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Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 8:15 am
by eddie
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:11 am
Stahura wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:07 am
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 7:55 am
Stahura wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 7:44 am
You misunderstand what it means to preside and what it means to submit. You also aren’t focusing on that only thing that matters.
So many are focused on dead works, mundane Worldly actions.
More members need to be spiritually reborn. Look inward, not outward.
Paul describes it like the relationship between Christ and the Church. The Church obeys Christ completely and totally in all things. Christ has complete and full authority over the Church. The Church doesn't exist without Christ and is wholly beholden to Him. Christ loves the Church and sacrifices Himself to it.
This is the only way it is understood. If you're against that same pattern for husbands and wives, you are the one misunderstanding.
It’s not, you’re off. I think you should back down
But real talk, every once in awhile someone shows up here with a check list condemning everyone, they somehow know literally everything. They make no concessions, no rebuttal is good enough, nobody else is ever right.
Sorry , that doesn’t work. You’re not going to be right all the time, you won’t have productive conversations . I pity people with this attitude, truly. I’ve seen many people ruin their own lives by acting like this.
I hope you can begin focusing on the things that matter some day. When you begin to look inward and God changes your heart, you’ll realize how his sweet daughters should be treated. (Hint, it’s not even close to what you’re rambling on about)
You hate God's word. I get it. Do you have anything else to say, or do you want to keep whining?
I think you mean, " Winning," you lose this argument.
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 8:19 am
by iwontbackdown
eddie wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:10 am
eddie wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:00 am
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 7:18 am
Stahura wrote: ↑May 13th, 2019, 2:43 pm
Sounds like this isn't a church for you either bud. Although you wish you could , you can't treat your women(plural) like second class citizens, force them to cover themselves, tell them to shut up and make you a sandwhich and have more babies. Can't go back in time either.
Guess it's a church for nobody then. Rip.
You gonna be here for awhile? Your type(The type who "Won't back down") usually bounce after a week or two. There's only so much condemnation you can dish out before you get bored. I actually hope you're here to stay.
(Just tone it down a bit yeah?)
Here's some advice, take a look at this link and learn what REALLY matters. The Doctrine of Christ, the mighty change of heart, spiritual rebirth. Don't fret about tenets.
D&C 19:31
And of tenets thou shalt not talk, but thou shalt declare repentance and faith on the Savior, and remission of sins by baptism, and by fire, yea, even the Holy Ghost.
http://mightychangeofheart.com/etmc/
"
My new life began with a wash of peace that filled and warmed my entire being. It was a feeling of burning throughout my whole body-but a sweet burning. The voice of the Lord came to me and said, “Your sins are forgiven.” I didn’t want to move. I could feel the warmth, the love, the joy, the total peace. I had the same experience the next morning and again on Sunday during the sacrament. December 1 6, exactly 54 weeks from the beginning of the journey. I turned it all over to the Lord. All of it I gave Him and He made me His. I knew my life was acceptable to Him. I was a new creature. I was gratefully His.
All the rest of my false beliefs He took. He took my sins. He took the condemnation I felt for myself and thus for others. He took all judgement from my heart, all the have to be’s and need to be’s and ought to be’s. I remember these things and the accompanying state of being only when He brings it to my recollection. The guilt and torment, the heaviness and burden has been washed away.
"
"Second class citizens". What a bizarre statement.
There is nothing second class about being a wife and mother, taken care of, for life, of every need and desire by her husband. She doesn't have to worry about working, or wonder how she'll pay her mortgage. She will have her healthcare, her clothing, food, vacations, and any other expense paid for. She is free to pursue her hobbies and desires at home while her husband provides. Her husband will take the lead of the home, take responsibility of fixing and maintaining the home. Her husband, and other men will take the officiating responsibilities in the church. She just has to show up and everything will be provided.
All she has to do is care for the young children (until they leave the home), cook a few meals a week and keep things clean, and comfort her husband.
Elder Richard G. Scott
“Beware of the subtle ways Satan employs to take you from the plan of God [2 Nephi 9:13] and true happiness. One of Satan’s most effective approaches is to demean the role of wife and mother in the home. That's it. In any culture or society I know of, this is the lifestyle of a Queen, not a second class citizen.
I have to wonder how we got here, to believe such a life of luxury and leisure is considered a burden and "second class". I would die to have such a role - to be taken care of like that.
An old saying of my Mother's was, " You take the cake." " A lifestyle of luxury and leisure?" Where do you get off saying things like this? Get some help! This is a mass brainwashing by the film and news media the world has never seen before.
Every westernized nation today has a declining birth rate because of this. Our countries are LITERALLY dying. Japan is the worst example. They are losing a NET 8 million citizens every decade because their women aren't having children. By 2180, nobody will be left on the island at all. But this doesn't tell the whole story, because you cannot have a functioning society without young people working and innovating for the elderly. Collapse will come far, far sooner than that. The US, western Europe, and Australia are not far behind.
Whether women want to or not, we need more mothers for our societies to surivive. There is no technological substitute for the womb, for mothers. Stop hating on this God-given role. Stop attacking it. This is how God designed men and women. This is the way he prescribed for our happiness and eternal glory.
I make well over six figures in my household. My stay-at-home wife spends 99% of it on whatever she wants, whenever she wants. All she has to do is help me clean the house every couple days, cook a hot meal on Sundays, and turn the TV on for our pre-school daughter. The rest of the day she can lie in bed, spend my money on Amazon, or shop at Target.
You don't call that a life of luxury? What planet are you living on? "second class citizen". Pffft. To think some people want to take that lifestyle away from women. That's mysoginy if I ever saw it.
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 8:24 am
by Zathura
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:19 am
eddie wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:10 am
eddie wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:00 am
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 7:18 am
"Second class citizens". What a bizarre statement.
There is nothing second class about being a wife and mother, taken care of, for life, of every need and desire by her husband. She doesn't have to worry about working, or wonder how she'll pay her mortgage. She will have her healthcare, her clothing, food, vacations, and any other expense paid for. She is free to pursue her hobbies and desires at home while her husband provides. Her husband will take the lead of the home, take responsibility of fixing and maintaining the home. Her husband, and other men will take the officiating responsibilities in the church. She just has to show up and everything will be provided.
All she has to do is care for the young children (until they leave the home), cook a few meals a week and keep things clean, and comfort her husband.
Elder Richard G. Scott
“Beware of the subtle ways Satan employs to take you from the plan of God [2 Nephi 9:13] and true happiness. One of Satan’s most effective approaches is to demean the role of wife and mother in the home. That's it. In any culture or society I know of, this is the lifestyle of a Queen, not a second class citizen.
I have to wonder how we got here, to believe such a life of luxury and leisure is considered a burden and "second class". I would die to have such a role - to be taken care of like that.
An old saying of my Mother's was, " You take the cake." " A lifestyle of luxury and leisure?" Where do you get off saying things like this? Get some help! This is a mass brainwashing by the film and news media the world has never seen before.
Every westernized nation today has a declining birth rate because of this. Our countries are LITERALLY dying. Japan is the worst example. They are losing a NET 8 million citizens every decade because their women aren't having children. By 2180, nobody will be left on the island at all. But this doesn't tell the whole story, because you cannot have a functioning society without young people working and innovating for the elderly. Collapse will come far, far sooner than that. The US, western Europe, and Australia are not far behind.
Whether women want to or not, we need more mothers for our societies to surivive. There is no technological substitute for the womb, for mothers. Stop hating on this God-given role. Stop attacking it. This is how God designed men and women. This is the way he prescribed for our happiness and eternal glory.
I make well over six figures in my household. My stay-at-home wife spends 99% of it on whatever she wants, whenever she wants. All she has to do is help me clean the house every couple days, cook a hot meal on Sundays, and turn the TV on for our pre-school daughter. The rest of the day she can lie in bed, spend my money on Amazon, or shop at Target.
You don't call that a life of luxury? What planet are you living on?
99% of it? How does that make you feel?
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 8:38 am
by RocknRoll
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:19 am
I make well over six figures in my household. My stay-at-home wife spends 99% of it on whatever she wants, whenever she wants. All she has to do is help me clean the house every couple days, cook a hot meal on Sundays, and turn the TV on for our pre-school daughter. The rest of the day she can lie in bed, spend my money on Amazon, or shop at Target.
You don't call that a life of luxury? What planet are you living on? "second class citizen". Pffft. To think some people want to take that lifestyle away from women. That's mysoginy if I ever saw it.
We get it. You’re having marital problems and have some kind of jealousy and/or animosity towards your wife. I truly hope you can work this out and begin to have a happy marriage a happy life and grow closer to God as a couple.
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 8:44 am
by iwontbackdown
Responsibility has to come with authority.
I have absolutely no problem with taking care of my wife and making her feel as comfortable, cared for, and loved as possible. I hope to provide a home for her where she will never need to have a job, where she can foster a safe and caring environment for our children. I have no problem taking care of all the duties outside the home, which includes keeping the lawn kept, making sure house is in working order, and the vehicles are operating correctly. I also recognize my role in teaching my children in a practical way to prepare them for their own roles as husbands and fathers.
But I also expect her to give me the authority to lead the household, to lead the family in prayer and revelation. I should have the final say on where, how, and what our family's path is.
This is God's way. This new "equal" relationship philosophy is foreign to His Kingdom. Everything done in His Kingdom is done in a patriarchal and hierarchical order. D&C 131 teaches exactly this principle:
"2 And in order to obtain the highest, a man must enter into this order of the priesthood [meaning the new and everlasting covenant of marriage];
3 And if he does not, he cannot obtain it"
The "order" is the patriarchal order of obedience between a husband and wife. This concurs precisely with Paul and Peter's words.
This is the way. We are warned in 132 that we will be damned if we reject this way:
"4 For behold, I reveal unto you a new and an everlasting covenant; and if ye abide not that covenant, then are ye damned; for no one can reject this covenant and be permitted to enter into my glory."
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 8:46 am
by abijah
Cc07 wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:12 amAnd maybe it was just that... a parable between Christ and His church and not actually between a man and wife. Also just as you’ve said- old laws were done away with the New Testament. So you once again you need to stop cherry picking.
Wrong. It’s just as much a New Testament idea and in the Endowment (before they changed it).
I can’t believe someone would call this cherry picking. Do you even read the scriptures?
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 8:48 am
by thestock
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:19 am
eddie wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:10 am
eddie wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:00 am
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 7:18 am
"Second class citizens". What a bizarre statement.
There is nothing second class about being a wife and mother, taken care of, for life, of every need and desire by her husband. She doesn't have to worry about working, or wonder how she'll pay her mortgage. She will have her healthcare, her clothing, food, vacations, and any other expense paid for. She is free to pursue her hobbies and desires at home while her husband provides. Her husband will take the lead of the home, take responsibility of fixing and maintaining the home. Her husband, and other men will take the officiating responsibilities in the church. She just has to show up and everything will be provided.
All she has to do is care for the young children (until they leave the home), cook a few meals a week and keep things clean, and comfort her husband.
Elder Richard G. Scott
“Beware of the subtle ways Satan employs to take you from the plan of God [2 Nephi 9:13] and true happiness. One of Satan’s most effective approaches is to demean the role of wife and mother in the home. That's it. In any culture or society I know of, this is the lifestyle of a Queen, not a second class citizen.
I have to wonder how we got here, to believe such a life of luxury and leisure is considered a burden and "second class". I would die to have such a role - to be taken care of like that.
An old saying of my Mother's was, " You take the cake." " A lifestyle of luxury and leisure?" Where do you get off saying things like this? Get some help! This is a mass brainwashing by the film and news media the world has never seen before.
Every westernized nation today has a declining birth rate because of this. Our countries are LITERALLY dying. Japan is the worst example. They are losing a NET 8 million citizens every decade because their women aren't having children. By 2180, nobody will be left on the island at all. But this doesn't tell the whole story, because you cannot have a functioning society without young people working and innovating for the elderly. Collapse will come far, far sooner than that. The US, western Europe, and Australia are not far behind.
Whether women want to or not, we need more mothers for our societies to surivive. There is no technological substitute for the womb, for mothers. Stop hating on this God-given role. Stop attacking it. This is how God designed men and women. This is the way he prescribed for our happiness and eternal glory.
I make well over six figures in my household. My stay-at-home wife spends 99% of it on whatever she wants, whenever she wants. All she has to do is help me clean the house every couple days, cook a hot meal on Sundays, and turn the TV on for our pre-school daughter. The rest of the day she can lie in bed, spend my money on Amazon, or shop at Target.
You don't call that a life of luxury? What planet are you living on? "second class citizen". Pffft. To think some people want to take that lifestyle away from women. That's mysoginy if I ever saw it.
Wow. What a lucky woman she must be. Its like she gets to be 8 years old and living with her daddy for the rest of her life.
I dont know if what I am about to say conforms to the spirit of the subject of this thread: but if heaven is going to full of whatever it is that you are, then get me as far away from it as possible. I'd rather spend eternity with loving and rational people, then with your prideful ilk.
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 8:49 am
by iwontbackdown
abijah wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:46 am
Cc07 wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:12 amAnd maybe it was just that... a parable between Christ and His church and not actually between a man and wife. Also just as you’ve said- old laws were done away with the New Testament. So you once again you need to stop cherry picking.
Wrong. It’s just as much a New Testament idea and in the Endowment (before they changed it).
I can’t believe someone would call this cherry picking. Do you even read the scriptures?
And because they changed it, they will be damned as D&C 132:4 describes.
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 8:49 am
by abijah
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 7:55 am
Paul describes it like the relationship between Christ and the Church. The Church obeys Christ completely and totally in all things. Christ has complete and full authority over the Church. The Church doesn't exist without Christ and is wholly beholden to Him. Christ loves the Church and sacrifices Himself to it.
This is the only way it is understood. If you're against that same pattern for husbands and wives, you are the one misunderstanding.
Thank you for this sensible post. Shame how people can’t understand this and instead of responding to sound doctrine they go after you personally.
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 8:50 am
by thestock
RocknRoll wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:38 am
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:19 am
I make well over six figures in my household. My stay-at-home wife spends 99% of it on whatever she wants, whenever she wants. All she has to do is help me clean the house every couple days, cook a hot meal on Sundays, and turn the TV on for our pre-school daughter. The rest of the day she can lie in bed, spend my money on Amazon, or shop at Target.
You don't call that a life of luxury? What planet are you living on? "second class citizen". Pffft. To think some people want to take that lifestyle away from women. That's mysoginy if I ever saw it.
We get it. You’re having marital problems and have some kind of jealousy and/or animosity towards your wife. I truly hope you can work this out and begin to have a happy marriage a happy life and grow closer to God as a couple.
Is it possible his username is in reference to his wife's rejection of his sexual efforts towards her? Armchair psychologist here but it fits!
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 8:58 am
by iwontbackdown
thestock wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:48 am
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:19 am
eddie wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:10 am
eddie wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:00 am
I make well over six figures in my household. My stay-at-home wife spends 99% of it on whatever she wants, whenever she wants. All she has to do is help me clean the house every couple days, cook a hot meal on Sundays, and turn the TV on for our pre-school daughter. The rest of the day she can lie in bed, spend my money on Amazon, or shop at Target.
You don't call that a life of luxury? What planet are you living on? "second class citizen". Pffft. To think some people want to take that lifestyle away from women. That's mysoginy if I ever saw it.
Wow. What a lucky woman she must be. Its like she gets to be 8 years old and living with her daddy for the rest of her life.
I dont know if what I am about to say conforms to the spirit of the subject of this thread: but if heaven is going to full of whatever it is that you are, then get me as far away from it as possible. I'd rather spend eternity with loving and rational people, then with your prideful ilk.
"It's like she gets to be 8 years old".
There is more truth to this statement than you may realize. Look up the research by Kohlberg and Gilligan on the stages of moral development.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lawrence_ ... evelopment
The six stages describe how well a person can use moral abstraction. Women typically never get out of stage three, where men go beyond that up to and including stage six. This means that women typically cannot abstract their morality out of an empathy for their own close social circles. This is essentially where children end up as well. Adult men are able to abstract their morally to the greater society as a whole.
"Kohlberg stated that women tend to get stuck at level 3, being primarily concerned with details of how to maintain relationships and promote the welfare of family and friends. Men are likely to move on to the abstract principles, and thus have less concern with the particulars of who is involved."
I think it's refreshing to accept the truth that men and women are different. Women are the better caretakers in the immediate home because that's as far as their moral development takes them. They've been wired this way. Just as men are wired to make better judgments for societal structures as a whole. The research backs this up, so does the Bible. Funny how it works out like that.

Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 9:07 am
by iwontbackdown
thestock wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:50 am
RocknRoll wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:38 am
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:19 am
I make well over six figures in my household. My stay-at-home wife spends 99% of it on whatever she wants, whenever she wants. All she has to do is help me clean the house every couple days, cook a hot meal on Sundays, and turn the TV on for our pre-school daughter. The rest of the day she can lie in bed, spend my money on Amazon, or shop at Target.
You don't call that a life of luxury? What planet are you living on? "second class citizen". Pffft. To think some people want to take that lifestyle away from women. That's mysoginy if I ever saw it.
We get it. You’re having marital problems and have some kind of jealousy and/or animosity towards your wife. I truly hope you can work this out and begin to have a happy marriage a happy life and grow closer to God as a couple.
Is it possible his username is in reference to his wife's rejection of his sexual efforts towards her? Armchair psychologist here but it fits!
I actually took my username from the song of the same name by Tom Petty. Great song!
https://youtu.be/nUTXb-ga1fo
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 9:22 am
by eddie

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Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 9:26 am
by Zathura
abijah wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:49 am
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 7:55 am
Paul describes it like the relationship between Christ and the Church. The Church obeys Christ completely and totally in all things. Christ has complete and full authority over the Church. The Church doesn't exist without Christ and is wholly beholden to Him. Christ loves the Church and sacrifices Himself to it.
This is the only way it is understood. If you're against that same pattern for husbands and wives, you are the one misunderstanding.
Thank you for this sensible post. Shame how people can’t understand this and instead of responding to sound doctrine they go after you personally.
Sensible? Nah.
Iwontbackdown won’t care, but since the 70s the church has frequently spoken of women, and even back then in the good old days when women were “properly domesticated “ leaders made sure to define submission and it was NOT what this Dude(or you) is describing.
I mean you’re one of those that agreed with benaishtart when he says that raped women will forever be unclean, so I don’t know why I bother responding to you.
His posts are far from sensible. He cherry picks scriptures , sticks to his own little interpretation and refuses to acknowledge a single rebuttal.
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 9:29 am
by eddie
Stahura wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 9:26 am
abijah wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:49 am
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 7:55 am
Paul describes it like the relationship between Christ and the Church. The Church obeys Christ completely and totally in all things. Christ has complete and full authority over the Church. The Church doesn't exist without Christ and is wholly beholden to Him. Christ loves the Church and sacrifices Himself to it.
This is the only way it is understood. If you're against that same pattern for husbands and wives, you are the one misunderstanding.
Thank you for this sensible post. Shame how people can’t understand this and instead of responding to sound doctrine they go after you personally.
Sensible? Nah.
Iwontbackdown won’t care, but since the 70s the church has frequently spoken of women, and even back then in the good old days when women were “properly domesticated “ leaders made sure to define submission and it was NOT what this Dude(or you) is describing.
I mean you’re one of those that agreed with benaishtart when he says that raped women will forever be unclean, so I don’t know why I bother responding to you.
His posts are far from sensible. He cherry picks scriptures , sticks to his own little interpretation and refuses to acknowledge a single rebuttal.
He reminds me of a previous poster who was removed from the forum, but I do hope Brian lets us keep him! LOLOL
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 9:31 am
by Zathura
eddie wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 9:29 am
Stahura wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 9:26 am
abijah wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:49 am
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 7:55 am
Paul describes it like the relationship between Christ and the Church. The Church obeys Christ completely and totally in all things. Christ has complete and full authority over the Church. The Church doesn't exist without Christ and is wholly beholden to Him. Christ loves the Church and sacrifices Himself to it.
This is the only way it is understood. If you're against that same pattern for husbands and wives, you are the one misunderstanding.
Thank you for this sensible post. Shame how people can’t understand this and instead of responding to sound doctrine they go after you personally.
Sensible? Nah.
Iwontbackdown won’t care, but since the 70s the church has frequently spoken of women, and even back then in the good old days when women were “properly domesticated “ leaders made sure to define submission and it was NOT what this Dude(or you) is describing.
I mean you’re one of those that agreed with benaishtart when he says that raped women will forever be unclean, so I don’t know why I bother responding to you.
His posts are far from sensible. He cherry picks scriptures , sticks to his own little interpretation and refuses to acknowledge a single rebuttal.
He reminds me of a previous poster who was removed from the forum, but I do hope Brian lets us keep him! LOLOL
lol, I think it's guitarhead that he reminds me of.
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 9:34 am
by abijah
Stahura wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 9:26 amI mean you’re one of those that agreed with benaishtart when he says that raped women will forever be unclean, so I don’t know why I bother responding to you.
I don’t recall saying this. And while I don’t think they will be “forever unclean”, I do think their were reasons why Tamara daughter of David was so distraught about her brother Amnon not marrying her after violating her. She herself says it was even worse than the rape itself.
His posts are far from sensible. He cherry picks scriptures , sticks to his own little interpretation and refuses to acknowledge a single rebuttal.
Not really familiar with his posts besides the few that I’ve read here. Just pointing out that I have yet to see you or anyone here show how his post I called “sensible” to be incorrect, or cherry picking.
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 9:37 am
by iwontbackdown
Stahura wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 9:26 am
abijah wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:49 am
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 7:55 am
Paul describes it like the relationship between Christ and the Church. The Church obeys Christ completely and totally in all things. Christ has complete and full authority over the Church. The Church doesn't exist without Christ and is wholly beholden to Him. Christ loves the Church and sacrifices Himself to it.
This is the only way it is understood. If you're against that same pattern for husbands and wives, you are the one misunderstanding.
Thank you for this sensible post. Shame how people can’t understand this and instead of responding to sound doctrine they go after you personally.
Sensible? Nah.
Iwontbackdown won’t care, but since the 70s the church has frequently spoken of women, and even back then in the good old days when women were “properly domesticated “ leaders made sure to define submission and it was NOT what this Dude(or you) is describing.
I mean you’re one of those that agreed with benaishtart when he says that raped women will forever be unclean, so I don’t know why I bother responding to you.
His posts are far from sensible. He cherry picks scriptures , sticks to his own little interpretation and refuses to acknowledge a single rebuttal.
You think I'm talking about "raping" women and "domesticating" them? You have a sick mind, dude. Go back and try again.
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 9:43 am
by Zathura
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 9:37 am
Stahura wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 9:26 am
abijah wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:49 am
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 7:55 am
Paul describes it like the relationship between Christ and the Church. The Church obeys Christ completely and totally in all things. Christ has complete and full authority over the Church. The Church doesn't exist without Christ and is wholly beholden to Him. Christ loves the Church and sacrifices Himself to it.
This is the only way it is understood. If you're against that same pattern for husbands and wives, you are the one misunderstanding.
Thank you for this sensible post. Shame how people can’t understand this and instead of responding to sound doctrine they go after you personally.
Sensible? Nah.
Iwontbackdown won’t care, but since the 70s the church has frequently spoken of women, and even back then in the good old days when women were “properly domesticated “ leaders made sure to define submission and it was NOT what this Dude(or you) is describing.
I mean you’re one of those that agreed with benaishtart when he says that raped women will forever be unclean, so I don’t know why I bother responding to you.
His posts are far from sensible. He cherry picks scriptures , sticks to his own little interpretation and refuses to acknowledge a single rebuttal.
You think I'm talking about "raping" women and "domesticating" them? You have a sick mind, dude. Go back and try again.
I don't think you're talking about raping women, I never said you are. I told Abijah he supported a different poster named benaishtart(if you read that far you'd see that) who discussed raping women(and you sound identical to that poster in regards to women by the way, not the best company to be in).
However, domestication? Yes, you want women to cover their heads , you want them to be silent. You want them to sit in the pews, Heaven forbid they stand at the pulpit. You want them to obey completely and totally in all things. You essentially want a pet, but a pet that will bear your seed and make you sandwiches and clean your house and then do various activities with you when you tell her it's time to play with you.
Interesting that you say I have a sick mind, because I'm describing your worldview. It is sick, so stop it. It's wrong.
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 9:45 am
by iwontbackdown
Stahura wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 9:26 am
abijah wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:49 am
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 7:55 am
Paul describes it like the relationship between Christ and the Church. The Church obeys Christ completely and totally in all things. Christ has complete and full authority over the Church. The Church doesn't exist without Christ and is wholly beholden to Him. Christ loves the Church and sacrifices Himself to it.
This is the only way it is understood. If you're against that same pattern for husbands and wives, you are the one misunderstanding.
Thank you for this sensible post. Shame how people can’t understand this and instead of responding to sound doctrine they go after you personally.
Sensible? Nah.
Iwontbackdown won’t care, but since the 70s the church has frequently spoken of women, and even back then in the good old days when women were “properly domesticated “ leaders made sure to define submission and it was NOT what this Dude(or you) is describing.
I mean you’re one of those that agreed with benaishtart when he says that raped women will forever be unclean, so I don’t know why I bother responding to you.
His posts are far from sensible. He cherry picks scriptures , sticks to his own little interpretation and refuses to acknowledge a single rebuttal.
Name the Scriptures you believe I don't agree with.
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 9:51 am
by iwontbackdown
"Yes, you want women to cover their heads." - Not me, Paul, In the Scriptures.
"you want them to be silent." - Not me, Paul and Peter, In the Scriptures
"You want them to sit in the pews, Heaven forbid they stand at the pulpit. -Not exactly in the Scriptures, but both Paul and Peter say say they shouldn't "rule".
"You want them to obey completely and totally in all things." - Not me, Paul, In the Scriptures, just as the Church obeys Christ.
"You essentially want a pet, but a pet that will bear your seed." -Not a pet, someone I love more than anything in the world. And yes, it is their duty to bear children. This was God's first commandment to Adam and Eve.
"and make you sandwiches and clean your house and then do various activities with you when you tell her it's time to play with you. " - In the Scriptures and also in The Family: A Proclamation To the World.
"Interesting that you say I have a sick mind, because I'm describing your worldview. It is sick, so stop it. It's wrong.". You don't think I have a sick mind, you think Paul, Peter, and Jesus Christ himself who GAVE them those commandments, are sick. Let's get it right.
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 10:07 am
by iwontbackdown
Mike Pence just gave a commencement speech at Liberty University where he said the following:
"You know, throughout most of American history, it’s been pretty easy to call yourself Christian. It didn’t even occur to people that you might be shunned or ridiculed for defending the teachings of the Bible.
But things are different now. Some of the loudest voices for tolerance today have little tolerance for traditional Christian beliefs. So as you go about your daily life, just be ready. Because you’re going to be asked not just to tolerate things that violate your faith; you’re going to be asked to endorse them. You’re going to be asked to bow down to the idols of the popular culture."
This is exactly what many of you are doing and asking me to do: bow down to your false idols and deny the Bible. That this is happening on an LDS forum is even more striking, and certainly indicitive of where the church is today.
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 10:09 am
by thestock
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 9:51 am
"Yes, you want women to cover their heads." - Not me, Paul, In the Scriptures.
"you want them to be silent." - Not me, Paul and Peter, In the Scriptures
"You want them to sit in the pews, Heaven forbid they stand at the pulpit. -Not exactly in the Scriptures, but both Paul and Peter say say they shouldn't "rule".
"You want them to obey completely and totally in all things." - Not me, Paul, In the Scriptures, just as the Church obeys Christ.
"You essentially want a pet, but a pet that will bear your seed." -Not a pet, someone I love more than anything in the world. And yes, it is their duty to bear children. This was God's first commandment to Adam and Eve.
"and make you sandwiches and clean your house and then do various activities with you when you tell her it's time to play with you. " - In the Scriptures and also in The Family: A Proclamation To the World.
"Interesting that you say I have a sick mind, because I'm describing your worldview. It is sick, so stop it. It's wrong.". You don't think I have a sick mind, you think Paul, Peter, and Jesus Christ himself who GAVE them those commandments, are sick. Let's get it right.
So here's the thing.....the Bible cherry picks what the Nicean Council wanted people to believe at the time they decided to make the Bible fit the narrative they wanted. So hey....you are in totaly agreement with a 300 AD worldview! You are only 1700 years behind reality! Grab yourself a cookie!
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 10:12 am
by Zathura
iwontbackdown wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:49 am
abijah wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:46 am
Cc07 wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 8:12 amAnd maybe it was just that... a parable between Christ and His church and not actually between a man and wife. Also just as you’ve said- old laws were done away with the New Testament. So you once again you need to stop cherry picking.
Wrong. It’s just as much a New Testament idea and in the Endowment (before they changed it).
I can’t believe someone would call this cherry picking. Do you even read the scriptures?
And because they changed it, they will be damned as D&C 132:4 describes.
That's cute. For someone so educated and so sure that the Church is in apostasy , you quote D&C 132? Of all sections? You point out all these flaws in the church and yet take Section 132 as scripture? My friend, you REALLY need to do more research. I guess I'm helping you in your quest now.
Here's a hint *You can add Section 132 to the thread you created as proof of apostasy*
Re: Engaging with others under the rules of the forum
Posted: May 14th, 2019, 10:26 am
by Zathura
abijah wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 9:34 am
Stahura wrote: ↑May 14th, 2019, 9:26 amI mean you’re one of those that agreed with benaishtart when he says that raped women will forever be unclean, so I don’t know why I bother responding to you.
I don’t recall saying this. And while I don’t think they will be “forever unclean”, I do think their were reasons why Tamara daughter of David was so distraught about her brother Amnon not marrying her after violating her. She herself says it was even worse than the rape itself.
His posts are far from sensible. He cherry picks scriptures , sticks to his own little interpretation and refuses to acknowledge a single rebuttal.
Not really familiar with his posts besides the few that I’ve read here. Just pointing out that I have yet to see you or anyone here show how his post I called “sensible” to be incorrect, or cherry picking.
viewtopic.php?f=1&t=51539
Enjoy his OP to your hearts content.
If you take the time to go through the thread, you'll see plenty of rebuttals. The legitimate rebuttals he ignored, and forever ignore. The rebuttals that trigger him, he responds to with this sass that you see here.
"You have a sick mind dude, try again" or
"You hate God's word, I get it, are you going to stop whining" or
You haven't seen "Me or anyone show hos his post is cherry picking" because there's no point anymore. If you go through any replies to him, he isn't willing to have a legitimate discussion. His name is "I wont back down". He won't give any ground, he isn't here to discuss. He's here to tell you how it is over and over and over and over until he leaves like everyone else who comes here to do that.