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Summer Vacation to Family Reunion?
Posted: June 16th, 2010, 8:38 am
by ldsmomofthree
I am in conflict about attending my husbands immediate family reunion this summer because I am concerned about the geo/political events that are happening around the world.
Last summer after our family vacation to my side of the families reunion, my husband and I "vowed" to each other no more trips or vacations until we had a full years food storage and more savings in the bank.
About a month later his Mom announced that she rented a huge cabin in Yosemite for a gathering of all siblings for the summer. I immediately had a pit in my stomach last fall that by summer I surely did not want to be traveling 2500 miles away from home. As the days get closer to leave I still have a hesitation about going.
My husband does not really follow to much of the day to day happenings in the world and relies on me to inform him. If I insisted on staying home, he would consent to not going. I am concerned that events could turn on a dime and we could be stranded miles and miles from home.
I turned to this forum for advice because I think the people on here see the world as I see it. I have made this a matter of prayer and still have that pit in my stomach.
Your thoughts would be appriciated so much!
Re: Summer Vacation to Family Reunion?
Posted: June 16th, 2010, 8:52 am
by Mark
ldsmomofthree wrote:I am in conflict about attending my husbands immediate family reunion this summer because I am concerned about the geo/political events that are happening around the world.
Last summer after our family vacation to my side of the families reunion, my husband and I "vowed" to each other no more trips or vacations until we had a full years food storage and more savings in the bank.
About a month later his Mom announced that she rented a huge cabin in Yosemite for a gathering of all siblings for the summer. I immediately had a pit in my stomach last fall that by summer I surely did not want to be traveling 2500 miles away from home. As the days get closer to leave I still have a hesitation about going.
My husband does not really follow to much of the day to day happenings in the world and relies on me to inform him. If I insisted on staying home, he would consent to not going. I am concerned that events could turn on a dime and we could be stranded miles and miles from home.
I turned to this forum for advice because I think the people on here see the world as I see it. I have made this a matter of prayer and still have that pit in my stomach.
Your thoughts would be appriciated so much!
Live your life Sister. Enjoy the opportunities of family and friendships. Do not let fears of the unknown rule your actions and thoughts. The Lord will be with you wherever you are if you live worthy of his spirit.
Re: Summer Vacation to Family Reunion?
Posted: June 16th, 2010, 9:09 am
by Scarecrow
Last year some on this forum were saying something about great tribulations beginning possibly in June, and while I didn't give it much credence, it did give me pause, when we left on our vacation. But nothing happned, and all was well, and I'm glad I didn't let the fear overtake me. The Lord will protect the righteous wherever they are, conversely if it is our time to go, it won't matter if we are on the road or at home, the Lord will take us.
Elder Holland gave a great talk a couple of year ago and he had these words to say:
First, we must never, in any age or circumstance, let fear and the father of fear (Satan himself) divert us from our faith and faithful living. There have always been questions about the future. Every young person or every young couple in every era has had to walk by faith into what has always been some uncertainty—starting with Adam and Eve in those first tremulous steps out of the Garden of Eden. But that is all right. This is the plan. It will be okay. Just be faithful. God is in charge. He knows your name and He knows your need.
Faith in the Lord Jesus Christ—that is the first principle of the gospel. We must go forward, as it says in K. Newell Dayley’s hymn commemorating our pioneers of the past, “with faith in ev’ry footstep.”1 But like those pioneers, you do have to keep taking them—one step and then another and then the next. That is how tasks are accomplished, that is how goals are achieved, and that is how frontiers are conquered. In more divine language, that is how worlds are created and it is how your world will be created.
God expects you to have enough faith and determination and enough trust in Him to keep moving, keep living, keep rejoicing. In fact, He expects you not simply to face the future (that sounds pretty grim and stoic); He expects you to embrace and shape the future—to love it and rejoice in it and delight in your opportunities.
God is anxiously waiting for the chance to answer your prayers and fulfill your dreams, just as He always has. But He can’t if you don’t pray, and He can’t if you don’t dream. In short, He can’t if you don’t believe.
Drawing upon my vast background of children’s bedtime stories, I say you can pick your poultry. You can either be like Chicken Little and run about shouting “The sky is falling; the sky is falling” or you can be like the Little Red Hen and forge ahead with the productive tasks of living, regardless of who does or doesn’t help you or who does or doesn’t believe just the way you believe.
http://speeches.byu.edu/reader/reader.p ... 6&x=71&y=7
http://speeches.byu.edu/?act=viewitem&id=1371
Re: Summer Vacation to Family Reunion?
Posted: June 16th, 2010, 9:16 am
by mattctr
I would tend to agree with Mark on this one. Pack your basic survival kit, if that gives you a little comfort. However, follow the promised comforter and live a happy life. Create a wonderful family bonding experience for you, your spouse, and your children. Be grateful for the opportunities you have to live in happy times. Be wise, avoid debt, and petition the Lord and listen to His counsel for your best direction in such matters.
Re: Summer Vacation to Family Reunion?
Posted: June 16th, 2010, 9:21 am
by shadow
A pit in your stomach might be the answer (excuse

) your looking for, I'd certainly use it as an excuse to avoid a family reunion 8)
Speaking of family reunuins, I have one in Idaho this weekend

Re: Summer Vacation to Family Reunion?
Posted: June 16th, 2010, 9:25 am
by ldsmomofthree
Thanks guys...your thoughts and quotes are helping me to make sense of this. I just hate to spend the money on vacation when we are only up to about a 4/5 month supply of food.
Re: Summer Vacation to Family Reunion?
Posted: June 16th, 2010, 11:28 am
by believer
This may be your last opportunity to all get together, especially in such a beautiful place. However, you must follow the Spirit. When you pray, pray that you can be receptive to the promptings, and understand them when they come. You might even fast about it.
Believer
Re: Summer Vacation to Family Reunion?
Posted: June 16th, 2010, 11:41 am
by Mahonri
I would say follow your "covenant" with each other. Not that anything will happen during the vacation, I am sure nothing will. However, keeping your promises to each other and following through with your personal commitments and following feelings (hopefully the spirit) are good things to get into the habit of following.
Re: Summer Vacation to Family Reunion?
Posted: June 16th, 2010, 12:55 pm
by Istand4truth
Before this oil spill happened our family planned a trip to Orlando Florida in mid July. Now I am struggling with a trip to a location where my family could be poisoned by Benzene or forced to evacuate or even hit by a tsunami caused by the explosion of a huge oil bubble in the gulf. Is this crazy or what?
Anyone have any thoughts on this? Should we go anyway? We have already spent mega bucks on airplane tickets that are nonrefundable. Yikes! Since when has planning a simple family vacation been so difficult?
I would love to hear your thoughts on this.
As far as going to Yellowstone I would go there in a heartbeat. It is in the west, quiet, rural, beautiful and safe! We just went there in the fall and had a blast! I say go and enjoy yourself and stop worrying. We need to continue to live our lives and have faith that the Lord will protect us while being mindful and prudent in all things.
Re: Summer Vacation to Family Reunion?
Posted: June 16th, 2010, 1:40 pm
by ChelC
I have made this a matter of prayer and still have that pit in my stomach.
I think this is your answer. If you feel that pit in answer to your prayers -
and not because of your own possibly misplaced anxieties, then I'd make your apologies right away.
Usually the Spirit answers me in exactly the way you describe...
pit = no
peace = yes
Re: Summer Vacation to Family Reunion?
Posted: June 16th, 2010, 2:13 pm
by Henmasher
ChelC wrote:I have made this a matter of prayer and still have that pit in my stomach.
I think this is your answer. If you feel that pit in answer to your prayers -
and not because of your own possibly misplaced anxieties, then I'd make your apologies right away.
Usually the Spirit answers me in exactly the way you describe...
pit = no
peace = yes
I totally agree, that pit may represent something other than a worldly issue. The economy may not collapse but the spirit may prompt you to avoid something else. The spirit has told me to not pull out of the driveway yet....so I wait and then I feel it is time to go. Who knows what would have happened but listening is the key. Maybe you have concerns that when resolved may put that pit in the stomach away. I would talk to your spouse about it and then pray together. I find the faith of many much stronger than the faith of one when faced with decisions. What do the kids think also? Just a thought
Re: Summer Vacation to Family Reunion?
Posted: June 16th, 2010, 4:28 pm
by KOMYU
This is very interesting as I have gone through a very similar experience. I was fighting the idea of going on a trip to the family reunion for most of the year. I spoke with a great friend who gave me great advice about not giving in to fear. Once I cleared the fear out of the way then I was able to pray about the matter and the answer was simply amazing. I was sitting in a sacrament meeting about a month ago and a sister from the stake was giving her talk on genealogy. She gave some advice from Elder Packer which stated to hold or attend family reunions each year. The spirit immediately confirmed it and I had received my answer.
I once heard it said from Elder Busche that when something is wrong God will give you clarity but never doubts. I simply had to cast the fear out and then I could pray and receive my answer. Hope this helps.
Re: Summer Vacation to Family Reunion?
Posted: June 16th, 2010, 5:00 pm
by Nan
We canceled our trip to florida because of the oil spill, but we didn't have plane tickets. We were going to drive. So we went to sea world in texas instead. It was loads of fun. I have to say that for me, I think we need to find the joy in life and keep living. Not putting off life because of what "might" happen. I say go to the family reunion. I also say if your tickets are non refundable, use them. (for the person about going to florida). I know too many people who put off living because the second coming was coming and it still isn't here.
Re: Summer Vacation to Family Reunion?
Posted: June 16th, 2010, 5:07 pm
by Jnewby
If ye are prepared, ye shall not fear. We can't live our lives in fear of the future. The world has been in a tailspin for quite some time, the church continues to build temples and we are told to plant cherry trees; enjoy your family as it will become more difficult in the future.
Re: Summer Vacation to Family Reunion?
Posted: June 16th, 2010, 7:41 pm
by will
Why don't you take it to the Lord?
Re: Summer Vacation to Family Reunion?
Posted: June 16th, 2010, 7:48 pm
by shadow
will wrote:Why don't you take it to the Lord?
She did and received a pit in her stomach. No go.
Re: Summer Vacation to Family Reunion?
Posted: June 17th, 2010, 5:32 pm
by NoGreaterLove
I think we are overlooking one major thing though guys. She does not have her years supply of food which is counsel from our prophet. I say follow the prophet first, then if you have money left over, go on vacation.
Re: Summer Vacation to Family Reunion?
Posted: June 17th, 2010, 5:55 pm
by ready2prepare
I say follow the promptings of the Spirit and
the food storage and family reunion will fall
simply and clearly into their proper place.
Men (and women) are that they might have
joy. And where do we find our greatest joy?
"God hath not given us a spirit of fear; but of
power, and of love, and of a sound mind."
2nd Timothy 1:7
Best Regards,
Sharon in Mississippi
Re: Summer Vacation to Family Reunion?
Posted: June 18th, 2010, 12:30 am
by Rose Garden
ldsmomofthree wrote:I am in conflict about attending my husbands immediate family reunion this summer because I am concerned about the geo/political events that are happening around the world.
Last summer after our family vacation to my side of the families reunion, my husband and I "vowed" to each other no more trips or vacations until we had a full years food storage and more savings in the bank.
About a month later his Mom announced that she rented a huge cabin in Yosemite for a gathering of all siblings for the summer. I immediately had a pit in my stomach last fall that by summer I surely did not want to be traveling 2500 miles away from home. As the days get closer to leave I still have a hesitation about going.
My husband does not really follow to much of the day to day happenings in the world and relies on me to inform him. If I insisted on staying home, he would consent to not going. I am concerned that events could turn on a dime and we could be stranded miles and miles from home.
I turned to this forum for advice because I think the people on here see the world as I see it. I have made this a matter of prayer and still have that pit in my stomach.
Your thoughts would be appriciated so much!
If it were just anxiety about the world's craziness, then I would agree with most of the advice given, but you and your husband made a promise. You should not take that lightly.
However, I don't think you should simply skip the trip because of that promise either. The Lord knows things we don't, so we should always seek to know his will. I think that since you've prayed yourself and cannot be sure of an answer that you ought to be counseling with your husband over it. Share all your feelings with him and find out what he thinks. Then both of you can pray about it and you don't have to rely solely on your own thoughts and feelings.
Really, your husband is the only one who can give you counsel in this thing. None of us can receive the revelation you need to make the decision. He can and he's also very much involved in the situation. He'll be the one who will help you most to make the right decision.
Re: Summer Vacation to Family Reunion?
Posted: June 18th, 2010, 4:04 pm
by Squally
ldsmomofthree,
With your husband, make a list of all the reasons you should go on one side, and all the reasons you should not go on the other. Put all the reasons down. Discuss this list with your husband, and weight the two sides of the list against each other until you have reached a firm conclusion of what choice you will make.
Pray with the decision you have made (together) and explain to the Lord that this is your conclusion you have reached with your own wisdom, and now you would seek his confirmation. Even go to the temple if possible. If the spirit confirms your decision, you are correct. If you recieve a stupor or feel uneasy about your decision, then start over with your list and analyze the pros and cons again to get the correct conclusion, then once again seek confirmaiton from the Lord. This has worked with my wife and I when we had important decisions to make. Hope this helps.