Suicide
Posted: July 20th, 2017, 10:39 pm
Where are the Lord's tender mercies for those tempted by suicide? The uncompassionate need not respond.
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In dark times of my own I have wondered the same thing. What I have learned in life so far is that we do not often see how He was there for us until we look back. I really like the footprints poem where it states that when we felt alone and no one was there it is then that He carried us.
Speaking of the "Footprints in the Sand" poem; a cute sister in our ward gave a talk recently. She had been experiencing her own troubles in the past. She mentioned that poem and something to the effect that it's not how it happens. You see when we get to those hard times in our lives rather than one set of footprints, there are many scattered about....Christ's, family, friends, neighbors, Visiting teachers, home teachers, bishop, etc. You get the picture. They all help carry and get us through tough times. There are SO many people out there willing to help who really do care. All one has to do sometimes is just reach out. I chastise myself because sometimes I feel like my spouse should know or read my mind when I'm having troubles. But he can't. I have to speak up.MMbelieve wrote: ↑July 20th, 2017, 11:15 pmIn dark times of my own I have wondered the same thing. What I have learned in life so far is that we do not often see how He was there for us until we look back. I really like the footprints poem where it states that when we felt alone and no one was there it is then that He carried us.
I can testify that this is true. It is so hard to bear some of the burdens we get in life but know that as we continue to live the strength to do that at times comes from God. We have all been there to some degree that we don't have the human strength or emotional strength to continue, it is then that we are given strength to bear it and wake up the next day. It doesn't feel like it, I know but He does give us strength beyond our own to continue. Some burden are not lifted but we are given strength to bear them, I know this to be true.
If Christ could save just one soul he would have still given his life for that one person. When you feel so bad and worthless remember that you are so very loved by God.
Anyone who feels like suicide is the only answer I would tell them it does get better, the intense feelings do subside and the sun does shine again. It does! Hang on to the good memories and good feelings you have had, you are loved and you are powerful beyond measure and you are magnificent just the way you are. It is true, you are an amazing soul and worth everything.
Yes you are correct, but often times when one feels that bad, they do not reach out for help from others. When you feel suicidal and hopeless, you feel ashamed for those feelings and withdraw from others. So you are correct but it often does take others to see people's troubles and offer help. The shame is hard to deal with and you do feel very alone.kittycat51 wrote: ↑July 21st, 2017, 9:03 pmSpeaking of the "Footprints in the Sand" poem; a cute sister in our ward gave a talk recently. She had been experiencing her own troubles in the past. She mentioned that poem and something to the effect that it's not how it happens. You see when we get to those hard times in our lives rather than one set of footprints, there are many scattered about....Christ's, family, friends, neighbors, Visiting teachers, home teachers, bishop, etc. You get the picture. They all help carry and get us through tough times. There are SO many people out there willing to help who really do care. All one has to do sometimes is just reach out. I chastise myself because sometimes I feel like my spouse should know or read my mind when I'm having troubles. But he can't. I have to speak up.MMbelieve wrote: ↑July 20th, 2017, 11:15 pmIn dark times of my own I have wondered the same thing. What I have learned in life so far is that we do not often see how He was there for us until we look back. I really like the footprints poem where it states that when we felt alone and no one was there it is then that He carried us.
I can testify that this is true. It is so hard to bear some of the burdens we get in life but know that as we continue to live the strength to do that at times comes from God. We have all been there to some degree that we don't have the human strength or emotional strength to continue, it is then that we are given strength to bear it and wake up the next day. It doesn't feel like it, I know but He does give us strength beyond our own to continue. Some burden are not lifted but we are given strength to bear them, I know this to be true.
If Christ could save just one soul he would have still given his life for that one person. When you feel so bad and worthless remember that you are so very loved by God.
Anyone who feels like suicide is the only answer I would tell them it does get better, the intense feelings do subside and the sun does shine again. It does! Hang on to the good memories and good feelings you have had, you are loved and you are powerful beyond measure and you are magnificent just the way you are. It is true, you are an amazing soul and worth everything.
Remember Elder Hollands speech a couple of years ago about depression? It was a good one. He also gave this great speech for a BYU devotional in 1980. This is a good one, called For Times of Trouble.
https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/jeffrey- ... s-trouble/
NEVER give up. :ymhug:
I read that article. Thank you for sharing it.kittycat51 wrote: ↑July 21st, 2017, 9:03 pmSpeaking of the "Footprints in the Sand" poem; a cute sister in our ward gave a talk recently. She had been experiencing her own troubles in the past. She mentioned that poem and something to the effect that it's not how it happens. You see when we get to those hard times in our lives rather than one set of footprints, there are many scattered about....Christ's, family, friends, neighbors, Visiting teachers, home teachers, bishop, etc. You get the picture. They all help carry and get us through tough times. There are SO many people out there willing to help who really do care. All one has to do sometimes is just reach out. I chastise myself because sometimes I feel like my spouse should know or read my mind when I'm having troubles. But he can't. I have to speak up.MMbelieve wrote: ↑July 20th, 2017, 11:15 pmIn dark times of my own I have wondered the same thing. What I have learned in life so far is that we do not often see how He was there for us until we look back. I really like the footprints poem where it states that when we felt alone and no one was there it is then that He carried us.
I can testify that this is true. It is so hard to bear some of the burdens we get in life but know that as we continue to live the strength to do that at times comes from God. We have all been there to some degree that we don't have the human strength or emotional strength to continue, it is then that we are given strength to bear it and wake up the next day. It doesn't feel like it, I know but He does give us strength beyond our own to continue. Some burden are not lifted but we are given strength to bear them, I know this to be true.
If Christ could save just one soul he would have still given his life for that one person. When you feel so bad and worthless remember that you are so very loved by God.
Anyone who feels like suicide is the only answer I would tell them it does get better, the intense feelings do subside and the sun does shine again. It does! Hang on to the good memories and good feelings you have had, you are loved and you are powerful beyond measure and you are magnificent just the way you are. It is true, you are an amazing soul and worth everything.
Remember Elder Hollands speech a couple of years ago about depression? It was a good one. He also gave this great speech for a BYU devotional in 1980. This is a good one, called For Times of Trouble.
https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/jeffrey- ... s-trouble/
NEVER give up. :ymhug:
I don't want to be contrary or pessimistic but I do want to point out that often when we are depressed, it is because the people around us are dragging us down. I have had to learn through hard experience to keep certain family members at a distance for my own mental health. I've had to learn to overcome the destructive thought processes that I was raised with. I don't want to make it sound like we aren't responsible for our own happiness--we are responsible for the people we choose to associate with. But I do want to point out that if you don't feel like the people around you are lifting you up, you aren't alone and you shouldn't be ashamed or despondent at that realization. If you do find yourself with a support system of negative people, then Christ is the one who will carry you through and he will help you surround yourself with more positive, supportive people. It's when you are in those types of situations that Christ carries you alone.kittycat51 wrote: ↑July 21st, 2017, 9:03 pmSpeaking of the "Footprints in the Sand" poem; a cute sister in our ward gave a talk recently. She had been experiencing her own troubles in the past. She mentioned that poem and something to the effect that it's not how it happens. You see when we get to those hard times in our lives rather than one set of footprints, there are many scattered about....Christ's, family, friends, neighbors, Visiting teachers, home teachers, bishop, etc. You get the picture. They all help carry and get us through tough times. There are SO many people out there willing to help who really do care. All one has to do sometimes is just reach out. I chastise myself because sometimes I feel like my spouse should know or read my mind when I'm having troubles. But he can't. I have to speak up.MMbelieve wrote: ↑July 20th, 2017, 11:15 pmIn dark times of my own I have wondered the same thing. What I have learned in life so far is that we do not often see how He was there for us until we look back. I really like the footprints poem where it states that when we felt alone and no one was there it is then that He carried us.
I can testify that this is true. It is so hard to bear some of the burdens we get in life but know that as we continue to live the strength to do that at times comes from God. We have all been there to some degree that we don't have the human strength or emotional strength to continue, it is then that we are given strength to bear it and wake up the next day. It doesn't feel like it, I know but He does give us strength beyond our own to continue. Some burden are not lifted but we are given strength to bear them, I know this to be true.
If Christ could save just one soul he would have still given his life for that one person. When you feel so bad and worthless remember that you are so very loved by God.
Anyone who feels like suicide is the only answer I would tell them it does get better, the intense feelings do subside and the sun does shine again. It does! Hang on to the good memories and good feelings you have had, you are loved and you are powerful beyond measure and you are magnificent just the way you are. It is true, you are an amazing soul and worth everything.
Remember Elder Hollands speech a couple of years ago about depression? It was a good one. He also gave this great speech for a BYU devotional in 1980. This is a good one, called For Times of Trouble.
https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/jeffrey- ... s-trouble/
NEVER give up. :ymhug:
The Lord allows it so society looks at itself and realizes that something is terribly wrong. One person in the comments of a z3news article said that the Lord had told warned them that if we continued with the public school system and the way it forces kids and controls them, that the suicide rates will go way up.
I like the idea of many footprints. God and many are there with tender mercies, but sometimes, I'm looking down instead of around. You are loved and not alone.
Study link?brlenox wrote: ↑July 20th, 2017, 11:31 pm One of my children was having a major issue with this and when they brought it to my attention I recalled a study I had read only a week or two before. I compared their symptoms to the descriptions of 3 different states and solutions. I decided on a product called SAMe (S-Adenosyl methionine) and they started it. Within a week they were a changed person, far less moody and stable at happy. It really has made quite a difference.
There are many and I recommend studying several resources but one of the most succinct was this one:JohnnyL wrote: ↑July 23rd, 2017, 1:43 pmStudy link?brlenox wrote: ↑July 20th, 2017, 11:31 pm One of my children was having a major issue with this and when they brought it to my attention I recalled a study I had read only a week or two before. I compared their symptoms to the descriptions of 3 different states and solutions. I decided on a product called SAMe (S-Adenosyl methionine) and they started it. Within a week they were a changed person, far less moody and stable at happy. It really has made quite a difference.![]()
What if you have all three? :ymsigh:brlenox wrote: ↑July 23rd, 2017, 6:39 pmThere are many and I recommend studying several resources but one of the most succinct was this one:JohnnyL wrote: ↑July 23rd, 2017, 1:43 pmStudy link?brlenox wrote: ↑July 20th, 2017, 11:31 pm One of my children was having a major issue with this and when they brought it to my attention I recalled a study I had read only a week or two before. I compared their symptoms to the descriptions of 3 different states and solutions. I decided on a product called SAMe (S-Adenosyl methionine) and they started it. Within a week they were a changed person, far less moody and stable at happy. It really has made quite a difference.![]()
https://www.needs.com/product/NDNL-0712-01/htc_GABA
There are actually four groups:JohnnyL wrote: ↑July 26th, 2017, 5:47 amWhat if you have all three? :ymsigh:brlenox wrote: ↑July 23rd, 2017, 6:39 pmThere are many and I recommend studying several resources but one of the most succinct was this one:JohnnyL wrote: ↑July 23rd, 2017, 1:43 pmStudy link?brlenox wrote: ↑July 20th, 2017, 11:31 pm One of my children was having a major issue with this and when they brought it to my attention I recalled a study I had read only a week or two before. I compared their symptoms to the descriptions of 3 different states and solutions. I decided on a product called SAMe (S-Adenosyl methionine) and they started it. Within a week they were a changed person, far less moody and stable at happy. It really has made quite a difference.![]()
https://www.needs.com/product/NDNL-0712-01/htc_GABA
Just as a word of caution concerning 5-HTP, because it affects serotonin levels in the body, it can cause serotonin syndrome if too much is taken just as SSRIs can. 5-HTP increases serotonin levels directly, whereas SSRI's suppress the reuptake of serotonin in the body to increase the amount left in the body. Both are acting on serotonin in the body, however.brlenox wrote: ↑July 26th, 2017, 9:06 amThere are actually four groups:JohnnyL wrote: ↑July 26th, 2017, 5:47 amWhat if you have all three? :ymsigh:brlenox wrote: ↑July 23rd, 2017, 6:39 pmThere are many and I recommend studying several resources but one of the most succinct was this one:
https://www.needs.com/product/NDNL-0712-01/htc_GABA
1.) The "S" (Serotonin) Group
2.) The "G" (GABA) Group
3.) The "D" (Dopamine) Group
4.)The "N" (Norepinephrine) Group
The one most potentially negative if misdiagnosed is the GABA. As it slows impulses then if given to a depressed person can further aggravate depression. Nonetheless, it is not considered a great risk one just needs to be on top of it to determine if it is helping or hurting. It is also the one some think is least likely to be effective as the size of the GABA molecule exceeds the blood / brain barrier tolerances. This is currently the predominate supposition as they are not sure as it does help certain patients quite well. They are wondering if it is because the Blood / Brain barrier has been "stretched" due to the issues of depression and such that it allows the molecule to pass through but again they are not sure yet if that is the case. It may simply be that something else is at play that is allowing it to work as it does prove effective far more than would be expected for a blood / brain barrier issue. Here is another link for GABA which gives a bit more detail on usage:
http://www.denvernaturopathic.com/news/GABA.html
SAMe and 5-HTP at first glance appear similar but there are a couple of different symptoms that would point to one over the other. 5 - HTP also has the affect of influencing GABA management in the body as well by magnifying it's effectiveness. Both groups have sleep issues but the issues are slightly different and that was the deciding factor for which one my wife took versus which one my child takes.
I would only start one at a time, and if it were me and I was unsure, since there is overlap in GABA performance, I would tend towards the 5-HTP first for 6 weeks or until it was obvious it was not working because issues were not responding as expected and or were getting worse. Again more research might paint a more clear picture for you but I reiterate that these have been very helpful for us.
From my research, I have not found where 5-HTP is ever implicated in serotonin syndrome. Typically this is related to drugs which manipulate serotonin levels. In the few instances where 5-HTP is associated it has always been when used in conjunction with those types of drugs. If you have other research though I would be interested.Finrock wrote: ↑July 26th, 2017, 9:21 amJust as a word of caution concerning 5-HTP, because it affects serotonin levels in the body, it can cause serotonin syndrome if too much is taken just as SSRIs can. 5-HTP increases serotonin levels directly, whereas SSRI's suppress the reuptake of serotonin in the body to increase the amount left in the body. Both are acting on serotonin in the body, however.brlenox wrote: ↑July 26th, 2017, 9:06 amThere are actually four groups:JohnnyL wrote: ↑July 26th, 2017, 5:47 amWhat if you have all three? :ymsigh:brlenox wrote: ↑July 23rd, 2017, 6:39 pm
There are many and I recommend studying several resources but one of the most succinct was this one:
https://www.needs.com/product/NDNL-0712-01/htc_GABA
1.) The "S" (Serotonin) Group
2.) The "G" (GABA) Group
3.) The "D" (Dopamine) Group
4.)The "N" (Norepinephrine) Group
The one most potentially negative if misdiagnosed is the GABA. As it slows impulses then if given to a depressed person can further aggravate depression. Nonetheless, it is not considered a great risk one just needs to be on top of it to determine if it is helping or hurting. It is also the one some think is least likely to be effective as the size of the GABA molecule exceeds the blood / brain barrier tolerances. This is currently the predominate supposition as they are not sure as it does help certain patients quite well. They are wondering if it is because the Blood / Brain barrier has been "stretched" due to the issues of depression and such that it allows the molecule to pass through but again they are not sure yet if that is the case. It may simply be that something else is at play that is allowing it to work as it does prove effective far more than would be expected for a blood / brain barrier issue. Here is another link for GABA which gives a bit more detail on usage:
http://www.denvernaturopathic.com/news/GABA.html
SAMe and 5-HTP at first glance appear similar but there are a couple of different symptoms that would point to one over the other. 5 - HTP also has the affect of influencing GABA management in the body as well by magnifying it's effectiveness. Both groups have sleep issues but the issues are slightly different and that was the deciding factor for which one my wife took versus which one my child takes.
I would only start one at a time, and if it were me and I was unsure, since there is overlap in GABA performance, I would tend towards the 5-HTP first for 6 weeks or until it was obvious it was not working because issues were not responding as expected and or were getting worse. Again more research might paint a more clear picture for you but I reiterate that these have been very helpful for us.
-Finrock
You can look at the Side Affects listed on WebMD for a quick reference. It doesn't call it serotonin syndrome, but it describes some of the symptoms. The issue is of course compounded if you are using SSRIs (for instance) in addition to 5-HTP. However, 5-HTP gets converted in to serotonin so in large doses it is possible to have too much serotonin in the body.brlenox wrote: ↑July 26th, 2017, 11:42 amFrom my research, I have not found where 5-HTP is ever implicated in serotonin syndrome. Typically this is related to drugs which manipulate serotonin levels. In the few instances where 5-HTP is associated it has always been when used in conjunction with those types of drugs. If you have other research though I would be interested.Finrock wrote: ↑July 26th, 2017, 9:21 amJust as a word of caution concerning 5-HTP, because it affects serotonin levels in the body, it can cause serotonin syndrome if too much is taken just as SSRIs can. 5-HTP increases serotonin levels directly, whereas SSRI's suppress the reuptake of serotonin in the body to increase the amount left in the body. Both are acting on serotonin in the body, however.brlenox wrote: ↑July 26th, 2017, 9:06 amThere are actually four groups:
1.) The "S" (Serotonin) Group
2.) The "G" (GABA) Group
3.) The "D" (Dopamine) Group
4.)The "N" (Norepinephrine) Group
The one most potentially negative if misdiagnosed is the GABA. As it slows impulses then if given to a depressed person can further aggravate depression. Nonetheless, it is not considered a great risk one just needs to be on top of it to determine if it is helping or hurting. It is also the one some think is least likely to be effective as the size of the GABA molecule exceeds the blood / brain barrier tolerances. This is currently the predominate supposition as they are not sure as it does help certain patients quite well. They are wondering if it is because the Blood / Brain barrier has been "stretched" due to the issues of depression and such that it allows the molecule to pass through but again they are not sure yet if that is the case. It may simply be that something else is at play that is allowing it to work as it does prove effective far more than would be expected for a blood / brain barrier issue. Here is another link for GABA which gives a bit more detail on usage:
http://www.denvernaturopathic.com/news/GABA.html
SAMe and 5-HTP at first glance appear similar but there are a couple of different symptoms that would point to one over the other. 5 - HTP also has the affect of influencing GABA management in the body as well by magnifying it's effectiveness. Both groups have sleep issues but the issues are slightly different and that was the deciding factor for which one my wife took versus which one my child takes.
I would only start one at a time, and if it were me and I was unsure, since there is overlap in GABA performance, I would tend towards the 5-HTP first for 6 weeks or until it was obvious it was not working because issues were not responding as expected and or were getting worse. Again more research might paint a more clear picture for you but I reiterate that these have been very helpful for us.
-Finrock