San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus performs with Mormon Tabernacle Choir

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ajax wrote: June 28th, 2018, 8:48 pm
PressingForward wrote: June 28th, 2018, 6:33 pm I’m sure those pics will be in the next issue of LDSLIVING praising building better bridges, or loving harder longer, or whatever the saying is worshiping queers this week
I often wonder if I'm among adults here or or middle school teenagers.

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Oz Haven, a member of the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus, sings with the Mormon Tabernacle Choir during sound check at the Shoreline Amphitheatre in Mountain View, California, on Monday, June 25, 2018. Photo by Kristin Murphy, Deseret News.
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Our current Relief Society president has hair that color. ^^ Well, not all of her hair - just about a 2-inch wide part of her hair - blue/teal all the way down.

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eddie wrote: June 29th, 2018, 4:55 pm Oz Haven, a member of the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus, sings with the Mormon Tabernacle Choir during sound check at the Shoreline Amphitheatre in Mountain View, California, on Monday, June 25, 2018. Photo by Kristin Murphy, Deseret News.

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gardener4life wrote: June 26th, 2018, 6:55 pm Eternal progression is based on obedience. It always has been and always will be. All the plan of Salvation and the gospel principles that guide you along it are all pointing to this one idea that being good matters, with obedience, without cheating on the test, without trying to change the test answer key, or switch it with your neighbors' (this is what's happening now). If there is no obedience, faith, repentance, and keeping the commandments in the plan then there is nothing to grade the Plan of Salvation upon. (...for God will not be mocked...this is what that means when we hear that phrase about mocked...)

1 Nephi 3:7 I will go and do. (It doesn't say I will change the rules and then do.)

Mosiah 2:32-33, 37 32 But, O my people, beware lest there shall arise contentions among you, and ye list to cobey the evil spirit, which was spoken of by my father Mosiah. (Notice he reveals that before the test there are deceptions and illusions before hand. How insightful the scriptures are.)

The Book of Mormon introduction; '...a new and additional witness that Jesus Christ is the Son of the living God and that all who will come unto Him and obey the laws and ordinances of His gospel may be saved.'

Jacob 4:6 Wherefore, we search the prophets, and we have many revelations and the spirit of prophecy; and having all these witnesses we obtain a hope, and our faith becometh unshaken, insomuch that we truly can command in the name of Jesus and the very trees obey us, or the mountains, or the waves of the sea. (For emphasis this is what we need to be at; some mistaken it for pride. It isn't pride. We are supposed to pray and believe, and walk with faith and use that faith to commune with God, and to ask him in the name of his son to get to the point where our faith can be unshakable. This is so cool! We can see this as an ideal goal to reach towards in Jacob 4:6. Why don't we all do this more?? We can have the chance to see this as a recipe to build. The recipe is to build up faith and Spirit with God to get to the point where we can pray for Jesus to walk with us in the Spirit forward to the point where we become unshakable!)

(If we're not sure about something, then we have more building up to do to become unshakable. This is an opportunity.)

If you say that you are suddenly going to reverse the rules and the game book for what is 'righteous' then it would end up you could have a temple recommend for anything. Messed up on 'Thou shalt not kill' , well no problem. We can still give you a recommend. You have marital relations with your cousin Fred, who is married to someone else? No problem, then we can still get a recommend. You might pay more tithing though.

So these people shouldn't just change the game book and rules. And they shouldn't let others do so. The changes you see are because nobody is calling them out on it. They are afraid of persecution, particularly in legal forms for saying, 'stop that', 'that's not right'.

I can tell you from my own testimony and experience that some things are not to be allowed in the church and I've had some of my own whispering of the Spirit helping me not be led astray and giving me answers to simple prayers. Sometimes these answers helped me see what's going on in the church.

Part of this reasoning of keeping good and evil separate from each other is because the mortal side of the church is more vulnerable. This was why the Nephites were separated from the Lamanites, why the Canaanites were separated from Israel...why Israel & Moses left Egypt. We can't see who is living right and who isn't. We can't see friend from foe. In WW2, everyone wore a special uniform right? (Mostly...except for Resistance movements.) The new war of our generation though still spiritual is hotly fought for using any means, and not everyone is wearing a uniform. The guy next to you at church might be a Resistance member from the other side, and isn't portraying a Nazi flag. But there's very likely a few of them in each ward. We can't tell who is who. This is part of the war of agency all over again, trying to confuse and deceive.

The War in Heaven, had many of the battles fought with faith and valiant testimonies we know. But I can swear to you on the scriptures that the other side was using deceptions, illusions, and trickery on their end. This is why sometimes people who mean well get tricked, by trusting the arm of the flesh and not leaning on the Holy Ghost. Then they lose a spiritual battle, and try to get into the church.

I can tell you these movements to try to get the wicked into the temples are going to keep picking up steam. They are trying to force themselves into the Temples. They are going to keep pushing and pushing. They are going to try to make it look like they are winning and popular. I received an inspiration from the Holy Ghost once about this a few years ago, and I only recently realized that it was about the gays, and other groups trying to change the rules and change the doctrine. This made it more true because Heavenly Father was warning me before it would happen so I wouldn't be as confused when it happened.

But in the end, this movement to overthrow from within will be stopped. Heavenly Father & Jesus aren't going to allow the wicked to do a hostile takeover / merger scheme. But it's going to be allowed to get to the point of testing peoples' faith. I can promise you that we'll be tested on it. People will have look at and really stick to their guns, and they will be tested to see if they'll stay true to what's right and stand up for what's right. This is the test that the early prophets of this dispensation have talked about. It is upon us. This is also the same test in 4th Nephi.

We can also have faith that we know Jesus' infinite love and mercy will take care of these people and let them go at their own pace in the spirit world, until they can get to the point where they too can receive their rewards. And that faith and knowledge will manifest to us that they really can still progress and we aren't leaving them behind by expecting everyone to have faith and obedience, and that everyone has to keep the rules, not just a few people. Trust the mercy of Jesus that he knows how to help these people and that cheating the system will ruin it for us and them. So they must wait until they are ready to be obedient too.
The more immediate threat is that of people not needing to join "that backwards, intolerant, church". I haven't seen or heard of a single openly homosexual nonmember with any interest whatsoever in joining a church that doesn't declare their sexual relationships as sacred as a marriage between a man and a woman. Simple as that. Although all I want to say is that maybe, just maybe, you can simply extend some kindness to someone without either condoning or committing the same kind of wrongful behavior. Food for thought.

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I am a member of SFGMC who sang with MoTab this afternoon. AMA.
Hello friends! I am a member of the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus who attended the sing out with the Mormon Tabernacle Choir this afternoon. Got any Qs?



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finally_awake_alive
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4 days ago
We're they just perfect hosts and sugary sweet polite? Ugh. This had to have been a PR stunt.



CultZero
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Just PR and them congratulating themselves for being "accepting". They still teach that being gay is a burden that should be overcome. Their actual teachings are psychologically harmful.



thesophrosynemind
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100% agreed. Tho it was nice to not be fighting with them for an afternoon. And to not get ugly stares because of my clothes or hair. We are all music nerds after all.



thesophrosynemind
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It was a bit sugary, and self-congratulatory, for sure, but I genuinely love singing, so I had a good time for the most part.



finally_awake_alive
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I'm glad you were able to enjoy yourself.😊 Thanks for posting in here! Edit: typo



Count-Basie
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No questions I just want a super duper big internet ((HUG)) from you.



thesophrosynemind
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I'll always consent to a hug:

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MTC-allstar
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Prior to the performance, did the members of your choir know that the church was a large financial backer of Prop 8, and enlisted its members in grassroots efforts to get it passed?

Here's why I ask. I have a gay family member, who prior to 2008, was completely neutral toward Mormonism - it wasn't for him but he didn't mind going for an hour when we were together for Christmas. After learning about the church's efforts with Prop 8, he refused to to ever set foot in a mormon church again because it had attacked his lifestyle.



thesophrosynemind
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Most of our membership is aware, yes. We have a number of exmormons in our chorus and we're not shy about our experiences or our scars. I for one was a missionary in CA during Prop 8, and know first hand the pressure they were putting in members to back it. Definitely not lost on any of us.



Jamidan
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Hey, I was a missionary in California right after proposition 8 passed. I was often lied to about the church's involvement. Honestly it's something that clashes with my love of freedom and started my shelf cracking.



HelloHyde
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Same here. I definitely felt very “persecuted” and self-righteous because of it though, ugh.



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covert_llama
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Did you get to give Mack Wilberg a little kiss on the cheek? Because I would have done that.



thesophrosynemind
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Naw, never got close to the man. That would have been glorious tho.



middleagedexmo
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Thanks for the summary. I do love singing battle hymn of the republic. (Soprano btw)


thesophrosynemind
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I will say this: a gay men's chorus does miss out on the nice high-ends sopranos give. It was a treat to sing with a full chorus again for an afternoon.



moistperi
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Were you asked or counseled to avoid public displays of affection around the Motab?



thesophrosynemind
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Not at all. I held hands and kissed while I was there, when I felt it appropriate. It was hard for several of us to be there and we were comforting each other the best we could.

But no, we didn't make out on stage or anything. Now that I think about it, seems like a missed opportunity 😘



moistperi
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Heh, I was wondering if the Mormons had asked for a limit. I have Mormon family that think two guys or gals holding hands in public is a major crime.



BrighamYoung55
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I would love to know how this got set up and how must members of your choir felt about singing with the mo-tab given the anti gay doctrine of the church. Thanks!!



thesophrosynemind
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Afaik, someone in the area messaged us saying "wouldn't it be great if..." And our director was all "yeah, uh-huh" and called up the coordinator for MoTab, expecting it to be a prank or something. But instead they insisted it was legitimate, that they wanted us there and wanted to sing with us. Our director was all, "yeah, ooookay, but we hey to wear branded shirts and you have to introduce us as the San Francisco GAY Men's Chorus, no strategic omissions of words there', fully expecting them to balance at that, but they said absolutely.

If that wasn't confusing enough, they then called back Saturday morning and he was expecting the usual "awww it just couldn't work out" like we're very accustomed to hearing from organizations like that, but instead they invited him to guest conduct their encore song at their performance tonight, which was a friggin shocker to all of us.

I'm not attending the performance tonight so I won't be able to report on that part, sadly.

The consensus of the people I've talked to in the choir is delighted surprise, and asking the few exmormons in our ranks how we feel. Lots of Book of Mormon musical jokes. Some holes about checking Grindr while we're there (which is another story altogether) No one I've talked to had been against it, especially after the previous outreach our chorus has done to various other religious organizations.



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tominmoraga
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I love you guys and laugh and cry everytime I'm able to attend a concert. I'm glad you chose to sing because tearing down walls is better than building bigger walls.



LDSBS
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IMO this makes you a collaborator. kids are dying.



middleagedexmo
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Give us a nutshell of how it went, what songs, etc.

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thesophrosynemind
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We sang through a lot of songs, it was a basic rehearsal, running through the set list and working on problem areas ("make your vowels more roooouuuundddd"). Some show tunes, some hymns. I'll have to get the full list from another singer, but I remember "count your blessings instead of sheep", "battle hymn of the republic" and "battle of Jericho"

It was oddly welcoming. An uncomfortable amount of photos were taken, as to be expected I guess, but the folks we sat next to seemed genuinely excited to have us there with them.

Afterwards they had me and a few others interview with what seemed like Desert News about what we thought. Pleasant, but definitely self-congratulatory.

EDIT: spelling. I'm on mobile, sorry folx

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MTC-allstar
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Did motab pay the SFGMC to come?

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thesophrosynemind
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Good question, one that I'll ask our director and get back to you on. My gut reaction is no, though.

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AgencyandFreeWill
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Did they do any proselytizing to you guys? Or make you start with an opening prayer?

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thesophrosynemind
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They had a prayer to close out, but I figured they would, since they do at all their rehearsals. No, no proselytizing occurred. I'm pretty sure they knew we'd drag them if they attempting anything so overt.

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Pickleburp
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What's your opinion of MoTab as a choir? I know several members, I sang in choirs with them in my younger believer days. Just curious what an outsider thinks of them. And I'll be happy to reply with my opinions :)

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thesophrosynemind
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I think they are very talented musicians, for sure. Not very nimble as a choir, but that's to be expected of any group that size (I mean, SFGMC isn't that nimble either lol). They focus very closely on tone and resonance, which is generally a mark of people who know their $#!%, at least as far as my experience has shown.

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Pickleburp
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Thanks for the response. That's kind of my general "pros" going for them. Because of their status in the church they can't take risks, which is unfortunate but understandable.

My biggest critique of MoTab is that they're technically proficient but lifeless. I don't feel anything when I listen to them, even when I was a believer. The technique is there but it just feels so mechanical. I know you can't put them on par with smaller gospel choirs, but even when I've sung in choirs of 150 people doing religious-based music (and the same religion), we didn't just sing it, we felt it. I don't know if that makes sense, I would rather listen to other choirs before MoTab any day. It's not the people themselves, it's just the very rigid way they have to perform that kills it for me. Just my two cents, thanks again for doing the AMA!

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Mormologist
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Assuming you have a good sense of your Gaydar, how many members of The Tab do you think were gay/closeted?

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thesophrosynemind
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One at the very least that I interacted with.

Additionally, one of us pulled up Grindr while we were there and suspiciously found one person "travelling" in the immediate viscinity of the rehearsal space. If you're reading this, cutie, hmu 😘

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Mormologist
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The others splashed on some Old Spice to mask the odor I guess. /s Thanks

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thesophrosynemind
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Though, in all fairness, mine is less of a Gaydar and more of high frequency Bi-Fi (Pan-scan? sure 💕)

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What if we discover that people are born "gay", genetically and everything? God is the Creator, right?

Not a bad thing to be prepared to have your "paradigm" shattered. It's happened before. Polygamy, blacks & priesthood...

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Jesef wrote: June 30th, 2018, 2:26 pm What if we discover that people are born "gay", genetically and everything? God is the Creator, right?

Not a bad thing to be prepared to have your "paradigm" shattered. It's happened before. Polygamy, blacks & priesthood...
What if we don't?
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Jesef wrote: June 30th, 2018, 2:26 pm What if we discover that people are born "gay", genetically and everything? God is the Creator, right?

Not a bad thing to be prepared to have your "paradigm" shattered. It's happened before. Polygamy, blacks & priesthood...
God doesn't create each person complete with all their mortal genetic traits. Agency. We've always had agency. We bring a spirit that has used agency for eons, to experience a mortal body in this probation. We bring our character and disposition and desires with us.

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Jesef wrote: June 30th, 2018, 2:26 pm What if we discover that people are born "gay", genetically and everything? God is the Creator, right?

Not a bad thing to be prepared to have your "paradigm" shattered. It's happened before. Polygamy, blacks & priesthood...
Not going to happen.

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So there is at least one LDS returned missionary in the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus.

You couldn’t make this stuff up...

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Holy revolting, Batman. Thanks for posting all those comments by the members of the SFGMC, eddie - that was very revealing. :shock:

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My admiration and respect for the Mormon Tabernacle Choir has considerably diminished. In fact I admit to not wanting to listen to them now as I once did.

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I think that maybe the choir director did this on his own, not realizing it wasn't a good idea. When I read the article the second time I realized it doesn't say who suggested the idea. It doesn't say the leaders endorsed it or asked for some kind of bridge event. But it does quote the motab choir director stating, "the purpose of music is to unite people." That shows mistaken priorities of music and wanting to win, or be popular in front of gospel priorities.

Music really is wonderful. But we're not seeking music, we're seeking the fruit of the Gospel and the peace of Jesus' presence in our lives.

We're supposed to have the gospel higher priority than music. The purpose of the Gospel is not to unite people or be popular but to unite whole healthy families. Uniting big groups of people in non-familial atmospheres can sometimes conflict with the goal of uniting whole health families. People when exposing themselves over long periods of time to the world, can sometimes have their desire and goal of whole healthy family life be disrupted by the noise of the world, or get confused on what our priorities are.

Our goal is still happy peaceful families with children, and a father and mother; not a poison look alike.

Our goal isn't to bring everyone to Christ right now, but when they are ready and ready to change. Our goal is to invite them yes, and give them a chance. But we're invited to be a different person and repent by becoming like Paul, and throw away our past self of Saul. Sometimes every day we're giving up being Saul to try to be worthy of what Heavenly Father has given us.

Yes people need love but lust isn't love. But they need boundaries more. Boundaries let us feel safe and comfortable to feel the spirit and other fruits of the gospel. With no fruits there is no pure love of Christ. We don't feel those fruits when we're uncomfortable with our environment.

So love has no meaning if you don't feel safe. If you live in anarchy and you can't feel safe in your family or home because of worldly influence destroying your family's identity then you may lose the chance to be with those people. And you wouldn't want to be with them if you felt their only influence was filth and corruption.

In the Garden of Eden, Satan twisted his lies to confuse meanings of the Gospel and Gospel Principles to Adam and Eve. He taught them to seek pleasure, and tried to mislead them that pleasure was their goal. But Heavenly Father's plan teaches that pleasure is a corruption of desire. Desires, hopes, and meaning in life are understood in the gospel through love, faith, endurance, and other principles. This is why pleasure isn't the same as desires in an LDS point of view. Pleasure is thrill seeking. Desire is forward future meaning seeking.

LDS people seek endurance towards the end, with the end reward best gained through following Jesus' guide. The world teaches instant gratification and popularity overmining order and peace through winning with the might of the flesh. Another way of looking at this is Pharaoh wants to summon God and his magicians and tell them what to do. He likes gods of stone because they don't fight back or deny his propaganda. He makes his own image bigger than God's (or gods).

Moses puts God first in his life and follows through faith and sacrifice rather than through gains, interests, and dividends.

I also felt that over the last few recent years the music of MOTAB had changed from humble, faithful songs to more lively and energetic pieces that weren't really as reverent anymore. Piece by piece they are incorporating more worldly elements, and concerts always feature non-members that don't really have our values anymore.

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