coachmarc wrote:awake wrote:I believe the problem is that some members believe 'prophets can't lead us astray'. I do not believe that is true for a minute. Mere Church history proves that is untrue, let alone that such an opinion isn't backed up by scripture.
Believing that 'prophets can't lead us astray' is just what the adversary would have us believe, for it actually sets people up to be ,in fact, easily led astray, because they stop questioning things and thinking things out for themselves...
Ok, fair enough. What does 'leading us astray' look like? Where has the Lord's church gone wrong and/or where have we been led that is contrary to the Lord's will/design?
This is a loaded question, that might require extensive research to give you a complete answer.
But 2 major ways I've noticed:
1. Tithes are not being given to the poor & the church leaders exploits members by making their "temple worthiness" contingent upon them paying tithes to church leaders, who then secretly hide finances. Deut 14:28-29 was purposefully left out of LDS bible indexes & dictionaries, as if to deceive members in believing that church leaders do not need to share tithes with the poor, yet we know that a true diciple of Christ looks after the poor & needy, as evident in many scriptures, & specifically in Deut 14:28-29 which states that the church/religious organization is to give 1/3 of tithes to the poor.
This is contributing to death by neglect.
Tens of thousands will die today, as they did yesterday & will tomorrow, of preventable causes.
The World Health Organization states that never before in history have there been so many starving - almost 1,000,000,000!!!
Meanwhile, church leaders have chosen to invest in a $5,000,000,000 shopping center, adding to their corporate empire.
Some of the corporations owned by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints...
-La'ie Shopping Center
-La'ie Park
-Deseret Management Corporation
-Beneficial Financial Group
-Bonneville International
-Bonneville Interactive Services
-Bonneville Satellite
35 Radio Stations
-1 Television Station (KSL)
-Deseret Book
-Excel Entertainment
-Deseret Morning News
-Hawaii Reserves
-Polynesian Cultural Center (PCC)
-Mstar.net
-Temple Square Hospitality
-Weddings (Josph Smith MB & Lion House)
-The Inn at Temple Square (no longer - since Mall pursuit)
-Lion House Pantry
-The Roof Restaurant
-The Garden Restaurant
-Passages Restaurant
-Zions Securities Corporation
-Deseret Trust company
-LDS Family Services
-Propery Reserves Inc. (PRI)
-Ensign Peak Advisors
-Deseret Mutual Benefit Administrators (DMBA)
-Brigham Young University (BYU)
-BYU- Idaho
-BYU- Hawaii
-LDS Business College
(& more...)
2. Thinking distortions are taught in the church, which contribute to mental illness.
Utah, extremely influenced by Mormonism, leads the nation (is #1) for anti-depressant prescriptions.
Probably the most helpful psychological advice I've received is a list of cognitive distortions.
I've also considered how these are taught in church doctrine or practice:
1. Filtering: filtering out positive aspects of a situation while magnifying negative...In church, I've gotten the message that I am not good enough, no matter how much I serve & give & that even if I do a lot & don't pay tithing to the church but instead to the poor, I am unworthy.
2. Polarized thinking: black- or white (when often it is a mix) - BI-POLAR thinking: "The church is either true or not." "You are either on the Lord's side or you aren't."
3. Overgeneralization - something happens once, but general conclusions are based on that one happening - (Prejudice - racial & of "non members")
4. Jumping to conclusions - concluding with out knowing or considering all of the facts -(spiritual feeling interpreted to mean church is completely true, when it may be just a particular personally inspiring aspect... I was taught that if something did not fit neatly into dictated beliefs (ie articles of faith or GA statements) then, it should be discounted automatically..Also, many members assume that people who go "inactive" have done something wrong or are somehow misguided for leaving the church & such people are thus shunned & treated badly.)
5. Catastrophizing - magnifying or minimizing, expecting disaster - "LAST DAYS!!!" Fear of God and Satan.
6. Personalization - taking things personally, comparing - Many take celebrities & political figures as if they represent them personally, because they are Mormon.
7. Control Fallacies - Viewing ourselves victim to external controls, or internalizing others pain (to feel control) - ie story of Joseph Smith being victimized, when he also hurt others.
8. Blaming - holding others responsible for our pain, or blaming ourselves for others pain - (I've never read that Jesus ex-communicated nor disfellowshipped even "the least of these.")
9. Shoulds - making rules about everything - & inducing shame when rules aren't kept (Too many "shoulds" to name. One incorrect shaming is about sex, so many Mormons even struggle sexually after marriage)
10. Emotional Reasoning - thinking feelings are facts (when they aren't) - (I've been taught that Mormonism has a monopoly on the companionship of spirit.)
11. Fallacy of Change - Thinking we can change others & then we'll be happy (both aren't true) ... (There is the teaching that "non-members" are lacking and must change to our ways, as if our way is the only way and that if we convince someone to go our way, we will be happy.)
12. Global Labeling - Generalizing - I was taught that anything outside the beliefs of the church is wrong, but everything said by church leaders is God's word and should not be questioned.
13. Always being right - Continually on trial to prove our opinions & actions are correct - (This goes along with Personalization - where members perceive any praise or criticism of the church as praise or criticism of them, obvious on forums - not just between members and non-members but even within members.
14. Heaven's Reward Fallacy - Belief that if you suffer enough, the pay-off will be worth it after-life. More energy & money is given to try to help those who have died, than those who are alive.