced a bunch of naive women.

4) D&C 132 is a made up revelation by Brigham Young and a host of other conspirators so they could justify their abominable practice of spiritual wivery.

5) Part of D&C 132 is legit, but Brigham Young and a host of conspirators tampered with it and added the plural marriage parts so they could justify their abominable practice of spiritual wivery.

If I'm missing another option let me know.

I say we go down each of these rabbit holes and see where the evidence leads us. Then the one that is the most logical based on all of the available evidence is the truth.

I've been down each of these rabbit holes and have carefully considered and studied out each one. I have determined that option 1 is correct, but I'm happy to go down them all again to settle this issue.

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 5th, 2020, 9:30 pm
by cab
Matthias wrote: February 5th, 2020, 9:18 pm
cab wrote: February 5th, 2020, 7:47 pm
Matthias wrote: February 5th, 2020, 7:28 pm
cab wrote: February 5th, 2020, 9:11 am If Joseph was telling the truth in all his public and contemporaneously available private statements on this matter, then it can never be talked about enough.

The keyword above is *if*...

Now is there enough evidence to cast some doubt on the mainstream narrative, and lend some plausibility to this premise?

I believe there is. And that's where debate is worthwhile...

Those who believe this matter is settled, and not open for debate... Probably shouldn't debate...
I don't disagree. The problem is that I don't believe that the debate is for the purpose of obtaining the truth.

At least in my experience those who insist that Joseph never practiced plural marriage flat out reject any and all evidence that he did as being lies and misinterpretations of scripture.

It's hard to carry on a debate with people who simply reject lots of very credible evidence with the wave of the hand.

There just is no answer for all of the evidence that shows that Joseph Smith taught and practiced plural marriage other than to insist that a whole bunch of people with all sorts of different motivations were simply liars.

Insisting such is not engaging in honest debate.

On the other hand, the concerns of those who insist that Joseph was a strict monogamist and never practiced plural marriage can be pretty easily addressed with plausible answers that don't include a conspiracy theory of epic proportions or the wresting of scripture.

There are very plausible reasons for why Joseph said the things he said in his public denials while still secretly teaching and practicing plural marriage. These reasons are also fully supportable by scripture and common sense. I have broken this all down several times.

Yet those who insist Joseph didn't practice plural marriage don't acknowledge these answers nor do they provide any counter arguments. They just dismiss them. This is again not honest debate.

Those who insist Joseph never practiced plural marriage also do not acknowledge a very plausible interpretation of Jacob 2 that matches all of the rest of the scriptures on plural marriage perfectly including D&C 132 and 2 Samuel 12 as having any validity. They again reject it out of hand. This is once again not honest debate.

Those who insist Joseph never practiced plural marriage point to the fact that there is no concrete proof that Joseph fathered any children with any woman besides Emma. Again there are a number of plausible answers to address this concern which can be fully supported by scripture. Once again these answers are simple brushed off and not addressed.

So there really is no debate.

One side is completely entrenched in the idea that BY and dozens and dozens of other people were liars and or/adulterers with nothing but pretty weak circumstantial evidence and cherry picked scriptures to support their claim.

The other side who believes that Joseph and Brigham, as well as those who like Brigham testified that Joseph taught and practiced plural marriage, were truthful has a lot of very strong evidence, including the plain language of the scriptures, on their side.

The purpose of this debate, if it can even be called that, should be to weigh ALL the evidence and discover the truth of the matter.

It should not be to wave away all evidence that one doesn't like in order to put one's head in the sand to believe what one wants to believe.

Sure, other people have been dismissive and not open minded... Your problem, Matthias, is that you seem to believe that you aren't guilty of the same thing. Your post right here proves it.. You've constantly shown that you believe your points are the only valid ones when it comes to this topic. You accuse others of dismissing any evidence you provide but you are guilty of the same exact thing. I can't think of one time that I've provided information on this topic that you didn't shrug off as totally inconsequential.

Stop acting like this is a settled matter and at least admit that there is plenty of room to question and even doubt the mainstream narrative. Then real dialogue can ensue.

My head's not in the sand, as you say... I know you have valid points, even believable ones, as I've believed as you do for my entire adult life, up until about three years ago... So you really shouldn't be so insulting...
Cab,

I don't think I've ever dismissed any evidence you have presented out of hand. I have gone to great lengths to carefully look at each and every point you and others have brought up and have then compared that to what the scriptures say, other known evidence, and logic.

For example I carefully looked at the spiritual wivery of the Cochranites and John C. Bennett to see what connection, if any, there was to the practice of Celestial plural marriage and could find virtually none.

I looked at the cherry picked quote you and others have shared where Joseph supposedly denied plural marriage. I put it back in context and showed that Joseph didn't say what you insist he said and that his public denials would not have made him a liar if he was in fact secretly teaching and practicing plural marriage.

That's not waving evidence away. That's weighing the evidence and proving a logical counterargument.

That's honest debate.

My position does not require a conspiracy theory, circumstantial evidence, cherry picking quotes, twisting certain scriptures, and accusing dozens and dozens of witnesses of being liars.

Those who insist Joseph never practiced plural marriage have no choice but to do this.

I don't say that to offend. I say that because it's the truth.

I've had this "debate" on quite a few occasions outside this forum. The arguments and outcome are always the same.

So the "debate" really is pointless.

However discussing the issues and reasoning them out together is absolutely worth while, because as you pointed out there are reasons someone might question the traditional narrative on plural marriage in the church.

That's what should be done. There should be open and honest dialogue about the evidence. Questions and concerns should be addressed. And above all else the scriptures ought to have the final word.

That means no waving away 2 Samuel 12, Jacob 2 (including vs 30), and any and all other scriptures (including D&C 132) that might shed light on plural marriage.

So I say let's discuss it.

There's really only a couple of possibilities.

1) D&C 132 is a completely legit revelation from God and Joseph Smith secretly taught and practiced plural marriage per God's command and those who he introduced to where justified in entering into and teaching plural marriage themselves.

2) D&C 132 is of the Devil and Joseph Smith was a fallen prophet who deceived people and wrongfully seduced a bunch of naive women.

3) D&C 132 is of the Devil and Joseph Smith was a false prophet through and through and deceived people and seduced a bunch of naive women.

4) D&C 132 is a made up revelation by Brigham Young and a host of other conspirators so they could justify their abominable practice of spiritual wivery.

5) Part of D&C 132 is legit, but Brigham Young and a host of conspirators tampered with it and added the plural marriage parts so they could justify their abominable practice of spiritual wivery.

If I'm missing another option let me know.

I say we go down each of these rabbit holes and see where the evidence leads us. Then the one that is the most logical based on all of the available evidence is the truth.

I've been down each of these rabbit holes and have carefully considered and studied out each one. I have determined that option 1 is correct, but I'm happy to go down them all again to settle this issue.

Oh please... You're not only dissmissmive, you are condescending... Once you even called 132 deniers to be blasphemous....

The fact that there are zero contemporary accounts of Joseph showing any support of plural marriage shows that you cherry pick and take things out of context.

The fact you use the conspiracy theory dismissal also shows a lazy dismissal of any dialogue... There is conspiracy. It's all theory... That doesn't mean there's no truth there...

What's your THEORY of William Marks statement in 1845 of what Joseph told him weeks prior to his death? Conspiracy? Lies?

What's your THEORY of Emma and William denying polygamy to their graves? Conspiracy? Mental illness?

What's your THEORY of others who didn't follow the twelve and their denials of Joseph's authorship and polygamy being a wicked practice? All conspirators? Unfaithful? Unable to withstand the fire?

You think it's ok that the majority of the Church didn't even know that polygamy was a practice until they had passed the point of no return and left their homes to follow the Twelve into the desert? Then when it was sprung on them,
now 1000 miles away, what choice did they have? Especially when Brigham taught a doctrine of blood atonement for dissenters?

You conveniently ignore a great deal. So much so that I find it very hard to believe you ever made an honest inquiry on the subject.... If you had, you wouldn't claim it's such a settled matter.

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 5th, 2020, 9:57 pm
by LukeAir2008
Trucker wrote: February 3rd, 2020, 2:12 pm
Matthias wrote: February 3rd, 2020, 2:07 pm Why another polygamy thread?

Hasn't this topic been debated to death already?

Joseph practiced polygamy and even had sexual relations with his some of his plural wives. Dozens and dozens of witnesses attest to this.

If you believe all these people are bold faced liars fine, but let's please stop the debate. No one is being persuaded one way or the other at this point.

Let's just let it go.
But Joseph himself never said he did, and denied that he did. So what do we do?
He said he only had one wife. He did only have one wife according to the laws of Babylon. And by the laws of God he had 33 wives.

The polygamists today only have one legal wife - but they are sealed to several others.

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 5th, 2020, 9:57 pm
by LukeAir2008
Trucker wrote: February 3rd, 2020, 2:12 pm
Matthias wrote: February 3rd, 2020, 2:07 pm Why another polygamy thread?

Hasn't this topic been debated to death already?

Joseph practiced polygamy and even had sexual relations with his some of his plural wives. Dozens and dozens of witnesses attest to this.

If you believe all these people are bold faced liars fine, but let's please stop the debate. No one is being persuaded one way or the other at this point.

Let's just let it go.
But Joseph himself never said he did, and denied that he did. So what do we do?
He said he only had one wife. He did only have one wife according to the laws of Babylon. And by the laws of God he had 33 wives.

The polygamists today only have one legal wife - but they are sealed to several others.

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 5th, 2020, 10:19 pm
by cab
LukeAir2008 wrote: February 5th, 2020, 9:57 pm
Trucker wrote: February 3rd, 2020, 2:12 pm
Matthias wrote: February 3rd, 2020, 2:07 pm Why another polygamy thread?

Hasn't this topic been debated to death already?

Joseph practiced polygamy and even had sexual relations with his some of his plural wives. Dozens and dozens of witnesses attest to this.

If you believe all these people are bold faced liars fine, but let's please stop the debate. No one is being persuaded one way or the other at this point.

Let's just let it go.
But Joseph himself never said he did, and denied that he did. So what do we do?
He said he only had one wife. He did only have one wife according to the laws of Babylon. And by the laws of God he had 33 wives.

The polygamists today only have one legal wife - but they are sealed to several others.

Another example of gymnastics if I ever saw it... So in your view did he have sex with those 33 women (and teenagers) according to the laws of God or Babylon?

And how many children came from these unions?

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 5th, 2020, 10:58 pm
by LDS Watchman
cab wrote: February 5th, 2020, 9:30 pm
Matthias wrote: February 5th, 2020, 9:18 pm
cab wrote: February 5th, 2020, 7:47 pm
Matthias wrote: February 5th, 2020, 7:28 pm

I don't disagree. The problem is that I don't believe that the debate is for the purpose of obtaining the truth.

At least in my experience those who insist that Joseph never practiced plural marriage flat out reject any and all evidence that he did as being lies and misinterpretations of scripture.

It's hard to carry on a debate with people who simply reject lots of very credible evidence with the wave of the hand.

There just is no answer for all of the evidence that shows that Joseph Smith taught and practiced plural marriage other than to insist that a whole bunch of people with all sorts of different motivations were simply liars.

Insisting such is not engaging in honest debate.

On the other hand, the concerns of those who insist that Joseph was a strict monogamist and never practiced plural marriage can be pretty easily addressed with plausible answers that don't include a conspiracy theory of epic proportions or the wresting of scripture.

There are very plausible reasons for why Joseph said the things he said in his public denials while still secretly teaching and practicing plural marriage. These reasons are also fully supportable by scripture and common sense. I have broken this all down several times.

Yet those who insist Joseph didn't practice plural marriage don't acknowledge these answers nor do they provide any counter arguments. They just dismiss them. This is again not honest debate.

Those who insist Joseph never practiced plural marriage also do not acknowledge a very plausible interpretation of Jacob 2 that matches all of the rest of the scriptures on plural marriage perfectly including D&C 132 and 2 Samuel 12 as having any validity. They again reject it out of hand. This is once again not honest debate.

Those who insist Joseph never practiced plural marriage point to the fact that there is no concrete proof that Joseph fathered any children with any woman besides Emma. Again there are a number of plausible answers to address this concern which can be fully supported by scripture. Once again these answers are simple brushed off and not addressed.

So there really is no debate.

One side is completely entrenched in the idea that BY and dozens and dozens of other people were liars and or/adulterers with nothing but pretty weak circumstantial evidence and cherry picked scriptures to support their claim.

The other side who believes that Joseph and Brigham, as well as those who like Brigham testified that Joseph taught and practiced plural marriage, were truthful has a lot of very strong evidence, including the plain language of the scriptures, on their side.

The purpose of this debate, if it can even be called that, should be to weigh ALL the evidence and discover the truth of the matter.

It should not be to wave away all evidence that one doesn't like in order to put one's head in the sand to believe what one wants to believe.

Sure, other people have been dismissive and not open minded... Your problem, Matthias, is that you seem to believe that you aren't guilty of the same thing. Your post right here proves it.. You've constantly shown that you believe your points are the only valid ones when it comes to this topic. You accuse others of dismissing any evidence you provide but you are guilty of the same exact thing. I can't think of one time that I've provided information on this topic that you didn't shrug off as totally inconsequential.

Stop acting like this is a settled matter and at least admit that there is plenty of room to question and even doubt the mainstream narrative. Then real dialogue can ensue.

My head's not in the sand, as you say... I know you have valid points, even believable ones, as I've believed as you do for my entire adult life, up until about three years ago... So you really shouldn't be so insulting...
Cab,

I don't think I've ever dismissed any evidence you have presented out of hand. I have gone to great lengths to carefully look at each and every point you and others have brought up and have then compared that to what the scriptures say, other known evidence, and logic.

For example I carefully looked at the spiritual wivery of the Cochranites and John C. Bennett to see what connection, if any, there was to the practice of Celestial plural marriage and could find virtually none.

I looked at the cherry picked quote you and others have shared where Joseph supposedly denied plural marriage. I put it back in context and showed that Joseph didn't say what you insist he said and that his public denials would not have made him a liar if he was in fact secretly teaching and practicing plural marriage.

That's not waving evidence away. That's weighing the evidence and proving a logical counterargument.

That's honest debate.

My position does not require a conspiracy theory, circumstantial evidence, cherry picking quotes, twisting certain scriptures, and accusing dozens and dozens of witnesses of being liars.

Those who insist Joseph never practiced plural marriage have no choice but to do this.

I don't say that to offend. I say that because it's the truth.

I've had this "debate" on quite a few occasions outside this forum. The arguments and outcome are always the same.

So the "debate" really is pointless.

However discussing the issues and reasoning them out together is absolutely worth while, because as you pointed out there are reasons someone might question the traditional narrative on plural marriage in the church.

That's what should be done. There should be open and honest dialogue about the evidence. Questions and concerns should be addressed. And above all else the scriptures ought to have the final word.

That means no waving away 2 Samuel 12, Jacob 2 (including vs 30), and any and all other scriptures (including D&C 132) that might shed light on plural marriage.

So I say let's discuss it.

There's really only a couple of possibilities.

1) D&C 132 is a completely legit revelation from God and Joseph Smith secretly taught and practiced plural marriage per God's command and those who he introduced to where justified in entering into and teaching plural marriage themselves.

2) D&C 132 is of the Devil and Joseph Smith was a fallen prophet who deceived people and wrongfully seduced a bunch of naive women.

3) D&C 132 is of the Devil and Joseph Smith was a false prophet through and through and deceived people and seduced a bunch of naive women.

4) D&C 132 is a made up revelation by Brigham Young and a host of other conspirators so they could justify their abominable practice of spiritual wivery.

5) Part of D&C 132 is legit, but Brigham Young and a host of conspirators tampered with it and added the plural marriage parts so they could justify their abominable practice of spiritual wivery.

If I'm missing another option let me know.

I say we go down each of these rabbit holes and see where the evidence leads us. Then the one that is the most logical based on all of the available evidence is the truth.

I've been down each of these rabbit holes and have carefully considered and studied out each one. I have determined that option 1 is correct, but I'm happy to go down them all again to settle this issue.

Oh please... You're not only dissmissmive, you are condescending... Once you even called 132 deniers to be blasphemous....

The fact that there are zero contemporary accounts of Joseph showing any support of plural marriage shows that you cherry pick and take things out of context.

The fact you use the conspiracy theory dismissal also shows a lazy dismissal of any dialogue... There is conspiracy. It's all theory... That doesn't mean there's no truth there...

What's your THEORY of William Marks statement in 1845 of what Joseph told him weeks prior to his death? Conspiracy? Lies?

What's your THEORY of Emma and William denying polygamy to their graves? Conspiracy? Mental illness?

What's your THEORY of others who didn't follow the twelve and their denials of Joseph's authorship and polygamy being a wicked practice? All conspirators? Unfaithful? Unable to withstand the fire?

You think it's ok that the majority of the Church didn't even know that polygamy was a practice until they had passed the point of no return and left their homes to follow the Twelve into the desert? Then when it was sprung on them,
now 1000 miles away, what choice did they have? Especially when Brigham taught a doctrine of blood atonement for dissenters?

You conveniently ignore a great deal. So much so that I find it very hard to believe you ever made an honest inquiry on the subject.... If you had, you wouldn't claim it's such a settled matter.
Cab you can believe whatever you want to about me. You have no way of knowing what I have or haven't considered or studied out before reaching my current conclusions on plural marriage. I have indeed wrestled with every issue you and other plural marriage deniers have brought up.

How do you think I always have an answer to them? I'm not making this stuff up on the spot. These are conclusions I have reached as I have wrestled over these issues.

As for my statement about D&C 132 deniers and Jacob 2:30 twisters speaking blasphemy against God, let me explain it again.

Suggesting that God allowed or even tolerated his holy patriarchs and servants to commit whoredoms and abominations and to break the hearts of his pure and righteous daughters by allowing them to wrongfully have more than one wife is blasphemy. The idea mocks God.

The idea that God gave David wives per 2 Samuel 12 and then called this very thing an abomination is also blasphemy against God, who has declared that he cannot look upon sin with the least degree of allowance and enticeth no man to do evil.

As for your other points.

I believe Emma snapped. Her marriage to the unbelieving, hard drinking, adulterer Lewis Bidamon by a Methodist circut preacher is strong evidence that she didn't have it all together anymore or had departed from the faith.

William Smith was very unstable and his character was questionable. He had several falling outs with Joseph. One time he severely beat Joseph. Later he had a falling out in the RLDS church and lost his credibility there, too.

William Marks is an enigma. He rejected plural marriage in Nauvoo but at least twice went on record that Joseph had taught and practiced it. This was rejected by the RLDS, yet he was still called to their first presidency. He had previously followed Rigdon and then Strang. If Brigham was the one called of God to lead the church, then clearly Marks' mind had been darkened.

If anything Marks' testimony fits Joseph being deceived and perhaps a fallen prophet not that he was a strict monogamist.

It's also possible that Marks didn't recall his conversation with Joseph perfectly. Ever tried relaying a conversation from a year ago or longer? Direct quotes are impossible. Only a summary of your recollection of what you understood is possible.

Marks' disdain for plural marriage but love for Joseph could have caused him to lie, too.

Either way it's Marks' words against pretty much everyone else.

There's a great counter argument to Brigham Young introducing plural marriage to most of the Saints in Utah for nefarious reasons.

Brigham Young could have simply been waiting until the Saints were safely out of harms way to introduce this higher law that had led to the deaths of Joseph and Hyrum as well as the expulsion of the Saints from Nauvoo.

While I don't consider myself to be an expert on blood atonement, based on what I do know I think you're making way too much out of blood atonement. It's not what the anti-Mormons and Snufferites make it out to be.

Re: Joseph Smith Polygamy Poll

Posted: February 5th, 2020, 11:06 pm
by LDS Watchman
cab wrote: February 5th, 2020, 10:19 pm
LukeAir2008 wrote: February 5th, 2020, 9:57 pm
Trucker wrote: February 3rd, 2020, 2:12 pm
Matthias wrote: February 3rd, 2020, 2:07 pm Why another polygamy thread?

Hasn't this topic been debated to death already?

Joseph practiced polygamy and even had sexual relations with his some of his plural wives. Dozens and dozens of witnesses attest to this.

If you believe all these people are bold faced liars fine, but let's please stop the debate. No one is being persuaded one way or the other at this point.

Let's just let it go.
But Joseph himself never said he did, and denied that he did. So what do we do?
He said he only had one wife. He did only have one wife according to the laws of Babylon. And by the laws of God he had 33 wives.

The polygamists today only have one legal wife - but they are sealed to several others.

Another example of gymnastics if I ever saw it... So in your view did he have sex with those 33 women (and teenagers) according to the laws of God or Babylon?

And how many children came from these unions?
The available evidence suggests that Joseph only had sex with a few of his plural wives, certainly not all of them. How frequently he had sex with any of his plural wives is a unknown, but for most it appears to have been very seldom if at all.

Up until the last 100 years teenagers were considered women, albeit young women, but not children. According to all available evidence Mary the mother of Jesus was a teenager, too. Several older righteous men in the scriptures married "young maidens."

There's a reason most teenage young women are mostly fully developed physically and able to get pregnant in there mid teens, and it's not to fornicate with teenage boys while using birth control or having an abortion afterwards. It's so they can get married and have children.

It's creepy by today's standards, but not to the people of the past or God apparently.