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Thomas wrote:Food for thought. The JST transaltion says lied not.
If the prophet lied not, then why was the man of God killed by the lion? Maybe the JST wasn't completed for publication??

So the question for me is, did God tell the prophet to lie to the man of God, or did the prophet lie of his own accord? To me, it seems like the prophet was testing him--will he follow the word of God or the words of a man? And he failed the test.

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log wrote:
InfoWarrior82 wrote:
log wrote: For him to be right that prophets are always dealt with by the Lord, and never by anyone that is not the Lord, one of them has to be a false prophet.

See?

Log, log, log... *shakes head* No, my brother, no. Just no.

How I measure a true prophet from a false prophet in this chapter:

the old man "LIED". Yeah, didn't you read that word? I'm sure you did! If not, you can go back and read it again. So the dude LIIIIEEED when he said the Lord and His angels told him to say the things he said.

Case. Closed.
Joseph lied about polygamy.

Case. Closed.
How do we know that Joseph lied about polygamy?

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I've totally lost track of what is being debated here...
Thomas wrote:Food for thought. The JST transaltion says lied not.
But this is some yummy thought food! That correction completely changes the passage from being about someone lying about having a vision to a prophet being commanded by the Lord to tempt someone to disobey the Lord. In the end the "Man of God" (prophet #2? or #1? Or is it Prophet #1 vs Prophet A??) fell because he listened to a true prophet who had a true revelation instead of relying on his own relationship with the Lord.

Fascinating.

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BrentL wrote:Many years ago there lived an emperor who loved beautiful new clothes so much that he spent all his money on being finely dressed. His only interest was in going to the theater or in riding about in his carriage where he could show off his new clothes. He had a different costume for every hour of the day. Indeed, where it was said of other kings that they were at court, it could only be said of him that he was in his dressing room!
LOL, I love this story and read the whole thing. Went I got to the end, I hadforgotten what thread I was on, and you didn't make you point, aside from the moral of the story.. So I look at the thread title and started laughing! Lol, great point!

Thank you BrentL!

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Well, if he was sealed to multiple women, as the historical evidence suggests, and if a woman sealed to one is a wife, and if he denied having multiple wives, as the historical evidence suggests, then he lied.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Origin_of_ ... t_polygamy" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

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lemuel wrote:
Thomas wrote:Food for thought. The JST transaltion says lied not.
If the prophet lied not, then why was the man of God killed by the lion? Maybe the JST wasn't completed for publication??

So the question for me is, did God tell the prophet to lie to the man of God, or did the prophet lie of his own accord? To me, it seems like the prophet was testing him--will he follow the word of God or the words of a man? And he failed the test.
The way I read it, I imagine it happening like this:

Word of the Lord to the man of God: Don't return to Beth-el, and don't eat or drink there.
Word of the Lord to the prophet in Beth-el: Go and get him and see if he will come back to Beth-el with you and disobey my word.
Prophet in Beth-el: Come back to Beth-el with me and have some grub.
Man of God: No, the Lord commanded me not to.
Prophet in Beth-el: but the Lord commanded me to come get you.
Man of God: Oh, okay.
Word of the Lord to the prophet in Beth-el: Tell him he's in trouble.

I could be mistaken though. :)

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Wow, I love your online name! Lol!
Brother of Matt wrote:The only one we owe anything to and that is worth any praise, adoration, is God our father and then his son Jesus Christ . No one else. Why is it that we teach the song "Follow the prophet" to children and take away the truth, that there is ONLY ONE who is the way, the truth, and the life.
There is NONE good but God.

Great point!

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I'm not so sure that is a great point, since whatever we do to our fellows, we do to God.

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log wrote:Well, if he was sealed to multiple women, as the historical evidence suggests, and if a woman sealed to one is a wife, and if he denied having multiple wives, as the historical evidence suggests, then he lied.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Origin_of_ ... t_polygamy" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;
Out of curiosity, is this statement evil speaking of the Lord's anointed?

As I alluded to before, I believe that the admonition to not speak evil of the Lord's anointed is meant to be a principle of introspection, not of accusation, so I am not suggesting that you are claiming that Joseph sinned when he sinned not. I'm simply trying to understand your position on what does or does not constitute that behavior. :)

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Crying that someone has sinned when they have not sinned would be evil speaking.

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InfoWarrior82 wrote: The Jews were without a prophet during the time of Christ. Before Christ, they were cast out of their midst and stoned.
They had a church, with structure and leaders who taught they were called of God via the system that was established by God through Moses, eldest son of Aaron is the high priest of God. We have the same challenge they had then. We don't get any easy ride because the church structure has been established. We have to learn to recognize the Jonah's and Lehi's that God IS calling to declare his words to the people.

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InfoWarrior82 wrote: The Jews were without a prophet during the time of Christ. Before Christ, they were cast out of their midst and stoned.
They had a church, with structure and leaders who taught they were called of God via the system that was established by God through Moses, eldest son of Aaron is the high priest of God. We have the same challenge they had then. We don't get any easy ride because the church structure has been established. We have to learn to recognize the Jonah's and Lehi's that God IS calling to declare his words to the people.

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log wrote:
InfoWarrior82 wrote:
log wrote: For him to be right that prophets are always dealt with by the Lord, and never by anyone that is not the Lord, one of them has to be a false prophet.

See?

Log, log, log... *shakes head* No, my brother, no. Just no.

How I measure a true prophet from a false prophet in this chapter:

the old man "LIED". Yeah, didn't you read that word? I'm sure you did! If not, you can go back and read it again. So the dude LIIIIEEED when he said the Lord and His angels told him to say the things he said.

Case. Closed.
Joseph lied about polygamy.

Case. Closed.
Again, how do we know Joseph lied about polygamy?

Didn't anyone read this?
In the evening we held a service in the Music Hall of the city [Lehi, Utah]. We went early to the room and were met and welcomed by a number of our own members, as well as other friends and citizens. In chatting before the services somebody came and told me that Mrs. Ira Willis was present. I referred to this woman in the early part of these Memoirs.

This news was of interest for I had frequently been told that she, who used to be Melissa Lott, claimed to have been a wife to my father and would so testify, and that I would not dare to visit and interview her for she would tell me unwelcome things. I had, of course, seen the affidavits which she and others made, published by Joseph F. Smith to bolster up his statement that Father had more wives than one.

I at once went to Mrs. Willis, was introduced, and promptly asked the privilege of calling upon her for an interview. This permission she very cordially granted. (The Memoirs of President Joseph Smith III (1832-1914), p.244)

By appointment I went to the home of Mrs. Willis at ten o'clock on the Tuesday following our meeting in the Music Hall. As I have already stated in connection with this woman, she was a daughter of Cornelius P. Lott, a man who had come to Nauvoo from the East, his family consisting of wife, sons John and baby Peter, and daughters Melissa, Martha, Mary, and Alzina. They lived in a house on the farm belonging to Father, just east of the city, and I knew them all in a general way. I was fairly well acquainted with Melissa and with her history and movements up to the time of their departure from Nauvoo, when they all emigrated to Utah.

Melissa married Ira Willis, as I have related—a kind, shrewd Yankee and most excellent man. I had heard that they had had two sons, but when I went to call on her she was living alone. One son had died as he approached manhood, and the husband and the other son had together met death in an accident occurring when they were coming down from the mountains with a load of wood. So she was left a widow and childless at the same time.

Her home was a one-room cottage, and when bidden to enter I found her sitting by the fireside preparing things for the midday meal. It was an old-fashioned fireplace such as I was used to seeing, with broad hearth and wide-throated chimney in which were the traditional hooks to support the kettles swung over the fire, the big dogs on which the logs rested, and nearby the fireshovel, tongs, and poker. Ira Willis had always been a thrifty and handy man-of-all-work and loved to make and provide many conveniences and accessories for his home. I have told how Ira Willis once released my tongue from a frosty axe by pouring warm water on the imprisoned member. He had a hearty laugh at my expense, and for several hours I nursed an extra mouthful of swollen tongue. Mother too had laughed at the occurrence when she heard of it and told me it would be well for me if I could learn some things without trying too many experiments for myself! I have never forgotten that instance and even today, as I retell the story, my stenographer and I have had a hearty laugh over the predicament of an excited boy rushing into the house with his tongue glued to a frosted axe!

I was well received by Mrs. Willis whom I knew by the old familiar name of Melissa. I told her I had a great desire to talk with her for I had been informed she knew things I would not dare to question her about. I said I wanted to know the truth, whatever it was, and believed that in answer to my questions she would be willing to tell me what she knew.

She answered that she would be glad to grant the interview, but explained that some unexpected company was coming for lunch and she would prefer if I could call in the afternoon instead, when she would be more at liberty and with leisure for a conversation. Of course this was agreeable to me, and after exchanging a few reminiscences I left her.

Returning in the afternoon I found her guests had gone, and she was ready for a chat, willing, as she said, to answer any question I would ask about conditions in Nauvoo of which she had any knowledge. I began by asking:

"Did you know of the teaching of plural marriage or polygamy at Nauvoo?"

"I had heard of it in private but not publicly."

"Did you know of any woman having been married to, my father and living with him as his wife, besides my mother?"

"No; and nothing of the kind occurred to my knowledge."

"Do you have any reason to believe such a thing took place and that my mother knew of there being another woman besides herself who was wife to my father?"

"No," quite emphatically, "I am sure she did not."

"Now, Melissa, I have been told that there were women, other than my mother, who were married to my father and lived with him as his wife, and that my mother knew it. How about it?"

She answered rather tremulously, "If there was anything of that kind going on you may be sure that your mother knew nothing about it."

I then asked her what was her opinion of my mother's character for truth and veracity. She replied that she considered my mother one of the noblest women in the world, and that she had known her well and knew her to be as good and truthful a woman as ever lived.

"Then you think I would be justified in believing what my mother told me?"

"Yes, indeed, for she would not lie to you."

"Well, Melissa, my mother told me that my father had never had any wife other than herself, had never had any connection with any other woman as a wife, and was never married to any woman other than herself, with her consent or knowledge, or in any manner whatsoever. Do you consider I am justified in believing her?"

Without hesitation she answered, "If your mother told you any such thing as that you may depend upon what she said and feel sure she was telling the truth, and that she knew nothing about any such state of affairs. Yes, you would be entirely justified in believing her."

Our conversation continued for some time. Finally I asked, plainly, "Melissa, will you tell me just what was your relation to my father, if any?"

She arose, went to a shelf, and returned with a Bible which she opened at the family record pages and showed me a line written there in a scrawling handwriting:

"Married my daughter Melissa to Prophet Joseph Smith—" giving the date, which I seem to remember as late in 1843.

I looked closely at the handwriting and examined the book and other entries carefully. Then I asked:

"Who were present when this marriage took place—if marriage it may be called?"

"No one but your father and myself."

"Was my mother there?"

"No, sir."

"Was there no witness there?"

"No, sir."

"Where did it occur?"

"At the house on the farm."

"And my mother knew nothing about it, before or after?"

"No, sir."

"Did you ever live with my father as his wife, in the Mansion House in Nauvoo, as has been claimed?"

"No, sir."

"Did you ever live with him as his wife anywhere?" I persisted.

At this point she began to cry, and said, "No, I never did; but you have no business asking me such questions. I had a great regard and respect for both your father and your mother. I do not like to talk about these things."

"Well, Melissa, I have repeatedly been told that you have stated that you were married to my father and lived with him as his wife and that my mother knew of it. Now you tell me you never did live with him as his wife although claiming: to have been married to him. You tell me there was no one present at that purported marriage except the three of you and that my mother knew nothing about such an alliance. Frankly, I am at a loss to know just what you would have me believe about you."

I was about to make still closer inquiries in order to find out if she ever had any relations of any sort with my father other than the ordinary relations that may properly exist between such persons under the usual conditions of social procedure, when just then there came a rap on the door, and in walked her sisters Mary and Alzina.

Alzina lived rather near Melissa, but Mary, the older, was living some twenty-five or thirty miles away. Hearing I was in Lehi she had hitched up her team andt come to see me, stopping at Alzina's on the way and bringing her along.

They expressed great pleasure in meeting me again, and I was glad to see them. Our talk was general for a while, for their entrance had changed my line of inquiry somewhat. Then, urged to put to Melissa a question of importance, I asked:

"Melissa, do you know where I can find a brother or a sister, child or children of my father, born to him by some woman other than my mother—in Illinois, Utah, or anywhere else?"

She answered that she did not, whereupon Mary broke in and said:

"No, Brother Joseph, for there isn't any!”

Then she went on to say, "For twelve years I have made it my business to run down every rumor I have heard about the existence of children born to the Prophet by those women who were reputed to have been his wives. I have traveled a good many miles here and there for the purpose of finding out the truth about such statements, and not in one single instance have I ever found them substantiated or any evidence presented that had the least bit of truth in it. I have never been able to find a single child which could possibly have been born to Joseph Smith in plural marriage."

At this juncture Alzina snapped in with an explosive and characteristic exclamation:

"No, Brother Joseph, there is none, and what's more, I don't believe there ever was any chance for one!"

The earnestness of her manner and the snap with which she pointed her remark caused a ripple of laughter among us, in which, however, Melissa did not join. Noticing this, I turned to her and said:

"Melissa, how about it? You hear what your sisters are saying?"

Tears began to trickle down her face as she said, "Yes, Brother Joseph, I hear them."

"Well, what do you say? Can I believe as they do?"

She drew a deep breath, as if making a sudden decision, and then, with a sigh with lips trembling:

"Yes; you can believe that they are telling you the truth. There was no chance for any children."

Mary then explained in more detail about certain places she had gone to make inquiries directly of the persons involved (whom she named) and to see the women and the children who, it was stated, were wives and offspring of the Prophet. She said in every instance she proved the report false, either as to the woman claiming to be such a wife or as to children being there as claimed.

I thanked her and the other girls for the statements they had made. Our conversation on this and other topics continued for some time. We recalled many incidents of old times, and I learned from them of the deaths of their parents and the whereabouts and fortunes of others of the family.

I left these sisters feeling well repaid for my persistence in obtaining the interview with Mrs. Willis. In spite of what I had been told, she had neither been able to "face me down" nor to convince me that my father had done reprehensible things which I would be unwilling to believe. Instead, I left her presence and that of her sisters with my previous convictions more firmly established, if such a thing were possible. The interview had convinced me that the statement made in an affidavit of this Melissa Lott Willis, published by Joseph F. Smith along with others of similar import, to the effect that she had been married to Joseph Smith, was not true, provided the word married be construed as conveying the right of living together as man and wife, a relation she had unequivocally denied in my presence. I was convinced that wherever the word married or sealed occurred in such testimonials regarding my father it meant nothing more than that possibly those women had gone through some ceremony or covenant which they intended as an arrangement for association in the world to come, and could by no means have any reference whatever to marital rights in the flesh.

I was also convinced from the statements of Mrs. Willis that the entry in the Bible which she showed to me was a line written by her father, or some other person, recording an untruth. When I asked her in plain language how it happened she had not lived with my father as his wife if she had really been married to him, she had answered in equally plain language, that she had not lived with him in that manner because it was not right that she should do so.

I had made up my mind when I went to Utah that whenever and wherever I found opportunity I would converse with those women who had claimed, or were reputed, to be wives of my father— wives in polygamy, plural marriage, celestial, sealed, or any kind of arrangement—and in so doing I would subject them to as severe a cross examination as was within my power, to get as near as possible to the actual truth of the circumstances and the reports. It was for this reason I had called upon this woman, and I should have questioned her still further and in a more specific manner had not the entrance of her sisters turned the trend of conversation in a measure.

After my visit south, to Beaver, we passed through Lehi again on our way back to Salt Lake City, at which time I tried to have another conversation with Mrs. Willis, but learned she was not at home. I knew it would have been entirely useless to question her in the presence of an elder of their church as she would either evade my questions or refuse utterly to answer. Indeed, it is possible she may have been so far under domination and surveillance as to have stated, in such a contingency, that which was not true. As it was, I felt I had secured truthful statements from her, for she had betrayed some real depths of emotion as we conversed. She had stated that I might believe what my mother had told me for she regarded my mother as an honest, upright woman who was absolutely truthful. She had also stated that notwithstanding the "marriage" entry scribbled in her Bible, purported to be written by her father, she had not lived with Joseph Smith as his wife, believing it was "not right" to do so, and further, that he had never urged her to do so. I had also learned from her and her sisters that so far as their knowledge went there had been no issue of any polygamous marriages made by Joseph Smith, such as had been alleged. (The Memoirs of President Joseph Smith III (1832-1914), pp. 245-246)
http://www.defendingjoseph.com/2009/01/ ... fe-of.html

If that's true, maybe he was just sealed to these women for eternity (and not married to them in the sense of having marital relations here on earth), so how do we know he lied?

What exactly did he say, and when did he say it, and how do we know he lied?

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log wrote:Well, if he was sealed to multiple women, as the historical evidence suggests, and if a woman sealed to one is a wife, and if he denied having multiple wives, as the historical evidence suggests, then he lied.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Origin_of_ ... t_polygamy" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

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lemuel wrote:
Thomas wrote:Food for thought. The JST transaltion says lied not.
If the prophet lied not, then why was the man of God killed by the lion? Maybe the JST wasn't completed for publication??

So the question for me is, did God tell the prophet to lie to the man of God, or did the prophet lie of his own accord? To me, it seems like the prophet was testing him--will he follow the word of God or the words of a man? And he failed the test.
I think it means God was testing the first prophet. He was commanded to head straight home.

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log wrote:Well, if he was sealed to multiple women, as the historical evidence suggests, and if a woman sealed to one is a wife, and if he denied having multiple wives, as the historical evidence suggests, then he lied.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Origin_of_ ... t_polygamy" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;
But if he was sealed to multiple women for eternity, and if a woman sealed to one for eternity isn't necessarily a wife to him here in mortality, then how do we know he lied?

Didn't you read this?
In the evening we held a service in the Music Hall of the city [Lehi, Utah]. We went early to the room and were met and welcomed by a number of our own members, as well as other friends and citizens. In chatting before the services somebody came and told me that Mrs. Ira Willis was present. I referred to this woman in the early part of these Memoirs.

This news was of interest for I had frequently been told that she, who used to be Melissa Lott, claimed to have been a wife to my father and would so testify, and that I would not dare to visit and interview her for she would tell me unwelcome things. I had, of course, seen the affidavits which she and others made, published by Joseph F. Smith to bolster up his statement that Father had more wives than one.

I at once went to Mrs. Willis, was introduced, and promptly asked the privilege of calling upon her for an interview. This permission she very cordially granted. (The Memoirs of President Joseph Smith III (1832-1914), p.244)

By appointment I went to the home of Mrs. Willis at ten o'clock on the Tuesday following our meeting in the Music Hall. As I have already stated in connection with this woman, she was a daughter of Cornelius P. Lott, a man who had come to Nauvoo from the East, his family consisting of wife, sons John and baby Peter, and daughters Melissa, Martha, Mary, and Alzina. They lived in a house on the farm belonging to Father, just east of the city, and I knew them all in a general way. I was fairly well acquainted with Melissa and with her history and movements up to the time of their departure from Nauvoo, when they all emigrated to Utah.

Melissa married Ira Willis, as I have related—a kind, shrewd Yankee and most excellent man. I had heard that they had had two sons, but when I went to call on her she was living alone. One son had died as he approached manhood, and the husband and the other son had together met death in an accident occurring when they were coming down from the mountains with a load of wood. So she was left a widow and childless at the same time.

Her home was a one-room cottage, and when bidden to enter I found her sitting by the fireside preparing things for the midday meal. It was an old-fashioned fireplace such as I was used to seeing, with broad hearth and wide-throated chimney in which were the traditional hooks to support the kettles swung over the fire, the big dogs on which the logs rested, and nearby the fireshovel, tongs, and poker. Ira Willis had always been a thrifty and handy man-of-all-work and loved to make and provide many conveniences and accessories for his home. I have told how Ira Willis once released my tongue from a frosty axe by pouring warm water on the imprisoned member. He had a hearty laugh at my expense, and for several hours I nursed an extra mouthful of swollen tongue. Mother too had laughed at the occurrence when she heard of it and told me it would be well for me if I could learn some things without trying too many experiments for myself! I have never forgotten that instance and even today, as I retell the story, my stenographer and I have had a hearty laugh over the predicament of an excited boy rushing into the house with his tongue glued to a frosted axe!

I was well received by Mrs. Willis whom I knew by the old familiar name of Melissa. I told her I had a great desire to talk with her for I had been informed she knew things I would not dare to question her about. I said I wanted to know the truth, whatever it was, and believed that in answer to my questions she would be willing to tell me what she knew.

She answered that she would be glad to grant the interview, but explained that some unexpected company was coming for lunch and she would prefer if I could call in the afternoon instead, when she would be more at liberty and with leisure for a conversation. Of course this was agreeable to me, and after exchanging a few reminiscences I left her.

Returning in the afternoon I found her guests had gone, and she was ready for a chat, willing, as she said, to answer any question I would ask about conditions in Nauvoo of which she had any knowledge. I began by asking:

"Did you know of the teaching of plural marriage or polygamy at Nauvoo?"

"I had heard of it in private but not publicly."

"Did you know of any woman having been married to, my father and living with him as his wife, besides my mother?"

"No; and nothing of the kind occurred to my knowledge."

"Do you have any reason to believe such a thing took place and that my mother knew of there being another woman besides herself who was wife to my father?"

"No," quite emphatically, "I am sure she did not."

"Now, Melissa, I have been told that there were women, other than my mother, who were married to my father and lived with him as his wife, and that my mother knew it. How about it?"

She answered rather tremulously, "If there was anything of that kind going on you may be sure that your mother knew nothing about it."

I then asked her what was her opinion of my mother's character for truth and veracity. She replied that she considered my mother one of the noblest women in the world, and that she had known her well and knew her to be as good and truthful a woman as ever lived.

"Then you think I would be justified in believing what my mother told me?"

"Yes, indeed, for she would not lie to you."

"Well, Melissa, my mother told me that my father had never had any wife other than herself, had never had any connection with any other woman as a wife, and was never married to any woman other than herself, with her consent or knowledge, or in any manner whatsoever. Do you consider I am justified in believing her?"

Without hesitation she answered, "If your mother told you any such thing as that you may depend upon what she said and feel sure she was telling the truth, and that she knew nothing about any such state of affairs. Yes, you would be entirely justified in believing her."

Our conversation continued for some time. Finally I asked, plainly, "Melissa, will you tell me just what was your relation to my father, if any?"

She arose, went to a shelf, and returned with a Bible which she opened at the family record pages and showed me a line written there in a scrawling handwriting:

"Married my daughter Melissa to Prophet Joseph Smith—" giving the date, which I seem to remember as late in 1843.

I looked closely at the handwriting and examined the book and other entries carefully. Then I asked:

"Who were present when this marriage took place—if marriage it may be called?"

"No one but your father and myself."

"Was my mother there?"

"No, sir."

"Was there no witness there?"

"No, sir."

"Where did it occur?"

"At the house on the farm."

"And my mother knew nothing about it, before or after?"

"No, sir."

"Did you ever live with my father as his wife, in the Mansion House in Nauvoo, as has been claimed?"

"No, sir."

"Did you ever live with him as his wife anywhere?" I persisted.

At this point she began to cry, and said, "No, I never did; but you have no business asking me such questions. I had a great regard and respect for both your father and your mother. I do not like to talk about these things."

"Well, Melissa, I have repeatedly been told that you have stated that you were married to my father and lived with him as his wife and that my mother knew of it. Now you tell me you never did live with him as his wife although claiming: to have been married to him. You tell me there was no one present at that purported marriage except the three of you and that my mother knew nothing about such an alliance. Frankly, I am at a loss to know just what you would have me believe about you."

I was about to make still closer inquiries in order to find out if she ever had any relations of any sort with my father other than the ordinary relations that may properly exist between such persons under the usual conditions of social procedure, when just then there came a rap on the door, and in walked her sisters Mary and Alzina.

Alzina lived rather near Melissa, but Mary, the older, was living some twenty-five or thirty miles away. Hearing I was in Lehi she had hitched up her team andt come to see me, stopping at Alzina's on the way and bringing her along.

They expressed great pleasure in meeting me again, and I was glad to see them. Our talk was general for a while, for their entrance had changed my line of inquiry somewhat. Then, urged to put to Melissa a question of importance, I asked:

"Melissa, do you know where I can find a brother or a sister, child or children of my father, born to him by some woman other than my mother—in Illinois, Utah, or anywhere else?"

She answered that she did not, whereupon Mary broke in and said:

"No, Brother Joseph, for there isn't any!”

Then she went on to say, "For twelve years I have made it my business to run down every rumor I have heard about the existence of children born to the Prophet by those women who were reputed to have been his wives. I have traveled a good many miles here and there for the purpose of finding out the truth about such statements, and not in one single instance have I ever found them substantiated or any evidence presented that had the least bit of truth in it. I have never been able to find a single child which could possibly have been born to Joseph Smith in plural marriage."

At this juncture Alzina snapped in with an explosive and characteristic exclamation:

"No, Brother Joseph, there is none, and what's more, I don't believe there ever was any chance for one!"

The earnestness of her manner and the snap with which she pointed her remark caused a ripple of laughter among us, in which, however, Melissa did not join. Noticing this, I turned to her and said:

"Melissa, how about it? You hear what your sisters are saying?"

Tears began to trickle down her face as she said, "Yes, Brother Joseph, I hear them."

"Well, what do you say? Can I believe as they do?"

She drew a deep breath, as if making a sudden decision, and then, with a sigh with lips trembling:

"Yes; you can believe that they are telling you the truth. There was no chance for any children."

Mary then explained in more detail about certain places she had gone to make inquiries directly of the persons involved (whom she named) and to see the women and the children who, it was stated, were wives and offspring of the Prophet. She said in every instance she proved the report false, either as to the woman claiming to be such a wife or as to children being there as claimed.

I thanked her and the other girls for the statements they had made. Our conversation on this and other topics continued for some time. We recalled many incidents of old times, and I learned from them of the deaths of their parents and the whereabouts and fortunes of others of the family.

I left these sisters feeling well repaid for my persistence in obtaining the interview with Mrs. Willis. In spite of what I had been told, she had neither been able to "face me down" nor to convince me that my father had done reprehensible things which I would be unwilling to believe. Instead, I left her presence and that of her sisters with my previous convictions more firmly established, if such a thing were possible. The interview had convinced me that the statement made in an affidavit of this Melissa Lott Willis, published by Joseph F. Smith along with others of similar import, to the effect that she had been married to Joseph Smith, was not true, provided the word married be construed as conveying the right of living together as man and wife, a relation she had unequivocally denied in my presence. I was convinced that wherever the word married or sealed occurred in such testimonials regarding my father it meant nothing more than that possibly those women had gone through some ceremony or covenant which they intended as an arrangement for association in the world to come, and could by no means have any reference whatever to marital rights in the flesh.

I was also convinced from the statements of Mrs. Willis that the entry in the Bible which she showed to me was a line written by her father, or some other person, recording an untruth. When I asked her in plain language how it happened she had not lived with my father as his wife if she had really been married to him, she had answered in equally plain language, that she had not lived with him in that manner because it was not right that she should do so.

I had made up my mind when I went to Utah that whenever and wherever I found opportunity I would converse with those women who had claimed, or were reputed, to be wives of my father— wives in polygamy, plural marriage, celestial, sealed, or any kind of arrangement—and in so doing I would subject them to as severe a cross examination as was within my power, to get as near as possible to the actual truth of the circumstances and the reports. It was for this reason I had called upon this woman, and I should have questioned her still further and in a more specific manner had not the entrance of her sisters turned the trend of conversation in a measure.

After my visit south, to Beaver, we passed through Lehi again on our way back to Salt Lake City, at which time I tried to have another conversation with Mrs. Willis, but learned she was not at home. I knew it would have been entirely useless to question her in the presence of an elder of their church as she would either evade my questions or refuse utterly to answer. Indeed, it is possible she may have been so far under domination and surveillance as to have stated, in such a contingency, that which was not true. As it was, I felt I had secured truthful statements from her, for she had betrayed some real depths of emotion as we conversed. She had stated that I might believe what my mother had told me for she regarded my mother as an honest, upright woman who was absolutely truthful. She had also stated that notwithstanding the "marriage" entry scribbled in her Bible, purported to be written by her father, she had not lived with Joseph Smith as his wife, believing it was "not right" to do so, and further, that he had never urged her to do so. I had also learned from her and her sisters that so far as their knowledge went there had been no issue of any polygamous marriages made by Joseph Smith, such as had been alleged. (The Memoirs of President Joseph Smith III (1832-1914), pp. 245-246)
http://www.defendingjoseph.com/2009/01/ ... fe-of.html

Could the above be true?

Is it possible Joseph was just sealed to these women for eternity (and not married to them in the sense of having marital relations here on earth)?

So how do we know he lied about polygamy?

What exactly did he say, when did he say it, and how do we know he lied?

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It does seem to crucially depend on whether a woman sealed to one is a wife, doesn't it?
But if he was sealed to multiple women for eternity, and if a woman sealed to one for eternity isn't necessarily a wife to him here in mortality, then how do we know he lied?
Hence the hypothetical nature of the thing - "if..."
Didn't you read this?
I read it the first time you posted it; this would mark the third or fourth time, and at least the second time in this very thread. I'm not sure repeating it serves any purpose.

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and at least the second time in this very thread.
I didn't post it here on this thread before, did someone else?

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inquirringmind wrote:
and at least the second time in this very thread.
I didn't post it here on this thread before, did someone else?
This wasn't you?

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In any event, if a person believes Joseph was sealed to multiple women, and if a person believes that a woman to whom one is sealed is a wife to one, and if a person believes Joseph denied having more than one wife, then that person must conclude that Joseph lied.

I should have phrased it as a hypothetical when I spoke of it the first time - I hazarded a guess that InfoWarrior82 believes these propositions. His reaction, and I quote, " =))", leads me to believe that he, in fact, does.

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log wrote:
inquirringmind wrote:
and at least the second time in this very thread.
I didn't post it here on this thread before, did someone else?
This wasn't you?
I forgot posting that.

I'm sorry (maybe I'm getting alzheimer's.)

But do you think it's possible Joseph Smith III was telling the truth?

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Yes, I think it's possible.

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Thank you.

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Joseph lied, teenage girls cried.
Them Emma wanted some, so then we got Section 132.
She wanted Mr Law, he said umm, no.
Then Joseph tried it on Mrs Law, who told hubby, who then left and started the Nauvoo Expositor.
Then the printing press thing.
Then the murder of Joseph and his Brother.
A great leader, but yes, he lied.
Then he died.

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InfoWarrior82 wrote:
Simon wrote:The best example I can think of is Christ himselfe. When he was born, there were scirptures, priests, prophets and even temples. The Jews were te chosen people of God, and so they saw themselves. They were convinced they made everything right before God. Christ came to them as a stranger, and told them the truth. He called them unto repentance. But they rejected him.

Similarely it was with Lehi... He also preached to the Jews, they also were convinced of doing everything right. But at that time the Lord called many prophets that called them unto repentance...

We also have the example of Samuel the Lamanite, who had to call the Nephites unto repentance.. but they would not harken..

As soon as a people, beliefsystem or religion departs from the right way, the Lord will call them unto repentance first. So, if our leaders WOULD depart from the rigt way, we would find somewhere true messangers speaking out warnings..

But this is just my personal view of this...
The Jews were without a prophet during the time of Christ. Before Christ, they were cast out of their midst and stoned.

I guess my point is: In every instance, the Lord's chosen prophets have always been dealt with through the Lord Himself. Can you think of an example where a prophet departed from the right way and needed to be called to repentance from someone other than the Lord?

We need to ask, how does God deal with prophets himselfe, and does he only do so with those prophets that are truely connected to him. If a prophet has gone astray, it may be that the Lord deals with him personaly, or that he uses any other means that he see's fit. But if a prophet has never seen Christ personally, he will most probably not deal with him in person. And this is my point. Many relgions and people were convinced they had the truth, the were convinced they had true prophets ( or simply leaders ) amongst them. In that case, God did send true prophets to call them unto repntance. So, the real question we have to ask ourselves is wether our leaders are connected with heaven.. an if they were theoreticaly not, there would be other prophets calling tham unto repentance.. This is my conviction..

Besides that, the scriptures in Kind do talk about two prophets. One received a clear revelation from God to not return to that place. The other prophet lied to him, and told him an angel commanded him to tell him to return. Both were true prophets, and I am convinced that the one who lied did not just do that for fun, he surely did so for the Lord. But the prophet belived rather a man than God personally. Here he dealt with him in such a way.

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