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Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 9:21 pm
by Thinker
Original_Intent wrote:Ah, darn, BeeP (or someone else) deleted her post. :(
Yeah, I was in the process of responding, but it's probably best.
My main point was there is a difference between calling out factual behavior that hurts followers... and personally attacking someone.

I don't like personal attacks of anyone - even people I don't get along with because I figure they'd put me down too, once we figure out what we disagree on.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 9:39 pm
by buffalo_girl
Good point about Alma's sketchy past as one of King Noah's Priests. How about Saul's persecution of the early Christians?

I've been dismissed from teaching teenagers two times over my lifetime based solely on what the youngsters told their parents - who in turn told the Bishopric. NO ONE called me or asked to meet with me to find out what had actually been taught.

Both 'false doctrine' accusations were based on my having read a single scripture - each from The Book of Mormon. NO ONE asked me what the scriptures were or how they were meant to convey a Principle from the assigned lesson, scripture reading.

These incidents happened nearly 25 years apart in two different Wards, in two different States.

I have NEVER been asked to talk in our current Ward. I do teach adult Gospel Doctrine mainly I think because the Bishop's wife was teaching every week and needed an alternate. She had handed out a questionnaire regarding our commitment to reading scripture. I think mine must have been the one she pulled out of a hat.

I love the scriptures and love teaching them. I assign readings directly from scripture, ask lots of questions but NEVER venture an opinion. If I feel things are going away from what the LORD wants us to consider, I am prompted to ask another question.

I can tell some of them are being stretched, but we do have some wonderful discussions.

Be nice to know if my 'record' says anything about the many 'thank you's' I've had from those I've taught over the past 3 1/2 years.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 11:32 pm
by skmo
"For most disciplinary actions, no record of the discipline is retained once the person has been restored to full fellowship. Following restoration after loss of membership, a new membership record is created with the original dates of baptism and other ordinances, with no record of the loss of membership.

In some cases, including domestic abuse, incest, sexual or physical abuse of a child, plural marriage, predatory activities or embezzlement of Church funds, a permanent annotation remains on the record of the individual to ensure they are never again in a position to harm another."
From what I understand, because of the nature of my chastity violation, which included being involved with a couple of people at the same time, I will never again be called into a position where I work with any youth. Keep in mind, I've never forced anyone to do anything, I've never done anything immoral with a child, nothing that could be considered abuse or predatory. However, since one member of the couple had the same parts I did, I'll never be called to work with youth again. To someone whose whole career has been to inspire excitement in education and learning, this is a disappointment.

I'll admit, next to the disappointments in the rest of my life, this is small, but it's still there. It doesn't rank TOO high in my complaint department because I've lost much of my once immense concern for my fellow humanity. C'est la vie. My wife still loves me, I'm starting to love myself again, and my dogs love me. My concern with what most of the rest of the world thinks ranks about 968 on the 1,000 things in the world I care about. By comparison, watching BYU win football games is in the top 20.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 12:18 am
by Franco
Thinker wrote:Franco,
Am I pretending to be a prophet?
I do not know if you are doing any of those things. I know the prophets who have led the Church never "pretended to be a prophet." Remember, Joseph F. Smith testified before Congress that he has never "pretended to receive revelation."


Collecting money in exchange for temple worthiness?
Jesus Christ has appointed servants to collect the tithes and to judge someone's temple worthiness. You are not one of them.


And then keeping money dealings dark and secret?
I have never seen you post on this forum precisely what you are doing with the money over which God has given you stewardship. As for how His Church exercises stewardship over His money, that is His business.


Have I admitted to NOT sharing tithes with the poor (as Oaks admitted), disobeying the law of tithing (Deut. 14:28-29)?
Tithes are not yours to share with anyone, and in case you haven't heard, the law of Moses, which you are using to define tithing, came to an end with Christ.


Have I hidden that scripture from members - pretending that the law of tithing says nothing about the poor?
The law of tithing in these latter days says nothing about the poor. Like I said, tithing as described in the law of Moses came to an end with Christ. Tithing means giving ten percent of your income to the Church.


Do I charge tithing based on income rather than as scriptures say, "increase" and thereby create poverty?
It is not your place to charge anyone anything, nor is it your place to interpret scriptures for the Church.


You, BeePrepared & Rewcox seem to take great delight in my suffering.
Should I make your day and tell you I was molested by old men, raped and abused by my spouse? Are you all smiles now???
I suggest you get therapy and stop attacking God's Church.

There are people living the gospel and following the prophet who have suffered horribly tragic lives. No one takes delight in someone rejecting the gospel. Being a victim does not give you an excuse for attacking the Church.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 12:26 am
by Franco
Thinker wrote:Stahura
To answer your question...
Take out your scriptures.
Pretend you're giving a lesson on tithing and look up "tithing" in the bible index and bible dictionary.
You won't find Deut. 14:28-29 there, nor is it taught in curriculum, because leaders disobey it (according to Oaks, no tithes go to the poor).
Tithing as described in the law of Moses came to an end with Christ. Tithing means giving ten percent of your income to the Church. The law of Moses has nothing to do with what Jesus Christ's Church does with His money.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 3:32 am
by inho
I don't have much to add, but as a current ward clerk I thought I should say something.

A membership record really contains only the usual information: address, email, dates of ordinancies etc.
Only exceptions are (1) if you are currently under formal probation or disfellowshipped, (2) annotation if person have previously committed sin, that is concidered to be of such grievous nature that person should not hold certain callings.
In case (1), it only states that person is e.g. disfellowship, it doesn't say why.
Case (2) is applied in the cases quoted by LDScop.
There is no way for a leader to add any extra annotations besides these mentioned and these have standard wording, so a bishop cannot write what he wants. So there is no reason to be paranoid.
LDScop wrote:"For most disciplinary actions, no record of the discipline is retained once the person has been restored to full fellowship. Following restoration after loss of membership, a new membership record is created with the original dates of baptism and other ordinances, with no record of the loss of membership.

In some cases, including domestic abuse, incest, sexual or physical abuse of a child, plural marriage, predatory activities or embezzlement of Church funds, a permanent annotation remains on the record of the individual to ensure they are never again in a position to harm another."

It is good to understand that there are these official member records, but leaders also do remember the things you have shared with them. In many cases, when people are treated wrongly, it has nothing to do with the records, instead it might be that a leader has disclosed some sensitive information in a ward council or other meeting.

Then of course, there are other files like the missionary recommendations (see Zowieink's experience above). These are not part of your member record and your leaders have no access to them. I do not know if these are kept long after the process or after your mission.

Then there is of course the Strengthening Church Members Committee, which is the real NSA of the church. But this has nothing to do with your local leaders and they have no access to those files (unless SCMC want you to be excommunicated, then they forward information to local leaders).


EDIT:
here is link to Church Privacy Policy
there is also Data Privacy Statements for each countries, Google found this for Canada

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 3:36 am
by Obrien
Newsflash Tony - Jesus Christ doesn't need any money. I believe He uses it as a tool, to gauge our hearts.

Re: I can't see with my eyes closed

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 3:52 am
by Obrien
iWriteStuff wrote:Maybe if I turned the lights on....?
I really expect better quality material from you, iwrite.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 4:17 am
by freedomforall
Bee Prepared wrote:I was really confused when my Bishop asked me about being a go-go dancer in Las Vegas. Seems my hubby told him. ;)
No, Bee, it was because your stinger kept piercing those around you.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 5:23 am
by freedomforall
For the record, I highly dislike breaking bad news to everyone...let's look at the scriptures, shall we?

D&C 1:3
3 And the rebellious shall be pierced with much sorrow; for their iniquities shall be spoken upon the housetops, and their secret acts shall be revealed.

Luke 12:3
3 Therefore whatsoever ye have spoken in darkness shall be heard in the light; and that which ye have spoken in the ear in closets (places of privacy) shall be proclaimed upon the housetops.

All of our secret, unholy, acts will be made known abroad. So what is written in our church records, not repented of, will not stay secret. Unless someone can come up with a different message from these verses.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 5:26 am
by freedomforall
For the record, I highly dislike breaking bad news to everyone...let's look at the scriptures, shall we?

D&C 1:3
3 And the rebellious shall be pierced with much sorrow; for their iniquities shall be spoken upon the housetops, and their secret acts shall be revealed.

Luke 12:3
3 Therefore whatsoever ye have spoken in darkness shall be heard in the light; and that which ye have spoken in the ear in closets (places of privacy) shall be proclaimed upon the housetops.

All of our secret, unholy, acts will be made known abroad. So what is written in our church records, not repented of, will not stay secret. Unless someone can come up with a different message from these verses.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 8:08 am
by Franco
Obrien wrote:Newsflash Tony - Jesus Christ doesn't need any money. I believe He uses it as a tool, to gauge our hearts.
So you do absolutely nothing to contribute to the building up of the kingdom of God?

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 8:41 am
by Obrien
That's a glaring non-sequitur.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 8:43 am
by Robert Sinclair
I think Obrien, every time he helps anyone poor, to bring even just a smile to their face, or anyone else that so does, makes this kingdom of God of his children upon this earth, a little bit better place to live and be in.

May we all see to taking care of "first and foremost" the poor and needy around us, before one single penny of "residue" is spent upon any building or large land holdings or investments, as Jesus Christ has commanded.♡

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 8:46 am
by Robert Sinclair
For the kingdom of God is his children, and not buildings made of the hands of men.♡

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 8:52 am
by Robert Sinclair
Let us turn this telestial kingdom, into a celestial kingdom of God.♡

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 9:37 am
by Cookies
Thinker wrote:Thanks for confirming what I was afraid of.
I just keep saying, "Oh my gosh!"
If I would have known, I would not have told bishops so much.
I feel very manipulated.
This isn't right - not Christ-like at all.

How I came across this is a Stake president was saying how he needed to train people about not giving members their own record/file information. A clerk accidentally (or purposefully who knows) printed out all of a member's records and the member was very upset about some discipline action that was noted but happened long ago.
Brainwashing techniques you encounter everyday and how to avoid them.
http://lifehacker.com/5886571/brainwash ... avoid-them" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;
If you only hear the brainwashed message on a regular basis, and rarely (or never) expose yourself to alternatives, you're going to be far more likely to accept what you hear without thinking. If you want to avoid the brainwashing techniques discussed in this post, your best bet is to surround yourself with a spectrum of information rather than simply settling for the message that makes you feel comfortable.
How to manipulate people.
http://lifehacker.com/5672291/how-to-manipulate-people" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;
Disclaimer
It's worth noting that manipulating people is generally a bad thing to do. Please do not take this advice. Instead, use it as a guide to spot manipulation in your day-to-day interactions and protect yourself from manipulative people. Such is the goal of Evil Week.
The biggest enemy you'll have when trying to manipulate another person is doubt.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 10:23 am
by Thinker
Cookies,
Coincidentally, I was just reading about doubt.
Years ago, a major theme in church was that true doctrine will withstand any scrutiny and how if there is a problem, it will be discovered by free expression. Now, open questioning seems to be considered sin.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 11:01 am
by jbeggs
BroJones wrote:I would like to see the file the FBI keep on me - can I see this file? how?

(PS - not worried about my "church file" if any. I served as a Bishop and NEVER entered any such note in any such file.)
The FBI probably isn't going to let you peruse your own file. But after you die, we can file a FOIA request & peruse your redacted file.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 12:23 pm
by Franco
Obrien wrote:Newsflash Tony - Jesus Christ doesn't need any money. I believe He uses it as a tool, to gauge our hearts.
Everything belongs to Christ. Saying that He "doesn't need" the money that is already His explains why some people covet what is not theirs and do not pay their tithing.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 12:28 pm
by Thinker
Franco,
Do you believe the church leaders ARE JESUS CHRIST?
Do you think Jesus would withhold tithes from the poor (disobeying the law of tithing, Deut.14:28-29) and instead add another shopping mall to the corporate empire built, using the name of Jesus Christ in vain?

If you recall, Jesus only showed violence once and that is when he whipped people out of the temple for using it to make money. He forgave sinners, but he called out the evil hypocrisy of religious leaders. I believe he would do similar today.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 4:26 pm
by freedomforall
December 2006
News of the Church
By Abbey Olsen, Church Magazines

SEE: https://www.lds.org/ensign/2006/12/news ... h?lang=eng" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

The Church first announced three years ago it was planning to redevelop the downtown area to energize the economy of the city that houses its headquarters and to bolster the area near Temple Square. No tithing funds will be used in the redevelopment.
.............................................................................................................................................
SEE also: http://en.fairmormon.org/Mormonism_and_ ... eek_Center" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

The entire project is being financed through the church's commercial real estate arm, Property Reserve, Inc. These funds come through for-profit, tax-paying businesses owned by the Church.

This Deseret News article has more information on the construction and financing:

Money for the project is not coming from LDS Church members' tithing donations. City Creek Center is being developed by Property Reserve Inc., the church's real-estate development arm, and its money comes from other real-estate ventures.
- Doug Smeath, "Downtown renovation project", Deseret News March 27, 2007.
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From: http://en.fairmormon.org/Mormonism_and_ ... _Lake_City" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

Mormonism and church integrity/City Creek Center Mall in Salt Lake City
.............................................................................................................................................
From: http://ldsdoctrine.blogspot.com/2008/06 ... creek.html" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

First off, no tithing dollars are being used for the City Creek Center. This Downtown revitalization project is being funded by Property Reserve which is the LDS church's commercial real-estate arm.
.............................................................................................................................................

So for those still clinging to the idea the church used tithing many, got their information from less than reliable sources or jumped to an unfounded conclusion.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 6:22 pm
by Sirocco
Thinker wrote:Franco,
Do you believe the church leaders ARE JESUS CHRIST?
Do you think Jesus would withhold tithes from the poor (disobeying the law of tithing, Deut.14:28-29) and instead add another shopping mall to the corporate empire built, using the name of Jesus Christ in vain?

If you recall, Jesus only showed violence once and that is when he whipped people out of the temple for using it to make money. He forgave sinners, but he called out the evil hypocrisy of religious leaders. I believe he would do similar today.
Jesus never seemed too keen on leadership in the Bible.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 6:31 pm
by Zathura
freedomforall wrote:December 2006
News of the Church
By Abbey Olsen, Church Magazines

SEE: https://www.lds.org/ensign/2006/12/news ... h?lang=eng" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

The Church first announced three years ago it was planning to redevelop the downtown area to energize the economy of the city that houses its headquarters and to bolster the area near Temple Square. No tithing funds will be used in the redevelopment.
.............................................................................................................................................
SEE also: http://en.fairmormon.org/Mormonism_and_ ... eek_Center" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

The entire project is being financed through the church's commercial real estate arm, Property Reserve, Inc. These funds come through for-profit, tax-paying businesses owned by the Church.

This Deseret News article has more information on the construction and financing:

Money for the project is not coming from LDS Church members' tithing donations. City Creek Center is being developed by Property Reserve Inc., the church's real-estate development arm, and its money comes from other real-estate ventures.
- Doug Smeath, "Downtown renovation project", Deseret News March 27, 2007.
.............................................................................................................................................
From: http://en.fairmormon.org/Mormonism_and_ ... _Lake_City" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

Mormonism and church integrity/City Creek Center Mall in Salt Lake City
.............................................................................................................................................
From: http://ldsdoctrine.blogspot.com/2008/06 ... creek.html" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

First off, no tithing dollars are being used for the City Creek Center. This Downtown revitalization project is being funded by Property Reserve which is the LDS church's commercial real-estate arm.
.............................................................................................................................................

So for those still clinging to the idea the church used tithing many, got their information from less than reliable sources or jumped to an unfounded conclusion.
Thanks for this reference.

It's also been said that the church can do whatever it likes with the money you give it. Even if you designate the money for a certain fund, the church can put it elsewhere.. including the Property Reserve

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 7th, 2015, 7:37 pm
by buffalo_girl
Cookies,
Coincidentally, I was just reading about doubt.
Years ago, a major theme in church was that true doctrine will withstand any scrutiny and how if there is a problem, it will be discovered by free expression. Now, open questioning seems to be considered sin.

I sat down this evening and reread the April 2012 Conference talk given by Elder D. Todd Christofferson entitled "The Doctrine of Christ".

I had underlined and circled quite a few references when I first read it, and was pleased to again find a confirmation from the Spirit regarding his message. Be sure to open the footnote references at the end of his address. You will find additional insights which can help dispel seeming contradictions arising from imperfect men called to be leaders of the 'infant' Latter-day Church.

We are still spiritually immature. ALL OF US!

https://www.lds.org/general-conference/ ... t?lang=eng" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;