One thought at the moment before I lose ItMangus MacLeod wrote: ↑September 19th, 2022, 7:01 am Thanks for all the major, MAJOR contributions to this thread, especially when it comes to the issue of male LEADERSHIP.
But where I had really hoped the discussion might go for a while, and there might be some useful discussion about the whole concept of legitimate female PRODUCTIVE contributions to the whole equation, and I don’t necessarily mean money. There are lots of ways women can make major productive contributions to a family that have genuine economic implications, but do not involve money per se. Simple frugality and resourcefulness can have major economic implications at the family level.
But, a familiar pattern that we see in the modern world and modern Mormondom is that the husband is the sole or primary producer and provider, and the wife is the big consumer. She often wants to spend it as fast (or faster) than he can produce it. Or maybe she does have a job. But she will typically still want to spend it faster than they can both produce it. The main reason most Mormon women want to have a job is so that they can have a bigger, fancier house, nicer clothes, more hair, a nicer car, bigger boobs, and at the very least try to do a better job of keeping up with the Joneses.
By nature, she is a consumer, and she believes that is her right, and even if, unlike Sarah, arguing with men isn’t a game to her, spending money is. And that’s okay. Spending money can be fun. But there’s got to be some balance between consumption and production. Just like this country, if you consume more than you produce, you’re going to be in trouble. But how many women, and especially modern Mormon women, can see this? How many modern Mormon women have any legitimate productive interests and capacity? In the Church, I can’t think of hardly any positive role models, and particularly those who have managed to balance both productive and reproductive interests and capacity. Most high power career women in the Church have not more than two children at most. And even if they do end up producing something, do they consume even more.
In the modern lexicon of art, media, government, politics and reality, perhaps the best example I can think of the hero woman role model that I am talking about comes from art -- Demelza in Poldark. In my view, Demelza is the quintessential hero woman in any age or time. She is Eve — a true help mate, and still a net producer rather than a net consumer. Ross Poldark is also a true male hero -- and a polygamist. The show clearly portrays the endless tug of war between the male nature and the female nurture -- although that hadn't really occurred to me until just now.
But a different kind of woman and her influence, have completely taken over the modern, developed world. Female nature-based nurture, including its focus on control and consumption orientation, now dominates, controls and has dominion over almost everything in our modern developed world — our governments, our policies, our economies, our churches, the media — virtually everything. At the macro level, they completely control modern culture and society, and at the micro, individual level they have our testicles and at least half of everything we own locked up in their purses.
Am I wrong?
Sarah, here’s your real chance to move beyond sex and defend the female case for neutering males and dominating the modern world. Talk about “We have learned from said experience that it is the nature and disposition of almost all . . . .” While that may be true, who is it really that is exercising dominion in the modern world? Really?
Thoughts?
Poldark Delmeza 1.jpg
One correlation to what consumerism feels like,
It feels like harvesting produce that you’ve raised or eating a cake that you’ve made.
Since you didn’t produce it or make it, the feeling of gain is hollow. It doesn’t satisfy so .... BUY MORE. It’s a vicious cycle.