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I have no doubt that people actually speak in this manner. It is usually because they don't understand how to form a correct sentence. That is why it is so odd that they would punctuate for the missing sentence structure.

broken heart - see the contradictory advice you've gotten from a dozen anonymous boneheads on a forum? take this advice : drag as few people as possible into your drama. if you want to talk to your bishop do it. don't talk to your home tracers, your RS president, your visiting teachers etc. they are all less intelligent about your life than you are. fast. pray. ask for a blessing from your husband. from your bishop, too. then figure it out with love for your WONDERFUL HUSBAND and family(?)

Her choice of words, expressions, loose translations and spellings are exactly what my husband demonstrates when he types in English. Hence my immediate assumption that she was Hispanic.. And I was right ;)

Thomas, she is a very sweet humble girl, I will
Ask her to repent for her use of punctuation. I'll also inform her that until she has perfectly mastered English that he has no business applying punctuation to her words. :p

Bananikka wrote:Thomas, she is a very sweet humble girl, I will
Ask her to repent for her use of punctuation. I'll also inform her that until she has perfectly mastered English that he has no business applying punctuation to her words. :p

I never accused her of sin. Just because you talk to someone by pm doesn't validate their identity.

Their have been
people on this forum posting under multiple user names that got away with it for years.

That being said, I really don't care if someone is making up an identity or not.

If she is for real, she needs to stand by her man. Loving, and loyalty in marriage is far more important than fidelity to any institution.

I might be disappointed if my wife joined another religion but I would always remain loyal to her.

Brokenheart, God is real. Take this opportunity to pray unto and draw closer to Him. He want to and will comfort you!

Soften your heart and talk to your husband. Sincerely try to see things from his point of view. Then trust God to help you find the truth of the matter. Through the Holy Ghost we may know the truth of all things (Moroni 10:5). God's Truth is what matters. This may take some time so I would encourage you not to act in haste. Trust in God.

I am with everyone else who said to get a blessing....hard to think straight when you are panicked....So sorry for your troubles. I will pray for you....and send you love and hugs....

: HI ALL..! I HEAR YU ALL...thank you. Go to my Bishop ?...impossible, he is a nice man, honorable and I support him as a Bishop .Everyone have weakness in life, and his challenge in life he is very very shy, and no much a people person. Yes, I try go to him before, just guidance in something very serious but he just stare at me. That is his challenged in life I guess.
Visitor teacher...she is a good person, and a friend , once I open my hearth to her , and since them she no visit me or she want to come when the whole family is there. She is the Bishop wife. Very nice sister. Make sad but no mad.
Talk to my husband > oh course yes! talk to him with my heart open. We no yell, or argue or mad at each other. I no have energy to b mad,i am to sad for that. Talk endless to him, and I heard him patiently , to know what he think and why.
Is very complicated how Denver eat they brain . :ymdevil: :((
I run for help. with people that I know, my ex Bishop who I love him dearly , and 2 other person.
But is "funny " how all this start or develop in my eyes and I no saw until too late.
I start to ponder things about the Church for 2 year I think, no my testimony, or in the Leadership at all. General and healthy question...in other words " I murmur " . And I voice that to my husband. And ater he start to talk about this guy and a book. He buy the book for me. I never read it. Later I saw him read and read and get fascinated it with this guys.
And he start to really be critical of the Church. And more and more...and he start to push more and more about this guy. ( Denver ) and no put much attention to it.
And one night he give something to read , that was from Denver, I read for the first time . That was so gross. How he lash out about the Church! that I could no finish! I talk about to my husband.
One night he sat and talk : And he talk about this guy, and the church. And them, just something just pop! I ask plain: Do you still believe P. Monson is a Prophet ?. He said NO. My heart just sunk !...and them I ask : do you believe this guys is ?. and he said YES.
Them the world just collapse!... I feel like a chill all over my body !...and I said . refuced or read about him.
I no fallow blindly the Church. I n agreed in many things. This church is no perfect. But still the House of the Lord , and I refuce to leave the House of the Lord.
The start my journey trough Denver.Denver World. :((
And there all my doubts, was in piece with all of them. And them I feel like my testimony just went bigger even.
I never thought that I love sooooo much P. Monson. If he is perfect man, I no think so. But I know he is here to lead us. With love.
He no impose us the Gospel. We can choose to fallow or not. :ymhug:
Denver teach and threat that if we no fallow him , we going to leave a like coward and b miserable for the rest of ours life!...and he threat that if we curse him God will curse us!....
Jesus , in the cross, forgive who was killing him, he love them so much! he even ask to Father to forgive them!

Is people Blind!...this is what Lucifer said that he will do WHEN Jesus and him present a plan.

So so so sorry I no meant to put that Devil face Icon there ! I am new in this and I push the wrong Icon!l

Now just now I finish reading all the post.
So, so , so sorry about my English. I said very humble way ,that I am from Brazil and I m fluent ( portugues ). Grow up in Paraguay : Castellano and Guarani ( an Indian language ) , my dad is German , he only spoke to me in german , I took 3 years classes of Italian , I do ASL ( American Sign Language ) , but the hardest language of all is English , the format is very different of all the others languages.
I am very sad , that I came here to find more relief , and if the manner I type or express my Self cast doubts , make me even more sad. Sorry, but I must leave. At this moment of my life , I no want to expend my energy here too, defending my English , that created a huge problem in my daily life already , embarrass me , because people belived I am kind dumb.
I most of the time silent at Church, because if I have error the way I express my self, the sisters too, later approach me to give advise to take English class. In all the years I leave here, no once they ask me to give a talk. Is sad , but why b angry?.
When I call in the phone to deal with something the soon they heard my accent they loose patiente.
I cant stay here , I no want to offend anyone.
But I am tired of giving explanations about it .I no want to heard any attack to the RS or V Teachers , I love them, they are no perfect.
The Church is a hospital of sick peoples , no a retirement home of perfects peoples.
Talk to my husband endless .With respect> Have P. Monson back.
Leave him ?. NO think in that. I said BELOVED HUSBAND , because hi really feel they way he feel. I cant condemn him for that. But hurt.
Angry? No at all. Waste of energy.
I no have desired "convince him " to changed .
No one is prepared yet for Denver crisis.
I am very sad. I came here for solace.
Thank you for your advise.
Sorry, for make some of you uncomfortable and suspicious.
I never was in a forum before and I was ignorant ( lack of understanding ) of the manner in which was expect to express in a forum.
I guess I just probed to my self , that I was right in no be part of one
R.L.B

OBRIEN...so sorry that you think is a drama.

Sorry, still think she is phony. Not a real person. The punctuation is sophisticated at a level beyond the ability of someone that cannot form complete sentences. Big mis-match. It is like a skilled writer trying to write what such a person would sound like. If you don't know your missing the word I, why put an ellipses there? It's a dead give away.

I going to watch the movie Catfish now. I need to see something heart wrenching.

Sen6b wrote: I think you're just awful. I will always err on the side of compassion

And that is what I call an oxymoron.

I guess calling someone a douche bag is your version of compassion.

What you really mean is that you have compassion with anyone that agrees with you and hatred for those that don't.

32 For if ye love them which love you, what thank have ye? for sinners also love those that love them.

33 And if ye do good to them which do good to you, what thank have ye? for sinners also do even the same.

No i have compassion for those who deserve it.

Pretty much what I just said.

Strange that I picture you as the bitter one, always calling people names and launching personal attacks. I see you as the negative one, closed minded and defensive.

From your picture, you look quite young(16 or 17). I am such a positive person that I think you might be able to get over it if you grow up.

Easy ppl.
This good lady's husband just had his brain eaten by Duster.

Take a step back.

Njb

notjamesbond003.5 wrote:Easy ppl.
This good lady's husband just had his brain eaten by Duster.

Take a step back.

Njb

Your to funny, he has eaten alot of them lately! @-)

And just a thought, you married this man. Think if his attributes and strengths that lead to your love for him. Is he an intelligent human being? Does he truly believe he is following God?

I would imagine he is and does, so why not encourage him? Ask him kindly, "do you really and truly believe this is Gods will?" If he does then glorious!

Do you think a loving God would ever punish someone who is seeking to follow that God in sincerity? If you do you do not know or worship the God that I do. If your husband is at fault, no matter what the degree, God will kindly and patiently succor him and Christ will continually draw him unto Truth as He does with all earnest seekers of righteousness.

Trust in Gods plan. God foresaw this change in your husband and knew it would bless him AND YOU if you both lean upon Him. Worship together and seek to understand, trusting that he is competent and sane. Pray to God to understand him better.

Que bueno que hay gente que aqui habla espanol!


Thanks for comforting her Bananikka.