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Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 3:08 pm
by Zathura
Lizzy60 wrote:A close friend of mine, who I worked with in the temple, moved to another temple district, and asked her new Bishop to recommend her as a temple worker in her new temple. She knew from members of her new ward that the temple had an ongoing need for workers. Months went by, and she grew impatient, and asked her Bishop if he knew what the holdup was. He took her into his office, got very serious, and told her that he didn't know what her previous "problem" had been, but her membership record was flagged, and he was not allowed to submit her name for a temple calling, nor any leadership calling in the ward.

Well, this was news to my friend, as she was about as righteous as the Q12! Subsequently, her new Bishop contacted her previous Bishop and they determined that the previous Bishop had accidentally checked a box that indicated that she only be given certain callings. If she had not wanted to work in the temple, and had not pressed for an explanation on why she wasn't being called to do so, that little checkmark could have followed her around the rest of her life, with Bishops always wondering what infraction she had committed to warrant the warning.

True story -- told to me in person.
This could be the beginning of another conversation. So if people can't receive specific calls in the future because of something they did in the past, which resulted in certain callings being "checked off", where is the Lord's will in that?
What if someone repents bitterly and is born of God like Alma. They could be a great instrument in God's hands, perhaps their Stake President/Bishop realizes this and then see's that they have this red flag where they cannot have certain callings. Could this interfere with the will of the Lord?

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 3:09 pm
by Sunain
BrianM wrote:Maybe the former bishops here could clarify but it's my understanding (from my time as a membership clerk) that the additional notes on membership records would apply to anyone that had been excommunicated or gone through some kind of temporary dis-fellowship or other such church discipline.
Additional notes added by the bishop are usually only allowed to be added if: A person has been convicted of a crime, has been put on formal church probation, has been Disfellowshipped or excommunicated.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 3:11 pm
by caddis
BroJones wrote:I would like to see the file the FBI keep on me - can I see this file? how?

(PS - not worried about my "church file" if any. I served as a Bishop and NEVER entered any such note in any such file.)
I'm not worried about the NSA church keeping a file on me. I don't break any laws commandments so I have nothing to worry about.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 3:15 pm
by Melissa
I wonder if you can be in a high leadership position if you have a discipline on your record from many years past?
Why keep a record if its not used for something?

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 3:16 pm
by Thinker
Thanks for the link and helpful info, Sunain.
A friend who did go through church discipline said what the bishop told me was inappropriate and against the handbook because there was no council or anything. Long ago, his wife & I disagreed, once I told the bishop no to signing up my child for an overnight activity without me knowing and then another disagreement about leader worship (& he and my spouse don't get along).

I told him he was abusing his power and that he should prioritize Christ and God more. No doubt I ticked him off too.
I still worry that he'd check off discipline even there wasn't an official council.

From now on, I'm going to maintain much tighter boundaries with bishops, and will teach my kids to also.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 3:33 pm
by Melissa
Also be careful what you tell your visiting and home teachers!
Its amazing how much private information and private matters are shared openly.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 3:42 pm
by Thinker
Thanks, Melissa. That's a good point.
Once, my visiting teacher sent the missionaries to our home when I missed once. Very awkward because one of them lied.

And now that I think of it, right when the bishop had a personal problem with me, our hometeacher was suddenly no longer our home teacher and he was not acting the same - but I thought he was just stressed from work or something.
Who knows who, if anyone, is now!
Oh well! Boundaries are a good thing!

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 3:53 pm
by BrotherOfMahonri
Lizzy60 wrote:A close friend of mine, who I worked with in the temple, moved to another temple district, and asked her new Bishop to recommend her as a temple worker in her new temple. She knew from members of her new ward that the temple had an ongoing need for workers. Months went by, and she grew impatient, and asked her Bishop if he knew what the holdup was. He took her into his office, got very serious, and told her that he didn't know what her previous "problem" had been, but her membership record was flagged, and he was not allowed to submit her name for a temple calling, nor any leadership calling in the ward.

Well, this was news to my friend, as she was about as righteous as the Q12! Subsequently, her new Bishop contacted her previous Bishop and they determined that the previous Bishop had accidentally checked a box that indicated that she only be given certain callings. If she had not wanted to work in the temple, and had not pressed for an explanation on why she wasn't being called to do so, that little checkmark could have followed her around the rest of her life, with Bishops always wondering what infraction she had committed to warrant the warning.

True story -- told to me in person.

Edit to add time frame -- this occurred about 10 years ago.
I've always wondered how the spirit of inspiration and discernment works... now I know, a checkbox!

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 4:01 pm
by BrotherOfMahonri
I must say, having resigned recently, that people who used to be even slight friends to us all the sudden knew much more than we ever divulged to them, they went from friends, wanting to be around us to absolutely ZERO contact and avoidance of us entirely - it hurt and we were sad but are now over it and are grateful as we now know much more what it is like to be on the outside of the box, and it's ugliness.

I always attributed this disappearance of EVERYBODY to the loving ward council meetings previous bishop had about the "smith family", but maybe there is more to it?

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 4:06 pm
by Franco
Thinker wrote:In all of the years I've been in the church, I never thought a file was kept on me that I didn't have access to. I thought only cults did that.
Is it true that we as members of the LDS church do NOT have access to our own files?
What if a bishop writes false or exaggerated things in there because he doesn't like us?

I believe such practices are illegal in countries like UK.

I hope and pray the church does not do this.
Please, inform me as to membership records and whether we have access to our own file or not.
I could understand if someone is a convicted abuser or something where the bishop needs to be sure he/she's not around children, but each person should be able to at least see their own files that others in the bishopric and stake (& their gossipy wives) have access to.
This is amazing. You were so intent on accusing the brethren and attacking Jesus Christ's Church that you fabricated something and then stated, "I hope and pray the church does not do this."

Let's see how you like it when someone does to you exactly what you are doing to the Church. I will use the same phraseology that you used in your post and will conclude with hoping and praying that you "do not do this." Feel free to report yourself for saying such things.

In all the time I've seen you, Thinker, posting on this forum, I never thought you robbed banks and killed people. I thought only horrible criminals did those things.
Is it true that you, Thinker, rob banks and kill people?
What if you robbed a bank and killed five people?

I believe such things are illegal in any country.

I hope and pray that you do not do this.

If Brian deletes this post, he should delete your post too. But since you would obviously not get a warning for your "speculative" post, there is no reason why I should get a warning for this post.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 4:59 pm
by The ward heretic
Franco wrote:
Thinker wrote:In all of the years I've been in the church, I never thought a file was kept on me that I didn't have access to. I thought only cults did that.
Is it true that we as members of the LDS church do NOT have access to our own files?
What if a bishop writes false or exaggerated things in there because he doesn't like us?

I believe such practices are illegal in countries like UK.

I hope and pray the church does not do this.
Please, inform me as to membership records and whether we have access to our own file or not.
I could understand if someone is a convicted abuser or something where the bishop needs to be sure he/she's not around children, but each person should be able to at least see their own files that others in the bishopric and stake (& their gossipy wives) have access to.
This is amazing. You were so intent on accusing the brethren and attacking Jesus Christ's Church that you fabricated something and then stated, "I hope and pray the church does not do this."

Let's see how you like it when someone does to you exactly what you are doing to the Church. I will use the same phraseology that you used in your post and will conclude with hoping and praying that you "do not do this." Feel free to report yourself for saying such things.

In all the time I've seen you, Thinker, posting on this forum, I never thought you robbed banks and killed people. I thought only horrible criminals did those things.
Is it true that you, Thinker, rob banks and kill people?
What if you robbed a bank and killed five people?

I believe such things are illegal in any country.

I hope and pray that you do not do this.

If Brian deletes this post, he should delete your post too. But since you would obviously not get a warning for your "speculative" post, there is no reason why I should get a warning for this post.
Franco,
He doesn't do those things. See how easy that was.

Now the church and the records thing......not so much.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 5:05 pm
by Jason
Sunain wrote:The church does keep a record of members but its not like an NSA/FBI like record where there is a written report of the member. It does lists ordinations, mission locations, baptism, confirmation, endowment, marriage dates, ect.

There is a bishop's+ only annotation field that can only be used if official church discipline has occurred but even then its a limited character field. Bishoprics, stake presidencies, area authorities, ect are the only ones authorized to access that information. Information from the membership records are used for the statistical reports of the church which are announced at April General Conferences.

That being said, nothing is stopping these people from accessing the records and disseminating information. It's generally church policy for members moving into a ward for the bishop to talk to a previous bishop and that's generally where the issues arise that you are alluding to.

You cannot update your own address though as it must be done by a membership clerk. So if that's what you mean then yes, you cannot directly access your file. You can update your email and phone number and set it to private on your LDS.org account though but that still won't stop it from being given to Home Teachers and the Elders Quorum.
Just an annotation.

You'd think they would keep track of callings...as that would be natural data point...but they don't. Reason is...doesn't matter. Callings come from the Lord via inspiration to His servants. And on occasion due to the weakness of man...a little perspiration/desperation enters the equation from time to time. At least my experience over the past several decades....

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 6:04 pm
by Thinker
Franco,
Am I pretending to be a prophet, collecting money in exchange for temple worthiness and then keeping money dealings dark and secret?
Have I admitted to NOT sharing tithes with the poor (as Oaks admitted), disobeying the law of tithing (Deut. 14:28-29)?
Have I hidden that scripture from members - pretending that the law of tithing says nothing about the poor?
Do I charge tithing based on income rather than as scriptures say, "increase" and thereby create poverty?
No - I don't do those things, so your comparison is illogically cruel.

I am not engaging in ad hominem attack as you are.
I am stating facts - inconvenient truths of how money in the church is mishandled and manipulated.
I point out these facts because money abuse and distortions hurt many members and I hope to stop that.
Why do you put me down? Do you know me personally?
Did I hurt you? No, I am simply pointing out that your gods are false.

You, BeePrepared & Rewcox seem to take great delight in my suffering.
Should I make your day and tell you what hell I've been through? Would you be all smiles?

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 6:05 pm
by Zathura
Thinker wrote:Franco,
Am I pretending to be a prophet, collecting money in exchange for temple worthiness and then keeping money dealings dark and secret?
Have I admitted to NOT sharing tithes with the poor (as Oaks admitted), disobeying the law of tithing (Deut. 14:28-29)?
Have I hidden that scripture from members - pretending that the law of tithing says nothing about the poor?

You, BeePrepared & Rewcox seem to take great delight in my suffering.
Should I make your day and tell you I was molested by old men, raped and abused by my spouse? Are you all smiles now???
How has the church hidden that specific scripture??

Also, it's not worth discussing anything with Franco.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 6:09 pm
by Sunain
Membership Records
Membership records include members' names and addresses, as well as ordinances and other vital information. The ward should have a membership record for each member living within the ward boundaries. Membership records are to be kept in the ward in which the member lives. Exceptions, which should be few, require the consent of the bishops and stake presidents involved and the approval of the Office of the First Presidency.

Membership records are the only means of recording ordinances and other official actions in the permanent records of the Church. Therefore, the bishop makes sure that the clerks keep accurate records and send updated information promptly to the administration office. It is especially important to record ordinance information, promptly request records of the members who move into the ward, and promptly transfer records of members who move from the ward.

Before a member is interviewed for a Church calling, ordination to a Melchizedak Priesthood office, or a temple recommend, the bishop should carefully review the person's membership record to verify that it does not include an annotation, a comment about a sealing or ordinance restriction, or a comment about unresolved Church discipline.

Members many not have copies of membership records. Under no circumstances may membership records be given to anyone other than the bishop or a clerk.

Church Handbook of Instructions - Book 1 - Stake Presidencies and Bishoprics - 2006 - Page 145
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Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 6:10 pm
by Zowieink
Ok, I've got to post on this, as a personal experience.....
Many, many, many years ago, as a fairly recent convert (of 3 years) I decided to go on a mission. It was when Pres. Kimble said all worthy young men should go on a mission. (During the Viet Nam war, on 1 or 2 were allowed to go on missions from each ward at a time and most off us could not get deferments to go), so when the war and draft ended the flood gates opened, and many of us put in our applications. I had my requisite interviews, all with smiling priesthood leaders, left school to stay with my parents (non-members) until the call came.

And waited....
And waited....
And waited....

Finally got a call from one of my old room mates who told me that me application to be a missionary had been declined, and he didn't know why. (He was a returned missionary himself, and had urged me to go.) Well, I tried calling my old Bishop and Stake Pres. but no returned calls. I got so angry that I got in my little VW Bug and headed to Salt Lake (about 18 hours away). When I arrived, in less that priesthood perfect attire, I walked over to the Church Office Building (the old one) and asked who I should talk to about going on a mission and why my application had been denied. I was ushered upstairs (I wasn't particularly quiet about want to know). I was taken to a waiting area and sat and waited, and waited, and waited, and made up my mind I would get answers if I had to die there! Eventually an older Sister came and said that I would be seen shortly. I had no idea where I was in the building, only a waiting room. So, I waited some more. Eventually and older man came down the hall and asked me to follow him into his office, which I did. He wanted to know why I was there and being so tenacious. I explained my story, and he asked if I had a temple recommend (I did). He took it and asked the older Sister to please pull my "file". It came and he opened it up and started reading to himself. Then asked me about things in the file. The brother I met with was S. Dilworth Young. He interviewed me, and said he found no reason why I shouldn't go on a mission to serve the Lord.

So, he sent me home and contacted my new stake president. Now, my new stake president was hunting in northern Canada, close to the Artic circle. S. Dilworth Young contacted the Royal Mounted Police to have him found and brought back to telephone Elder Young. They found him in a wilderness. He subsequently called Elder Young and was informed that he needed to get back home and get this young man on a mission, immediately. Within a day he was flown home (by private Church owned airplane) and interviewed me the next day. I don't know what happened after that interview, but I received my call as a missionary the next week, and I was in the Missionary Training Center the next week. Later, after I returned home, I learned that my old stake president had written some really egregious stuff on my application but that it belonged on another brothers application who proceeded me, but interviewed at the same time. After some questioning by S. Dilworth Young, my old stake pres. recognized he had put those things on the wrong application, and the one that should have been denied was serving a mission (don't know what happened to him).

So, you see, all those notes and things Bishop's and Stake Presidencies write really are recorded. It really would be fascinating to look into this "file" and see how much stuff is absolute crap and how much is truth.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 6:11 pm
by Thinker
Stahura
To answer your question...
Take out your scriptures.
Pretend you're giving a lesson on tithing and look up "tithing" in the bible index and bible dictionary.
You won't find Deut. 14:28-29 there, nor is it taught in curriculum, because leaders disobey it (according to Oaks, no tithes go to the poor).

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 6:38 pm
by djinwa
BrotherOfMahonri wrote:
Lizzy60 wrote:A close friend of mine, who I worked with in the temple, moved to another temple district, and asked her new Bishop to recommend her as a temple worker in her new temple. She knew from members of her new ward that the temple had an ongoing need for workers. Months went by, and she grew impatient, and asked her Bishop if he knew what the holdup was. He took her into his office, got very serious, and told her that he didn't know what her previous "problem" had been, but her membership record was flagged, and he was not allowed to submit her name for a temple calling, nor any leadership calling in the ward.

Well, this was news to my friend, as she was about as righteous as the Q12! Subsequently, her new Bishop contacted her previous Bishop and they determined that the previous Bishop had accidentally checked a box that indicated that she only be given certain callings. If she had not wanted to work in the temple, and had not pressed for an explanation on why she wasn't being called to do so, that little checkmark could have followed her around the rest of her life, with Bishops always wondering what infraction she had committed to warrant the warning.

True story -- told to me in person.

Edit to add time frame -- this occurred about 10 years ago.
I've always wondered how the spirit of inspiration and discernment works... now I know, a checkbox!

It is funny reading all the stories of lack of inspiration.

Leaders could cut the red tape if they just asked the Lord what a member's status was.

If the Lord is directing the leaders, how did He have them check the wrong box, or mix up two missionaries, and on and on. I finally gave up playing the inspiration game as a leader. I was right about half the time - as much as my dog.

And we keep saying our leaders are inspired.......except when they aren't. Aren't we special!

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 7:02 pm
by Sirocco
Thinker wrote:Thanks for confirming what I was afraid of.
I just keep saying, "Oh my gosh!"
If I would have known, I would not have told bishops so much.
I feel very manipulated.
This isn't right - not Christ-like at all.

How I came across this is a Stake president was saying how he needed to train people about not giving members their own record/file information. A clerk accidentally (or purposefully who knows) printed out all of a member's records and the member was very upset about some discipline action that was noted but happened long ago.

One can never bee too paranoid.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 7:11 pm
by Thinker
djinwa wrote:
BrotherOfMahonri wrote:
Lizzy60 wrote:A close friend of mine, who I worked with in the temple, moved to another temple district, and asked her new Bishop to recommend her as a temple worker in her new temple. She knew from members of her new ward that the temple had an ongoing need for workers. Months went by, and she grew impatient, and asked her Bishop if he knew what the holdup was. He took her into his office, got very serious, and told her that he didn't know what her previous "problem" had been, but her membership record was flagged, and he was not allowed to submit her name for a temple calling, nor any leadership calling in the ward.

Well, this was news to my friend, as she was about as righteous as the Q12! Subsequently, her new Bishop contacted her previous Bishop and they determined that the previous Bishop had accidentally checked a box that indicated that she only be given certain callings. If she had not wanted to work in the temple, and had not pressed for an explanation on why she wasn't being called to do so, that little checkmark could have followed her around the rest of her life, with Bishops always wondering what infraction she had committed to warrant the warning.

True story -- told to me in person.

Edit to add time frame -- this occurred about 10 years ago.
I've always wondered how the spirit of inspiration and discernment works... now I know, a checkbox!

It is funny reading all the stories of lack of inspiration.

Leaders could cut the red tape if they just asked the Lord what a member's status was.

If the Lord is directing the leaders, how did He have them check the wrong box, or mix up two missionaries, and on and on. I finally gave up playing the inspiration game as a leader. I was right about half the time - as much as my dog.

And we keep saying our leaders are inspired.......except when they aren't. Aren't we special!
If we prioritize God (GOoD) above men, we'd be more inspired.

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 7:22 pm
by cyclOps
"For most disciplinary actions, no record of the discipline is retained once the person has been restored to full fellowship. Following restoration after loss of membership, a new membership record is created with the original dates of baptism and other ordinances, with no record of the loss of membership.

In some cases, including domestic abuse, incest, sexual or physical abuse of a child, plural marriage, predatory activities or embezzlement of Church funds, a permanent annotation remains on the record of the individual to ensure they are never again in a position to harm another."

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 8:55 pm
by Nan
Can't have primary callings if you have been a child molester. Pretty sure the Lord would be in agreement to that limitation on callings

I can't see with my eyes closed

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 9:03 pm
by iWriteStuff
Maybe if I turned the lights on....?

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 9:10 pm
by Original_Intent
Beep, interested to hear what you have to say about Zowieink's story? Wolf in sheep's clothing? Regrettable human error on the part of his previous stake president? Is his story disturbing to you in any way? Do you flat out think he is lying?

Re: We can't see our own membership file?

Posted: October 6th, 2015, 9:11 pm
by Original_Intent
Ah, darn, BeeP (or someone else) deleted her post. :(